Épisodes

  • Here's to Good Husbands!

    Here's to Good Husbands!
    Feb 1 2024

    Chris is back! She joins J in this episode to talk about her husband and what's coming next with the Knowing Her Sexually ministry.

    If you can help Chris with funeral expenses for her late husband and through this period of transition, any amount would be appreciated! Two ways to donate:

    1. Online: Go Fund Me
    2. Mail:
      Chris Taylor 
      c/o Cullom UMC
      103 E Van Alstyne St
      Cullom IL 60929

    Resources

    • Doug Taylor Obituary (1964 - 2023) - Cullom, Illinois (calvertmemorial.com)
    • Episode 12: Guy Talk - The Importance of Sex - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
    • Episode 14: Guy Talk - A Wife's Beauty - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
    • Episode 16: Guy Talk - Men's Sexuality - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
    • To Good-willed Husbands Who Want a Great Sex Life - Hot, Holy & Humorous

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    24 min
  • Putting It All Together (with an Extra Special Guest!)

    Putting It All Together (with an Extra Special Guest!)
    Jan 19 2024

    J is joined by an extra special guest (hint: "logical") to discuss and wrap-up this season of practical sex tips for husbands. We review past episodes but have fresh takeaways as well!

    And Chris will be back next time! Remember that if you can help her with funeral expenses for her late husband and through this period of transition, any amount would be appreciated! Two ways to donate:

    1. Online: Go Fund Me
    2. Mail:
      Chris Taylor 
      c/o Cullom UMC
      103 E Van Alstyne St
      Cullom IL 60929

    Resources

    Episode 3: Why Can't She Focus?
    Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow | MarriedDance
    Why Your Wife Needs Extra Lube
    How a Good Husband Can Be a Great Lover - Hot, Holy & Humorous

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    30 min
  • The Golden Trio

    The Golden Trio
    Jan 4 2024

    J welcomes Ruth Buezis of Awaken Love, to talk about three activities associated with female orgasm (and none of them is intercourse!).

    And a reminder: If you can help Chris Taylor financially, head to the GoFundMe page set up in honor of the passing of her husband, Doug. Any amount is appreciated and will help to defer funeral expenses and assist her with transition.

    Resources

    • Awaken-Love (Ruth Buezis's Ministry)
    • These 3 Actions Could Bring You to Orgasm - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Manual Play for Her - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Orgasmic Massage: When The Happy Ending Is The Goal - The Generous Husband
    • Episode 77: How to Touch Your Wife
    • You're Not Kissing Enough - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Why Kissing Is So Intimate for Her
    • Why Your Wife May Not Want to Receive Oral Sex
    • Oral Sex: Better to Give and Receive, Volume 1 - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Oral Sex: Better to Give and Receive, Part Deux - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Dental Dam Cunnilingus Barrier - Married Dance
    • Increasing Your Wife's Sexual Pleasure - Webinar Replay - Knowing Her Sexually
    • Awaken Love: The Truth About Sex that will Transform Your Marriage by Ruth Buezis (and edited by our own Chris Taylor!)

    Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—
        for your love is more delightful than wine.
    Song of Songs 1:2

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    21 min
  • Struggling with Orgasm

    Struggling with Orgasm
    Dec 21 2023

    J is joined by Bonny Burns, cohost of Sex Chat for Christian Wives and author of Unlock Your Orgasm, to discuss why wives struggle with orgasm and how to help her reach climax.

    And a reminder: If you can help Chris Taylor financially, head to the GoFundMe page set up in honor of the passing of her husband, Doug. Any amount is appreciated and will help to defer funeral expenses and assist her with transition.

    Resources

    • Strong Wives - Bonny Burns's Ministry
    • Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns
    • Episode 49: The Orgasm Gap
    • The Female Sexual Response: A Different Model (tandfonline.com) - Rosemary Basson
    • Why Can’t My Wife Let Go and Enjoy Sex?
    • Episode 153: Practical Tips for Reaching Orgasm - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
    • Increasing Your Wife’s Sexual Pleasure – Webinar Replay
    • 4 Reasons Your Husband Desires Your Orgasm | The Forgiven Wife
    • Q&A: Faking the Orgasm? It's Time to Get Real. - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Why I Sometimes Don't Care about the Orgasm - Hot, Holy & Humorous

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    24 min
  • Lube

    Lube
    Dec 7 2023
    J's back with guest host Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage to talk about personal lubricant—why a wife might need it, our recommended products, and how to use it to improve the sexual experience. If you can help Chris Taylor financially, head to the GoFundMe page set up in honor of the passing of her husband, Doug. Any amount is appreciated and will help to defer funeral expenses and assist her with transition. Resources Why Your Wife Needs Extra LubeHow Menopause Affects Her Sexuality (and How You Can Help)Episode 33: When Sex Hurts HerLet's Talk Lube - Hot, Holy & Humorous5 Tips for Choosing a Personal Lubricant - Hot, Holy & HumorousSlippery When Wet: Lubricant Review (intimacyinmarriage.com)Astroglide Personal Lubricant - AmazonSliquid Personal Lubricants - Married DanceSliquid Sample PacksAloe Cadabra Personal Lubricant - AmazonK-Y yours + minute Warming/Tingle Lubricants - AmazonJo Flavored Lubricants - AmazonAloe Cadabra Flavored Lubricants - AmazonPumpkin Spice Lubricant? It’s a Thing. (intimacyinmarriage.com)Q&A with J: A Guide to Using Personal Lubricant - Hot, Holy & HumorousLove Mop Sex Towel - Amazon (for clean-up)Liberator Fascinator Waterproof Throw - Married Dance (for protecting bed linens)Venus Pearls | Burns-Logsdon Therapeutics (b-ltx.com) Note: Our resource list includes affiliate links, meaning purchases made through our link cost to the same to you but provide us a small commission to help defer our costs. Visit our website: khsministry.com
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    26 min
  • Her Body Image

    Her Body Image
    Nov 25 2023

    We address a wife's' body image and what a husband can specifically do to help her feel comfortable and confident in the bedroom.

    Resources

    • Husbands, Help Us Feel & Be Beautiful - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Silky Robe | Mentionables
    • "Baby Doll" Lingerie | Mentionables
    • Why Won’t Your Wife Wear Lingerie? - Knowing Her Sexually
    • Should You Buy Her Lingerie for Christmas? - Knowing Her Sexually
    • Battery-Operated Candles | Amazon
    • String Lights | Amazon
    • Colored Light Bulbs | Amazon
    • Episode 78: Sex Positions That Work for Her
    • Helping Your Wife Feel Good About Her Breasts
    • Forget What You Look Like While Making Love - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Edvard Munch's The Scream
    • Satin Blindfold | Married Dance
    • How to Help Your Wife Get Naked - Hot, Holy & Humorous

    Note: Our resource list includes affiliate links, meaning purchases made through our link cost to the same to you but provide us a small commission to help defer our costs.

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    21 min
  • Sex Positions That Work for Her

    Sex Positions That Work for Her
    Nov 9 2023
    Let's talk about sex positions! Not just generally, but what we hear from wives about sex positions they like and don't like, and what works best for her. Resources Christian Friendly Sex Positions (now 300+ Illustrated Sex Positions!)Doggy Style Sex Position aka "Stallion Style": How to Do It, 4 Tips That Spice It Up (christianfriendlysexpositions.com)Packing the Suitcase Sex Position: How to Do It, 3 Tips to Spice It Up - (christianfriendlysexpositions.com)Dragonfly Sex Position: How to Do It, 6 Tips That Spice It Up (christianfriendlysexpositions.com)Banana Pancakes Sex Position: How to Do It, Tips That Spice It Up (christianfriendlysexpositions.com)Banana Pancakes - Jack JohnsonDeck of Sex Position Cards | Christian Friendly Sex PositionsLet's Ditch Doggy Style - Honeycomb & SpiceThe technique of coital alignment and its relation to female orgasmic response and simultaneous orgasm - PubMed (nih.gov)CAT Sex Position & Technique: How to Do It, 2 Tips to Spice It Up (christianfriendlysexpositions.com)The technique of coital alignment and its relation to female orgasmic response and simultaneous orgasm - National Institutes of HealthEpisode 132: The Orgasm Iceberg - Sex Chat for Christian WivesSatisfyer Pro 2 Gen 3 Clitoral Stimulator - Christian sex toy store (marrieddance.com)Why You Should Try This Sex Position - Hot, Holy & HumorousLiberator Wedge Sex Pillow | Christian sex toy store | MarriedDanceSexual Positions: Hey, I'm a Housewife, Not a Gymnast (intimacyinmarriage.com)Sock Monkey Kama SutraThe Cookie Sutra Note: Our resource list includes affiliate links, meaning purchases made through our link cost to the same to you but provide us a small commission to help defer our costs.
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    21 min
  • How to Touch Your Wife

    How to Touch Your Wife
    Oct 5 2023

    In our last episode, we talked about where to touch your wife. This time, Chris and J cover how to touch your touch your wife in ways that arouse, pleasure, and satisfy—all with the ultimate goal of wonderful sexual intimacy in your marriage.

    Resources

    • Increasing Your Wife’s Sexual Pleasure – Webinar Replay - ONLY $10
    • Episode 76: Where to Touch Your Wife
    • Q&A with J: "His Physical Touch Is Groping & Sex" - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • The One Sex Tip I Give Husbands Over and Over - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Husbands Only Need One of These to Turn Her On - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • "What To Do with Your Hands" – section in Hot, Holy & Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God's Design

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    23 min