What's one trait all children share naturally? It both delights parents and can wear them out. Ready?

Curiosity.

By cultivating this trait in adulthood, we can significantly minimize conflict.

As we continue the mini-series on being relationally smart, we see:

1. The difference between matters of trust and assumptions
2. The connection between assumptions and expectations
3. The power of investigating, not interrogating, your assumptions about yourself and others
4. How fewer assumptions leads to fewer conflicts

Becoming curious rather than defensive can make all the difference in your relationships, whether family, work, friends, or neighbors.

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The "nail in the head" video was quite popular -- unfortunately. While I understand the intent, sometimes good intentions aren't enough. We need to think through the entire message we're communicating.

In the 2nd part of my "Relationally Smart" miniseries, you will discover the three ways subtle (and not-so-subtle) stereotypes hinder growth and harm relationships.

You will be able to move forward and not stay stuck by developing a solutions mindset. I unpack:

1. How a solution mindset works from the level of expectations.
2. How a solution mindset focuses on shaping the future rather than replaying the past.
3. The energizing impact of a solutions mindset.

Remember to order your copy of The Great Brain Remodel of Adolescence. Grow your confidence, effectiveness, and empathy while parenting, educating, or mentoring youth ages 12-24.

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Communication may be the key that unlocks the door in a relationship, but it's what's behind the door that unites or divides. Too often we've been taught to focus on crafting a beautiful door rather than examining what's on the other side.

All relationships rest on expectations. The more aligned the expectations, the greater the unity. The more misaligned the expectations, the greater the conflict. While this seems like a "well, duh," statement, the reality is we often never identify or express our expectations.

In today's episode, we look at principles including:

1. God has been expressing expectations from the Beginning.

2. Identifying and expressing expectations requires courageous honesty and vulnerability.

3. Identifying and expressing expectations reveals priorities, values, and beliefs about what we owe others and what they owe us.

4. Eliminating all expectations is ridiculous and shouldn’t be a goal. Aligning expectations with what is right, just, and reasonable is our goal. Any other approach isn't sustainable for the long term.

Invite others as I begin this "Relationally Smart" mini-series.

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