What are you really focused on?

In this episode, Tía talks about comparison, jealousy, and why minding your business might be the key to peace and purpose. From social media distractions to life timelines, this conversation dives into staying aligned with what God actually has for you.

Because sometimes the real question is:

WTF- What’s The Focus?

Are you equally yoked… or just emotionally hooked?

In this episode of Living Life with Tía, we talk honestly about the difference between spiritual alignment and emotional attachment in relationships.

Sharing real reflections about church culture, dating vs courting, loving the idea of someone, and why peace, not strong feelings, reveals true alignment.

This episode is a self-check for anyone navigating faith, relationships, and purpose.

Topics: Christian relationships, equally yoked meaning, faith and dating, emotional attachment.

Is it really spiritual warfare… or is it self-sabotage?

In this episode of Living Life with Tía, we’re having an honest conversation about spiritual warfare, temptation, self-control, and accountability. Not everything is the devil. Sometimes it’s our habits, our access, and the doors we refuse to close.

We’re talking about:

• Blaming the devil for our choices

• Sexual temptation and pornography

• Emotional cycles and toxic relationships

• The “hey big head” text

• Influence, music, and what we consume

• Discipline vs. deliverance

• Self-control and spiritual maturity

The enemy is real. But so is responsibility.

If you’ve ever said, “The devil is attacking me,” this episode will challenge you to ask a deeper question: Did I open the door?

This is faith-based, transparent, grown conversation about temptation, spiritual growth, boundaries, and closing access points in your life.

Stop tempting the enemy. Start taking responsibility.

In this episode, I open up about the stuff I don’t usually say out loud .. Quiet life changes, loving God while still healing, and learning how to live honestly without explaining every chapter. It’s real, faith-filled, and a little vulnerable lol… in the best way.

Jesus isn’t your man, and He’s not your Valentine either!

In this Valentine’s Day episode of Living Life With Tía, we’re talking about Christian dating, singleness, emotional maturity, relationship standards, and the difference between being secure in God and being desperate for attention.

We unpack Instagram love culture, DMs, unrealistic expectations, and what it really means to build healthy relationships rooted in faith.

If you’re navigating dating, standards, and spiritual growth while trying to stay grounded in God..this one will resonate.

From a Tía point of view. 🌹

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You don’t owe everyone an explanation. In this episode, we’re talking #boundaries, silence, and what it means when God starts shaping you in private. Not every question deserves your vulnerability. Sometimes maturity sounds like saying less.

Serving in church isn’t always about purpose… sometimes it becomes performance.

In this episode of Living Life With Tía, we unpack church culture, ministry burnout, and the quiet pressure many people feel when serving in church.

Sometimes what begins as genuine service to God slowly shifts into a need for recognition, validation, or visibility. This episode explores the tension between serving with the right heart and serving to be seen.

This is a transparent conversation about spiritual maturity, identity in Christ, insecurity, and choosing authenticity over approval.

No dragging.
No arguments.
Just honest reflection.

If you’ve ever felt exhausted in ministry, overlooked while serving, or questioned your motives in church spaces, this episode will resonate.

Real conversations.
Spiritual growth.
The Tía way.

Rated MS: Mature Saints Only.

Topics in this episode:
• church culture
• serving in ministry
• ministry burnout
• identity in Christ
• spiritual maturity

Be honest… what motivates most people to serve in church?

Options:

• Genuine love for God

• Wanting to help others

• Recognition / validation

• A mix of everything

Outgrowing people doesn't always come with DRAMA. Sometimes it comes with clarity.

In this episode, I talk about friendships changing, loving people from afar, and choosing peace without over-explaining. Real conversation grown lady lessons lol, and ALOT of vulnerability.