In this raw, deeply honest, and at times darkly funny episode of WTF Just Happened? Life Is Messy, Let’s Talk About It, Hilary shares the true story of the day a cheerful call from “Susan at Wells Fargo” blew the lid off her marriage — and ultimately became the catalyst for divorce, reinvention, and rising from the ashes.

Hilary takes us inside what it’s really like to be a mom of three young daughters, trusting her spouse to handle the finances, only to discover massive hidden debt, emotional stonewalling, and a life built on silence. From bankruptcy court and financial ruin to divorce, custody battles, restraining orders, and rebuilding from a credit score in the 500s, this episode pulls no punches.

But this isn’t just a divorce story.

It’s a story about:
• Financial infidelity and hidden debt
• Emotional neglect and stonewalling in marriage
• The silent unraveling so many women experience behind closed doors
• Divorce as a business decision, not just an emotional one
• Rebuilding after bankruptcy, divorce, and betrayal
• Finding joy, love, and stability after your life explodes
• Why trusting your intuition can save your future

Hilary also shares practical, hard-won advice for women who may be in the thick of it right now — including how to prepare financially, protect yourself, and take small steps toward independence even when you feel stuck, scared, or overwhelmed.

Along the way, she reminds us that even when life feels like a total plot twist, there can be silver linings — new love, deeper self-trust, laughter again, and a life you never could have imagined for yourself.

If you’ve ever:
• Been blindsided in marriage
• Trusted someone who broke that trust
• Felt trapped by finances, fear, or silence
• Walked through divorce, grief, or reinvention in midlife
• Wondered if it’s possible to truly start over

This episode will make you feel seen, understood, and less alone.

Grab your emotionally supportive snack, pour a cocktail or mocktail, and settle in. This is one you won’t forget.

✨ Content note: Adult language, real talk about divorce, finances, and emotional trauma.

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Disclaimer:
This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The views shared are based on personal experience and do not constitute medical, legal, financial, or professional advice. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your individual situation. Guest opinions are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of the hosts or this podcast.