You're bending over backwards trying to "keep the peace" “do whatever it takes to make her happy,” or "trying to beg or control him so he gives you the love you crave."

But when your sense of worth, peace, or identity rises and falls based on your spouse’s emotions or approval, you’ve crossed from love into idolatry. You're trying to fill a need or a hole that only God can truly fill.

In this episode we talk through how you can identify this dynamic, move out of it and stay focused on the only relationship that can truly satisfy.

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What do you do if your spouse refuses to budge? It can be incredibly aggravating when compromise seems impossible.

In this episode of Marriage Unmasked we dig into why your spouse might be digging their heels in and refusing to compromise. What deeper issues might be driving this apparent stubbornness? We offer several ways to navigate this with wisdom so that this dynamic can be an opportunity for a deeper bond instead of a battle for control.

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Free Guide for Men. Powerful practices to respond when your wife is angry.

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Conflict can either break you down or bring you closer.

In this episode, we share five powerful lessons we’ve learned through the struggles, arguments, and tensions in our own marriage. These lessons have reshaped the way we approach disagreement and helped us create a healthier way of handling conflict.

Whether you’re in constant battles with your spouse, or you just want to sharpen your skills for the next hard moment, these lessons will give you hope and practical steps.

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Free Guide for Men. Powerful practices to respond when your wife is angry.

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Cara's Free Masterclass: 5 Ways to Communicate Your Needs to Your Husband Without Triggering Defensiveness or Shutdown

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