Welcome to the anniversary episode of Just Ask Her! Gracie and Tracy celebrate a full year of empowering single men with honest, actionable dating advice. In this special episode, they reflect on the journey so far, the growth of their community, and the impact the show has had on listeners around the world.

To mark the occasion, Gracie and Tracy take your most-asked dating questions out of the studio and into the real world—specifically, the Mall of America! Hear candid, unfiltered answers from women of all ages and backgrounds as they share what really matters in dating, what green and red flags they look for, and their best advice for men looking to improve their love lives.

Highlights:

• The story behind the podcast’s evolution and its first anniversary

• Why men’s vulnerability and willingness to seek advice is so powerful

• The importance of mindset and community in dating success

• On-the-street interviews with women answering your top dating questions:

  • Most attractive qualities in a man

  • Approaching women: what works and what doesn’t

  • Dating apps vs. real life vs. mutual friends

  • Height, self-improvement, and who should pay for the first date

  • Biggest red and green flags

  • The best advice for single men

• Reflections on the value of honest conversations and the supportive Just Ask Her community

  
  

  Resources:

• Self-Made Man Dating Journal – Available on Amazon ⁠

• ⁠Submit your questions for future episodes via the show’s submission form⁠

• Dating Differently Application

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  Thank you for being part of our journey! If you’ve found value in the show, the best anniversary gift you can give is to share this episode with someone who needs it and leave us a review. Here’s to many more years of real talk and real results!

It’s our one-year anniversary! To celebrate, Gracie and Tracy take your most-asked dating questions to the Mall of America, getting honest answers from real women. Tune in for fresh perspectives, heartfelt reflections, and practical advice that will help you date with confidence. Don’t miss this special episode packed with insights, laughs, and gratitude for our amazing community. Share, review, and keep your questions coming—because no matter where you are, you can always Just Ask Her.

Episode 51: Breaking Patterns & Building Self-Trust in Dating

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In this episode of "Just Ask Her," Gracie and Tracy dive into three listener submissions that highlight the real challenges men face in modern dating. From navigating attachment styles and dating app fatigue to finding emotionally available partners and breaking free from self-sabotaging patterns, this episode is packed with actionable advice and heartfelt coaching. Plus, Gracie announces the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal, designed to help single men reflect, grow, and date with intention.

Show Notes:

Intro & Halloween Banter

• Gracie and Tracy kick off the episode with some lighthearted Halloween talk, sharing personal stories and family traditions.

Submission 1: Sal’s Story

• Sal, a father of four and firefighter, shares his journey from anxious to secure attachment style.

• Struggles with dating app fatigue and finding emotionally available women.

• Gracie and Tracy discuss the pitfalls of over-labeling attachment styles, the scarcity mindset, and the importance of real-life connections.

• Advice: Leverage your strengths in real-world environments, seek shared purpose, and remember that every "failed" connection brings you closer to alignment.

Submission 2: Kyle’s Question

• Kyle wonders why it seems women don’t have hobbies and how to meet like-minded singles.

• Discussion on generational trends, burnout, and the importance of reframing blanket statements.

• Tips: Switch up your social activities, challenge self-sabotaging beliefs, and remember that the right partner will appreciate your diverse interests.

Submission 3: Greg’s Pattern

• Greg, an Australian Air Force sergeant, describes a recurring pattern of women pulling away.

• Gracie and Tracy explore confirmation bias, self-trust, and the importance of detaching from painful narratives.

• Practical steps: Name the pattern neutrally, detach from identity, decide what you’ll do differently, and let people reveal themselves over time.

Resource Mentioned:

• Self-Made Man Dating Journal – Now available on Amazon! Designed to help single men track dates, reflect, and grow. Limited first run—grab yours before they’re gone.

Listener Call to Action:

• If you enjoy the show, please rate and review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and share with friends!

• Submit your questions for future episodes.

  • Self-Made Man Dating Journal – Available on Amazon ⁠

  • ⁠Submit your questions for the anniversary episode via the show’s submission form⁠

Connect with Gracie:

• Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracie

New episodes every Wednesday!

Episode 50: Real Dating Questions Answered – Confidence, Signals & Starting Over

Description:
In this milestone 50th episode of Just Ask Her, dating expert Gracie Pleschourt and certified life coach Tracy Pleschourt tackle real listener questions about modern dating. From overcoming shyness and reading signals to building confidence and starting over after a long relationship, Gracie and Tracy deliver no-nonsense advice straight from a woman’s perspective. Plus, they announce the launch of the Self-Made Man Dating Journal and tease a special anniversary episode coming soon!

Whether you’re struggling to approach someone new, wondering how to get noticed, or navigating the dating scene after years away, this episode is packed with practical tips, research-backed insights, and encouragement to help you take control of your dating life.

Show Notes:

00:00 – Welcome & Introduction
01:30 – Listener Submission #1: Should I ask out the Home Depot girl?
05:00 – How to read signals vs. friendly behavior
08:30 – Building confidence and taking action despite shyness
12:00 – The truth about rejection and courage in dating
15:00 – Launch Announcement: Self-Made Man Dating Journal
18:00 – Listener Submission #2: Why don’t women notice me?
22:00 – The science of attraction and nonverbal cues
25:00 – How to shift from seeking validation to radiating confidence
29:00 – Listener Submission #3: Dating after a 30-year relationship
33:00 – Navigating small communities and changing your identity
37:00 – Advice for starting over and expanding your social circles
41:00 – Anniversary Episode Teaser: “Man on the Street” Q&A
44:00 – How to submit your questions for the special episode
46:00 – Final thoughts & where to find Gracie online

Resources Mentioned:

• Self-Made Man Dating Journal – Available on Amazon

• Submit your questions for the anniversary episode via the show’s submission form

• Follow Gracie on Instagram & TikTok: @datingwithgracie

If you enjoyed this episode, please rate and review Just Ask Her on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, and share it with your friends!