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  • Taylor Swift Engagement & Divorce QDROs: Sealed Scandals, 5’11 Dating Fails | IJWTD Podcast | Episode 36
    Sep 12 2025

    In this episode, we start with Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift’s engagement and then move to French Montana’s reported engagement to a Dubai Princess. We break down how a billionaire’s son won a bid to seal his divorce records after affair claims and why sealing court cases is rare in Illinois. We take a closer look at dividing retirement assets in divorce, what a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) involves, and the challenges of valuing and splitting property. The discussion continues with modifying parenting arrangements, the risks of representing yourself in court, and the benefits of attorney-assisted mediation. We wrap up with a shift into dating, including GQ’s piece on why apps overlook men who are 5'11", and how online dating compares to real-life connections.

    Timestamps:

    01:00 Travis Kelce & Taylor Swift Engagement

    11:00 French Montana engagement to Dubai Princess

    13:51 Billionaire’s Son Wins Bid to Seal Divorce Case After Affair Claims

    15:30 Sealing Court Records is Rare in Illinois

    20:23 Dividing retirement assets in divorce cases

    23:30 Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO)

    29:09 Division complexities and valuation

    31:58 Modification of parenting

    37:40 Self-represented and following the rules

    40:41 Attorney assisted mediation

    42:33 Mediation and legal advice

    50:35 Dating Apps Are Leaving 5'11" Men Behind | GQ

    54:00 Real Life vs. Online Dating

    Episode Links:

    Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift engagement: https://bit.ly/4nxjhal

    Flavor Flav Volunteers to Officiate Taylor Swift-Travis Kelce Wedding: https://bit.ly/3K0n4OM

    French Montana Engaged to Dubai Princess Sheikha Mahra: https://bit.ly/4mWREHz

    Son of Va. bowling billionaire Divorce Case: https://bit.ly/4m8wfdn

    Dating Apps Are Leaving 5'11" Men Behind | GQ: https://bit.ly/4phSK2e

    Handy Divorce Links:

    Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2

    For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com

    For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh

    To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar

    Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr

    And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer

    As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

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    58 min
  • Ashley Biden Divorce, Same-Sex Ruling & Summer Dating Trends | IJWTD Podcast | Episode 35
    Sep 5 2025
    In this episode, we discuss Ashley Biden filing for divorce after 13 years of marriage, as well as the Supreme Court being asked to reconsider the landmark same-sex marriage ruling. We also explore recent changes in marriage-based Green Card scrutiny and updates related to the Child Status Protection Act (CSPA). The conversation then turns to divorce statistics and high-profile international cases, including those involving Russian oligarchs, along with the legal complexities of getting divorced in another country. Next, we dive into annulments and what makes a marriage legally invalid, before shifting to lighter topics on modern dating—such as women swiping left on summer flings, Tawkify’s Summer 2025 dating trends, and the traits most likely to lead to a second date. We wrap up the episode with a look at a new app for dog lovers and explore why men face higher rates of rejection on dating apps. Timestamps: 00:48 Former first-daughter Ashley Biden files for divorce after 13 years of marriage 02:09 Supreme Court formally asked to overturn landmark same-sex marriage ruling 05:41 Marriage Green Card Scrutiny & CSPA Changes 09:03 Divorce Statistics 14:14 Russian Oligarch Divorce 17:01 Legal aspects of divorce in another country 18:11 Annulments and Invalidity of Marriage 24:58 Women Swiping Left on Summer Flings 28:40 Tawkify’s Summer 2025 Trends 31:45 Traits most likely to lead to a second date 33:05 New app for dog lovers 34:37 Why do men face more rejection on dating apps Episode Links: Divorce Stories Former first-daughter Ashley Biden files for divorce after 13 years of marriage - http://bit.ly/469xp2l Marriage Stories Supreme Court formally asked to overturn landmark same-sex marriage ruling - http://bit.ly/3K39OJ8 Marriage Green Card Scrutiny & CSPA Changes — News Digest, 8/2025 - http://bit.ly/4ggONac Why the Divorce Decline Might Be Bad News | Institute for Family Studies - http://bit.ly/3JK2lPg Dating Stories Judge Approves Divorce For Vladimir Gusinsky, Wife, As Once Powerful Oligarch Claims He Is Broke - http://bit.ly/4gaW0Zp Hard Topic Annulment vs. Divorce Illinois annulments (Declaration of Invalidity under 750 ILCS 5/301) void marriages as if they never existed, for reasons like fraud, incapacity, bigamy, or non-consummation (if due to impotence), with strict time limits (e.g., 90 days for some grounds). No spousal support typically, and property reverts to pre-marriage status. Vs. divorce, which ends a valid marriage with full division/support. Generalizable: Most states have similar grounds but differing timelines; perfect for short-marriage cases or religious angles, contrasting with no-fault divorce trends. Dating Trends and Apps Segment Women Swiping Left on Summer Flings—Hily Survey: Survey: Is the Summer Fling Still a Thing For Americans? - http://bit.ly/4niBUyH Tawkify’s Summer 2025 Trends: Adventure Dates and Post-Divorce Glow-Ups: What Q2 2025 Dating Trends Reveal About Real Connection | Blog | Tawkify - http://bit.ly/4niOeis Why do men face more rejection on dating apps? Study reveals an interesting reality check - Hindustan Times - http://bit.ly/41Bb1gS New Charlotte-based dating app for dog lovers launches soon - http://bit.ly/3V04zwk Handy Divorce Links: Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2 For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.
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    37 min
  • Denise Richards Divorce, Tyreek Hill Split, Celebrity Rumors and Divorce News | IJWTD Podcast | Ep. 34
    Aug 30 2025

    In this episode, we cover Denise Richards’ divorce drama, Tyreek Hill’s split, and an HGTV star planning a fourth marriage. We look at which US state has the highest divorce rate, the role of postnuptial agreements, and how divorce settlements work in Great Britain. We also talk about Hinge’s “No Ordinary Love” campaign, the Katy Perry and Justin Trudeau rumors, the frustration behind the phrase “I just want this done,” and what’s being shared in the high net worth divorce subreddit.

    Timestamps:

    00:02:00 Denise Richards' Divorce Drama

    00:08:30 Tyreek Hill’s Divorce

    00:13:44 HGTV Star's Fourth Marriage Plans

    00:15:42 Which state in the US has an alarming divorce rate?

    00:19:20 Postnuptial agreement

    00:23:58 Divorce settlement in Great Britain

    00:28:24 Hinge's no ordinary love campaign

    00:32:19 Katie Perry and Justin Trudeau rumors

    00:34:04 I Just Want This Done

    00:35:17 High net worth divorce subreddit

    Episode Links:

    Denise Richards’ Divorce: http://bit.ly/45BKMJP

    Tyreek ’s messy divorce: http://bit.ly/3HLhLBY

    HGTV Star, 42, Might Be Thinking of Getting Married: http://bit.ly/45FikFw

    Which state in USA has an alarming divorce rate?: http://bit.ly/471pfew

    What a £230m divorce teaches us about post-nups: http://bit.ly/3Jifxe2

    Hinge Wants to Get Gen-Z Dating: http://bit.ly/3JIwSwD

    Katy Perry joins other stars who dated politicians: http://bit.ly/45J195Q

    Handy Divorce Links:

    Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2

    For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.

    For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh

    To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar

    Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr

    And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer

    As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

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    37 min
  • Tyrese Gibson Facing Jail Time, Larry David's Wedding Rules, & Pitching Your Friend for a Date | IJWTD Podcast | Ep 33
    Aug 9 2025

    This episode takes listeners on a journey through celebrity news, legal insights, and the latest dating trends. It begins with the story of a finalized divorce after three years, followed by Tyrese Gibson’s child support case and coverage of a tragic local crime. The conversation then shifts to finance, with a Dave Ramsey-inspired discussion on debt and divorce, plus insights on prenups and reasons to marry.

    The cost of divorce takes center stage as Raif and Rahul share their perspectives, before lightening the mood with Larry David’s hilarious destination wedding rules. The episode also uncovers The Tea App’s data breach scandal and explores modern romance with the "Pitching Your Friends" dating trend and Thursday dating groups.

    A lively mix of legal advice, real-world stories, and dating culture—this episode offers something for everyone.

    Timestamps:

    0:30 Introduction

    1:06 Upcoming

    2:40 Finalized Divorce After 3 Years

    5:20 Tyrese Gibson Child Support

    7:44 Tragic Local Crime

    12:12 Dave Ramsey | Debt Divorce Question

    19:28 Prenups & Reasons to Marry

    28:40 Raif on Cost of Divorce

    36:20 Rahul on Cost of Divorce

    39:30 Larry David's Destination Wedding Rules

    42:00 The Tea App Data Breach Scandal

    46:10 Dating Trend | Pitching Your Friends

    48:30 Thursday Dating Groups

    52:20 Outro

    Links:

    Ratajkowski & Bear-McClare Finalize Divorce: https://bit.ly/4llQiou

    Tyrese Gibson Child Support: https://bit.ly/40VQ0x7

    Dad executes daughter-in-law: https://bit.ly/3HtRdVI

    Dallas Woman's Husband Has 1M in Debt: https://bit.ly/4m5urCB

    Larry David Destination Wedding Rules: https://bit.ly/45lxAqY

    Tea Dating App Legal Questions: https://bit.ly/46Kza8d

    The Hack At Tea: https://bit.ly/47kDVp4

    Pitching Your Friend: https://bit.ly/4mAkxZN

    Handy Divorce Links:

    Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2

    For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.

    For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh

    To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar

    Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr

    And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer

    As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

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    54 min
  • Bieber Tattoos, Bezos Faceplants & Braxton's 17-Day Divorce: Mastering Discovery to Get It Done! | IJWTD Podcast | Episode 32
    Jul 30 2025

    This episode covers everything from celebrity relationship scandals to the inside workings of divorce law. We unpack viral moments like Justin Bieber’s tattoo drama and Jeff Bezos’ post-launch stumble, and then take you into the real world of divorce strategy, discovery tools, and wild client stories. If you're into pop culture, legal breakdowns, or both, this episode delivers.

    Timestamps:

    04:50 Justin Bieber Tattoo Drama: Real Love or Damage Control?

    10:09 Performative Love on Instagram: Who’s It Really For?

    11:35 Jeff Bezos Faceplants After Space Launch Welcome Ceremony

    15:15 Why Bezos’ Rocket Launch Looked Like a Movie Script

    17:56 Tony Braxton’s Secret Wedding… and Immediate Divorce?

    20:55 The Shortest Marriage Ever (17 Days!)

    22:05 “Can I Return My Marriage?”: Client Stories That Stun

    22:50 The Jar Lid Divorce: Gaslighting or Dealbreaker?

    27:23 What Is Discovery in Divorce & Why It Matters

    30:40 Tools for Divorce Discovery: Interrogatories & Subpoenas

    33:37 Depositions, Requests to Admit & Legal Strategy

    35:00 How to Push for Responses with Motions to Compel

    40:45 Discovery Cutoff and Tips

    41:08 Tips and Tricks for Case Advancement

    41:27 Discovery Deposition Strategies

    44:20 Tactics for Uncooperative Spouses

    45:10 Forensic Specialists and Experts

    Episode Links:

    Justin Bieber’s Tattoo vs. Divorce Rumors: https://bit.ly/3H0D2Yb

    Bezos’ Lameness Story https://bit.ly/4kZjbqf

    Toni Braxton’s Secret Wedding and Near-Divorce: https://bit.ly/44VPtfC

    The Jar Lid Divorce: When Petty Pranks End a Marriage: https://bit.ly/4ocpgT6

    Handy Divorce Links:

    Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2

    For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.

    For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh

    To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar

    Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr

    And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer

    As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

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    52 min
  • Husbands Ditching Sick Wives? Gen Z Dating Drama, Bezos' Wedding, & AI Tinder Chaos | I Just Want This Done Podcast Ep. 31
    Jul 11 2025

    Shocking claim: Are husbands really abandoning sick wives more than vice versa? Dive into Gen Z's dating disasters, communication anxiety, and the micromance trend sweeping social media. We spill on Tyreek Hill's messy divorce, Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez's extravagant wedding plans, and Sydney Sweeney's rumored romance woes. Plus, explore AI's invading Tinder and what it spells for future relationships—from celeb scandals to legal pitfalls. Get the laughs, drama, and smart divorce tips you need to make sense of modern love gone wrong. Don't miss our take on evolving no-fault rules!

    Timestamps:

    01:53 Gen Z and Relationships

    07:27 Anxiety of Communication

    08:33 Husbands Abandoning Sick Wives

    14:34 Legal Implications of Social Media

    16:20 Celebrity Divorces: Steve Gutenberg

    18:22 Sydney Sweeny's Love Life

    20:10 Rumors and Drama

    21:12 Tyreek Hill's Divorce

    22:05 Bezos and Lauren Sanchez Wedding

    25:36 Micro-mance Trend

    28:01 AI Game on Tinder

    31:04 Future of Divorce Laws

    32:07 Pretrial Conference

    Episode Links:

    Fed Up With Situationships, Gen Z Is Ready to Commit: https://bit.ly/4635Edx

    We May Overestimate How Many Husbands Leave Their Sick Wives: https://bit.ly/4kCgr1V

    How To Protect Kids From Being In The Public Eye | HuffPost Life: https://bit.ly/46maFOz

    Three Men and a Baby star Steve Guttenberg divorcing wife: https://bit.ly/44FIFTw

    Sydney Sweeney & Jonathan Davino Update: https://bit.ly/40Mqfz0

    Tyreek Hill was served with divorce papers: https://bit.ly/46zLisk

    Bezos and Lauren Sánchez’s lavish wedding plans: https://bit.ly/44GlOXE

    “Micro-mance”: https://bit.ly/4eIbOli

    The Problem Isn't Tinder’s New AI but the Dating Apps Themselves: https://bit.ly/4lnh4h2

    The Future of No Fault Divorce Laws: https://bit.ly/3Ty4C1z

    Handy Divorce Links:

    Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2

    For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.

    For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh

    To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar

    Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr

    And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer

    As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

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    36 min
  • JLo Ben Affleck and SIA Divorce Stories, Cheating Careers Dating Advice and CCTV Drama | IJWTD Podcast | Episode 30
    Jun 27 2025

    This episode covers a mix of celebrity stories, relationship dynamics, and real-life legal cases. We start with the latest on J Lo and Ben Affleck, followed by SIA’s divorce and what it reveals about privacy, control, and separation. We also take a look at a divorce case involving a spouse secretly watching through CCTV inside the house, and what the law says about eavesdropping and home surveillance.

    Beyond the headlines, we talk about dating advice, the most common jobs linked to cheating, Disney-style dating expectations, and how to build real compatibility. We also touch on topics like phone addiction, paying on dates, physical intimacy, and being intentional in relationships.

    To wrap up, we look at how inheritance is treated in divorce and the serious issue of coercive control and domestic violence.

    Timestamps:

    00:55 J Lo and Ben Affleck

    03:04 Brazilian divorce

    05:17 Spiritualism in Brazil

    07:20 Most likely occupations for cheaters

    09:30 Journalism and Social Media

    10:18 Dating Advice and Disney Dating

    12:12 Determining Compatibility

    13:25 Physical Intimacy in Relationships

    15:56 Being Intentional

    17:30 Playing Hard to Get

    17:35 Paying for Someone

    20:20 The Lost Art of Dating

    22:07 Sia's Divorce

    24:04 Coercive Control and Domestic Violence

    30:05 Divorce Case Involving a Spouse Watching Through CCTV Inside the House

    35:54 Inheritance and Marital Assets

    Episode Links:

    JLo and Ben Affleck Settlement: https://bit.ly/4nqBebo

    Lovesick Brazilians Turn to Sorcerers: https://bit.ly/3ZEYF6s

    Which Jobs Are Most Likely to Cheat: https://bit.ly/4kTYahs

    Old-School Dating Tips: https://bit.ly/3HL92zH

    Sia Files for Divorce: https://bit.ly/45s1StQ

    Handy Divorce Links:

    Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2

    For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.

    For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh

    To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar

    Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr

    And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer

    As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

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    38 min
  • Dua Lipa Wedding Rumours Jessica Alba Divorce and What You Need to Know About Arbitration and Postnups | IJWTD Podcast | Episode 29
    Jun 13 2025

    This week we talk about the latest buzz around Dua Lipa’s possible wedding and Jessica Alba’s divorce. We get into what happens in high asset breakups, why marriage rates are shifting for college-educated women, and Bill Gates’ sudden media appearances. We also explain how divorce arbitration works, when it might be better than going to court, and what to know about buying a house or signing a postnup during a split.

    Timestamps:

    01:28 Dua Lipa's Wedding Speculation

    04:47 Jessica Alba's Divorce Update

    07:27 Complexities of High Asset Divorce

    08:55 Marriage Rates and Education

    09:58 Challenges for College Educated Women

    11:40 Bill Gates' Publicity Tour

    15:25 Divorce Arbitrations Overview

    16:32 Private Trial and Rules

    17:20 Retired Judges as Arbitrators

    17:52 History of Divorce Arbitration

    19:00 Issues with Cook County Court

    19:53 Advantages of Arbitration Over Court

    21:46 Appeals in Binding Arbitration

    23:18 Buying a House During Divorce

    26:00 Postnuptial Agreement for Assets

    27:40 Dividing Marital Debt

    30:58 Post-decree Modifications of Support

    Episode Links:

    Dua Lipa’s Engagement: https://bit.ly/4kAWBV1

    Marriage Gap for Women: https://bit.ly/43NILZN

    Jessica Alba’s Ex: https://bit.ly/4mXeCyX

    Bill Gates Reflects on Divorce: https://bit.ly/4e43Rqu

    Handy Divorce Links:

    Need a consultation for your Chicago area divorce? Click here https://go.stglaw.com/get-started-v2

    For more information about STG Divorce Law, visit www.stglawfirm.com.

    For I Just Want This Done, our bestselling guide to divorce, check out https://a.co/d/1QL4rBh

    To sign up for our free biweekly Illinois divorce webinar, go here - https://go.stglaw.com/webinar

    Want to join our free Illinois Divorce Support Network, our private Facebook group? Link is here - https://www.facebook.com/groups/628976674432197/?_rdr

    And for social media, free educational content, podcast, and more, check out: https://linktr.ee/raifordpalmer

    As always, state law varies. This is not legal advice. Consult with a skilled divorce lawyer in your area for information about your specific situation.

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    36 min