What are the most important but underrated characteristics we should be looking for in a partner? And what qualities do we place too much emphasis on, that don't actually predict relationship satisfaction? How can we use the apps in a more productive way? We explore these questions and more with Logan Ury. Logan is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of How To Not Die Alone. Previously, Logan was the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge and she also ran Google’s behavioural science team—the Irrational Lab.

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Amantha and Monique discuss the dating mindset that will help you have the most success during the first few dates with someone.

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What sort of people benefit most from a matchmaking agency? What are the most important qualities we should be looking for in a mate? How can we meet people outside of the apps? We explore these questions and more with Trudy Gilbert. Trudy is the Founder of Elite Introductions, where she has been matchmaking Australians for over 15 years. She is known within the media as Australia’s Millionaire Matchmaker and is the author of 49 Secrets of an Elite Matchmaker.

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• https://www.eliteintroductions.com.au/
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Amantha and Monique discuss what you need to STOP looking for in your search for a mate.

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How can we avoid that "I don't know what to wear" feeling before a first date? What are wardrobe hacks we can use to look and feel great? How can we spend "smarter" when we go shopping for clothes? What are the best ways to spruce up our look without spending lots of money? We explore these questions and more with Melissa Lewis. Melissa is a stylist and the Founder and CEO of The Ascension Group, where she helps women in the corporate world present themselves more confidently and authentically.

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Amantha and Monique discuss the most important dating theory you need to know about - Attachment Theory - and how to work out your attachment style.

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What are the most common dating scams that you need to watch out for? How can we get better at spotting fake profiles? What are the psychological principles that scammers take advantage of? We explore these questions and more with Aunshul Rege. Aunshel is an Associate Professor with the Department of Criminal Justice at Temple University, USA. She has spent the last ten years researching cybersecurity and cyberattacks.

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Today’s episode is our tip of the week! Amantha and Monique discuss a practical strategy on how to get over something that affects every online dater - dating fatigue.

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