How People Pleasing Fuels Eating Disorders (And Why No One Sees It) — with Marnie Davis, LMHC, CEDS
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What if your “little food problem” — the restriction, bingeing, or rigid food rules — is actually your nervous system trying to survive?
In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by Marnie Davis, LMHC, Certified Eating Disorder Specialist and Consultant, Certified EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA-Approved Consultant, and HAES®-aligned clinician.
Together, we explore the hidden link between people pleasing, trauma, neurodivergence, and eating disorders — and why so many women, clinicians, and families completely miss what’s really happening beneath the surface.
This is a compassionate, non-shaming, neurodivergent-affirming episode that reframes eating disorders from “What’s wrong with me?” to “What happened to me, and how did my system try to keep me alive?”
⚠️ Content Note: We discuss eating disorders, body image, trauma, dissociation, and co-occurring mental health struggles. Please listen with care and take breaks as needed.✨ In This Episode, We Explore:
- How, from a trauma lens, eating disorders are maladaptive coping strategies that once made sense to your system
- The impact of attachment injuries, perfectionism, and people-pleasing on food, body image, and control
- Why eating disorders are not about vanity or willpower, but about safety, power, and relief from overwhelming sensations and emotions
- The role of culture, family rules, and “finish your plate” messages in shaping food beliefs
- How neurodivergent brains (ADHD, autism, sensory sensitivities) can be especially vulnerable to disordered eating
- Why one person dies every hour from an eating disorder and why a comprehensive medical + therapeutic team is crucial
- What healing can look like: becoming more self-led, value-driven, and authentically you
👤 Connect with Our Guest: Marnie Davis, LMHC, CEDS
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🔗 www.MarnieDavisLMHC.com
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🔗 Davis Counseling and Consulting
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💌 If This Episode Spoke To You…
- Share it with a friend, client, or loved one who struggles with food, people pleasing, or feeling “never enough.”
- Subscribe so you don’t miss future conversations on people pleasing, boundaries, trauma, neurodivergence, and empowered living.
- Take a quiet moment after listening to ask yourself:
You’re not broken. You’re a system that learned how to survive. 🩷