Let’s be clear—I’m not dragging myself… but I am holding myself accountable. 😭

In this episode, we’re talking about that moment when you realize the common denominator in the chaos might be you—and instead of spiraling, you finally start evolving.

We get into self-sabotage in disguise, why “I’m just protecting my peace” sometimes means avoiding growth, and how unhealed habits can sneak into your dating life, friendships, and boundaries wearing a cute outfit and good intentions.

This isn’t a self-hate episode. It’s a self-awareness with edges episode. Because once you recognize where you’re the problem, you also realize you have the power to be the solution. And that? That’s grown.

If you’ve ever said “why does this keep happening to me?” and immediately followed it with “wait…”—this one’s for you. Pull up, laugh a little, get checked gently, and leave better than you came. 💅🏽🎧

Not everyone who starts with you is meant to finish with you. In this episode, Destiny gets real about what it means to protect your peace by reevaluating the people in your circle. From spotting the subtle red flags in friendships to understanding when it’s time to create distance, this is your reminder that peace is the new flex. Sometimes the biggest glow-up isn’t about looks or money—it’s about who you allow in your space.

In this episode of Hey Girl Hey, Destiny keeps it all the way real about setting boundaries — and why people love to call you the villain the moment you say “no.” From family dynamics to friendships and everything in between, Destiny shares personal stories and hard-earned lessons about closing doors, protecting her peace, and refusing to feel guilty about it. Boundaries aren’t walls — they’re locks, and you hold the only key. Tune in for laughter, truth, and a reminder that choosing yourself doesn’t make you the bad guy — it makes you free.

On this episode of Hey Girl Hey, we’re diving into the world of unsolicited opinions—the ones nobody asked for but somehow always find their way into our lives. From social media comments to real-life side conversations, there’s always somebody ready to insert their two cents. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned that not every situation calls for my opinion, and sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is keep it to yourself. Tune in as I unpack how learning to hold back has shaped my growth, why every opinion doesn’t need an audience, and how embracing this lesson has brought me more peace and perspective in my 30s.

The audacity is on clearance and folks are stocking up — showing up broke, bold, and emotionally bankrupt. In this episode, Destiny is dragging the delusion, dodging the bare minimum, and reminding you that access to your energy is no longer free. If they came with coupons, send them back. 💅🏾

Let’s be clear — I’m not who I used to be, and I’m not apologizing for it. In this episode, we’re getting into the real of what growth looks like when you’re finally choosing you. That means peace over people-pleasing, elevation over old cycles, and purpose over petty.

We’re unpacking why growing hurts, how to stop second-guessing your journey, and the power of walking in who God called you to be — even if folks don’t clap for it.

This isn’t your “feel-good” chat. It’s your wake-up call with love, scripture, and a side of “nah, don’t play with me.”

Tune in and tap into the version of you that’s been waiting to rise.

Welcome to the very first episode of Hey Girl Hey — a space created straight from the heart. In this intro, I’m sharing what finally pushed me to press record, the fears I had to overcome, and the purpose behind this podcast. Whether you’re navigating life, healing, growing, or just need a moment to breathe and feel seen — you’re in the right place. This isn’t just about me talking; it’s about us connecting. So grab your tea, get comfy, and let’s talk about starting scared, staying real, and showing up anyway. This is just the beginning.

Let’s get one thing straight—feeling behind does not mean you’re failing. It means you’ve been comparing your real life to everybody else’s highlight reel and calling it truth. And we’re done with that.

In this Clarity Call, we’re talking about the pressure to be further, do more, and have it all figured out by some imaginary deadline nobody actually agreed to. We unpack how comparison messes with your confidence, why rushing your timeline won’t speed up your purpose, and how growth can be happening even when it looks quiet, slow, or messy.

If you’ve been side-eyeing your own progress, questioning your decisions, or feeling like everyone else got the memo except you—this episode is your reminder to chill, refocus, and stop bullying yourself. You’re not late. You’re not lost. You’re just becoming.

Pull up, get checked lovingly, and leave this Clarity Call knowing you’re exactly where you need to be. Period. 🎙️✨