This week, we gossip about Ally and Alyse's eventful Mother's Day experiences.  Alyse shares about the sleepless nights she is still enduring with her lively son, and we explore the differing perspectives on surnames during separation. Tune in for an engaging episode that captures the ups and downs of navigating co-parenting in the modern world. Let's dive into the chaos together!

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In honor of Mother's Day, we want to give a big shoutout to all the Blendie Mamas out there. You are doing an amazing job!

On this episode, we're talking about how we celebrate Mother's Day in our blended family dynamic. Do you remember who does what? Do you have any special traditions? We share some of our favorite ways to celebrate this special day.  We also discuss pregnancy loss and the impacts that can have on the way we celebrate Mothers Day.

But it's not all about Mother's Day - we dive into the topic of boundaries in co-parenting households. We know it can be challenging to establish boundaries when you're navigating a blended family. Plus, Alyse talks about some issues she's been having with Henry and her nose... you don't want to miss it!

**Trigger warning** If you have experienced a pregnancy loss, miscarriage or a stillbirth, please be aware these topics are mentioned in this episode.  

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Alyse shares a hilarious and cringe-worthy story about Henry's explosive mishap.  Ally delves into the countless considerations she took before extending her blended family,  describing the difficult and thoughtful decisions she made to ensure the best outcome for everyone involved.  Lastly our hosts offer thoughtful and practical advice on the contentious issue of whether a 19 year old should be paying board.  Tune in for these engaging and insightful stories and discussions.

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In this episode, we spill the tea on some not-so-glamorous moments.  We start with Ally's nip slip at swimming lessons, omg embarrassment plus! We're all about keeping it real and laughing it off.  Then we get into Alyse's imposter syndrome - feeling like a fake in your own blended family is a real struggle. But we're here to tell you that you're not alone!  And finally, we talk about how Ally took her daughter to a butterfly house, entirely forgetting that she is terrified of flying insects!

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We have had some robust banter which stretched and challenged us both.  And we wanted to share it with you, to show our creative process and the way we manage to get through disagreements. This week we discovered that coparenting in a blended family has nuances that neither of us expected. We uncovered the power of language and introduce some new terminology we are going to be intentionally using in an attempt to change the narrative. Join us for a deep dive into language and the online narrative, and why we think it needs to change!

OG Mum - OG is a term used to describe a biological family member who is original or 'OG' to the child, but is currently separated and/or part of a blended family.  The term also recognises the families resilience and adaptability as they navigate the challenges of coparenting in a complex family structure.

Bonus Mum - Bonus family member is a term used to describe a non-OG family member.  The term 'Bonus' recognises the unique and special bond that can develop between family members, regardless of their biological connection.

Jigsaw Baby - 'Jigsaw Baby' is a term used to describe a baby who unites the different sides of a blended family, like a jigsaw puzzle.  It emphasises the important role that a new baby can play in creating a sense of togetherness and unity within a blended family.

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Ally and Alyse explore the complexities of dating with kids and coparents, a blendie bares her soul about losing control when her babes go to another household for a week and Alyse has a conniption over the impending flu season. Thank goodness for bleach! 

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Welcome to "I Left it at Mum's House" podcast, where we talk all things blended family. In this episode, hosts Ally and Alyse tackle the tough topics of co-parenting with a difficult ex, choosing schools for kids, and dealing with kids who leave their stuff behind. They'll give you the inside scoop on how to navigate co-parenting with a parent who's not on board, chat about the challenges when selecting the best schools for your children, and offer solutions for frustrated blendies dealing with forgetful kids. Tune in and get ready for some real talk on the challenges of blended family living!

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Welcome to "I Left it at Mum's House" podcast, where we tackle the modern challenges of blended family living. In this episode, hosts Ally and Alyse introduce themselves and dive into the topics of gifting coparents and meal planning. They discuss the nuances of gift-giving etiquette in co-parenting relationships and offer tips for navigating potentially awkward situations. Then, they explore the age-old question of who cooks for dinner and how to handle picky eaters in a blended family setting. Tune in to hear their personal experiences and strategies for success in these areas. Thanks for listening, and don't forget to join us next time for more discussions on the realities of blended family living.

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