In this episode, Avi Proctor sits down with Rabbi Reuven Schrier for an honest conversation about Modern Orthodoxy, student identity, and what often shifts after a year in Israel.

Many students return from yeshiva or seminary questioning the label “Modern Orthodox.” But are they rejecting the vision — or reacting to how it’s been lived and taught?

Together, they explore where gaps may exist between ideals and reality, how Rav Soloveitchik’s hashkafa is often misunderstood, and the roles parents, schools, and communities play in shaping authentic Judaism. The episode also looks at why students are drawn to extremes — and what a healthier, grounded middle can look like post-Israel.

This is a conversation about listening to hard questions — and asking whether the system reflects what it was meant to be.

In this episode of Israel Gap Year B’IYUN, Avi Proctor sits down with Rabbi Yamin Goldsmith from Sha’alavim for Women to talk honestly about the challenge of Ahavat Yisrael.



Rabbi Goldsmith shares why loving every Jew doesn’t come easily, what that mitzvah actually demands, and how the events of October 7th reframed the way he thinks about Jewish unity. Through personal stories and real examples, the conversation explores practical ways to work on loving others — especially those who think or live differently — and what helps turn this value from an idea into lived action.

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The goal of this episode is simple: to understand why Shraga chose to start a Hesder program, why now, and why specifically within this yeshiva. Rather than speaking in broad terms, the rabbis open up about the thinking, responsibility, and long-term vision behind launching a program of this nature.

Throughout the conversation, they walk through what the Hesder program is intended to look like once it begins, and how Shraga plans to support students physically, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally throughout the entire experience. The discussion focuses on structure, guidance, balance, and the intentional systems being put in place to help students navigate this path in a healthy and grounded way.

This episode is meant to provide clarity and transparency — giving students and parents a real understanding of the ins and outs of a new Hesder program, who it’s meant for, and how Shraga is approaching its launch thoughtfully and responsibly.

Whether you’re a student considering a Hesder path in the future, a parent trying to understand your options, or someone interested in how yeshivot are responding to the moment we’re in, this episode offers an honest and meaningful look behind the scenes.

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