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Married and Love It

Auteur(s): Greg and Linda Smith
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 On our weekly podcast, we will be sharing with you covering anything that has to do with marriage including the hot topics of love, sex, and communication. We'll be sharing from our own experiences from 46 plus years of marriage and what we have learned along the way through research and helping other couples to MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE GREAT. We want to provide preventive maintenance and strengthen the good marriages, freshen up stale or boring marriages, heal hurting or dying marriages, prepare people for marriage and stop divorce. Our goal is to hear you say that YOU are MARRIED AND LOVE IT!Copyright 2026 Greg and Linda Smith Christianisme Développement personnel Pastorale et évangélisme Réussite Spiritualité
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  • EP 60. Communication in Marriage; 3 Essential Habits for Better Communication; Final Thoughts to this Series

    EP 60. Communication in Marriage; 3 Essential Habits for Better Communication; Final Thoughts to this Series
    Mar 11 2026
    In the latest installment of the Married and Love It Podcast, the hosts, Greg and Linda Smith, explore the intricacies of marital communication, particularly as they wrap up their series on this pivotal theme. They offer a structured approach to improving communication through three fundamental habits: establishing ground rules for conflict, engaging in love confessions, and enhancing communication with God. The dialogue is infused with a blend of humor and sincerity, reflective of their fun-loving approach to marriage while remaining deeply rooted in Christian principles. The discussion highlights the necessity of ground rules during conflicts, which can serve as a guide for couples to navigate disagreements without resorting to destructive behaviors. The hosts emphasize that effective communication is not simply about exchanging words but involves a deeper understanding and respect for one another. They illustrate this through engaging anecdotes, including a humorous tale about the consequences of the silent treatment, which serves to underscore the futility of such tactics. Through their candid exchanges, Greg and Linda provide listeners with relatable scenarios that many couples may encounter, thereby fostering a sense of connection with their audience. Moreover, the episode reinforces the significance of integrating spiritual practices into marital communication. The hosts advocate for couples to pray together, thus inviting God into their relationship as a source of strength and unity. This spiritual component is framed as essential for fostering a loving and supportive environment, which is critical for overcoming the inevitable challenges that arise in marriage. As the episode draws to a close, listeners are encouraged to actively apply the discussed principles in their own relationships, thereby reinforcing the podcast's overarching message of intentionality in marriage and the pursuit of a fulfilling partnership.Takeaways:Investing time in your marriage by listening to our podcast is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship.Establishing ground rules for communication and conflict resolution is essential for a strong marriage.Communication issues are among the top reasons that can threaten the stability of a marriage.Reinforcing love and respect through daily affirmations can significantly enhance marital harmony.Links referenced in this episode:marriedandloveit.comLinks referenced in this episode:www.marriedandloveit.comLinks referenced in this episode:Use this link for email sign up.https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11Website: www.marriedandloveit.comPrevious communication episodes: EP 4, 5; EP 29, 30; EP 47-50; EP 56; EP 57; EP 58; EP 59Reference scriptures: Galatians 5:14-15; Proverbs 16:23-24; Proverbs 15:28; Ephesians 4:26 & 31 & 32; Colossians 3:12-15; Proverbs 15:1; Ecclesiastes 9:9-10E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.comphone 984-270-6062Develop ground rules for conflictThese are suggested ground rules you can use; however, you can customize them.No yelling.No name calling or character attacks.No bringing up the past for ammunition.No storming out without saying I need a break or a pause.No following the person who called for a break or pause.No slamming things.No physical attacks.No pointing your finger or tapping the other person’s chest.Even if your partner doesn't do their part, you still do your part.Agree on the ground rules.“Love Confession”I Corinthians 13:4-8God is LoveAnd the Love of God is in me.Therefore:I endure long and am patient and kind.I’m never envious or jealous.I’m not boastful or proud.I’m never haughty, selfish or rude.I am never irritable or touchy.I’m never resentful and I don’t hold grudges.I hardly even notice when others may do wrong.I expect and believe the best of every personAnd will defend them no matter what anyone else may say.The love of God in me never fails, therefore, I never fail.Love is my greatest aim.
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    33 min
  • EP 59. Communication in Marriage; Practical Tips to Handling Conflict Peacefully. PT 2

    EP 59. Communication in Marriage; Practical Tips to Handling Conflict Peacefully. PT 2
    Mar 5 2026

    In this enlightening episode of the Married and Love it podcast, the hosts Greg and Linda Smith delve into the critical topic of managing conflict within a marriage, outlining actionable steps that couples can take to resolve disagreements with grace. Drawing from their extensive experience, they offer insights into the necessity of fostering a culture of respect and honesty in communication. The discussion navigates through various conflict management techniques, such as refraining from public disputes and ensuring that both partners feel heard and valued in their interactions. The couple also emphasizes the importance of maintaining a sense of humor and joy even in the face of disagreements, suggesting that a lighthearted approach can disarm tensions. By intertwining scriptural references with practical advice, they illuminate the path to a loving and fulfilling marriage that endures through trials, positioning themselves as guides for listeners seeking to enrich their marital journey.

    Takeaways:

    1. Investing time into your marriage through communication and understanding can greatly enhance your relationship.
    2. Conflict resolution is essential, and effective communication plays a pivotal role in maintaining marital harmony.
    3. The importance of mutual respect and honesty cannot be overstated when navigating disagreements with your spouse.
    4. Being intentional about love and communication is crucial for fostering a thriving and enjoyable marriage.

    Links referenced in this episode:

    1. www.marriedandloveit.com

    Links referenced in this episode:

    Use this link for email sign up.

    https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11

    Website: www.marriedandloveit.com

    Previous communication episodes: EP 4, 5; EP 29, 30; EP 47-50; EP 56; EP 57; EP 58

    Teamwork/balance your busy life - EP 7 & 8

    www.marriedandloveit.com/7

    www.marriedandloveit.com/8

    Reference scriptures: Galatians 5:14-15; Proverbs 16:23-24; Proverbs 15:28; Ephesians 4:26 & 31 & 32; Colossians 3:12-15; Proverbs 15:1; Ecclesiastes 9:9-10

    E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com

    phone 984-270-6062
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    34 min
  • EP 58. Communication in Marriage; Practical Tips to Handling Conflict Peacefully PT 1

    EP 58. Communication in Marriage; Practical Tips to Handling Conflict Peacefully PT 1
    Feb 27 2026

    In this episode, the hosts Greg and Linda Smith articulate the significance of effective communication in marital relationships, particularly when addressing conflicts. They frame the discussion around the vital principle that successful communication is not simply about exchanging words but involves a deeper understanding of each partner's feelings and perspectives. The couple elucidates that many marital disputes stem from misunderstandings and lack of clarity, urging listeners to approach conflicts with a mindset geared towards resolution rather than confrontation. The hosts reference Galatians 5:14-15, which serves as a poignant reminder of the biblical foundation of love and respect within marriage. They emphasize that when couples engage in disputes, it is crucial to focus on the issue at hand rather than resorting to personal attacks. This theme of attacking the problem rather than the person is explored in depth, as the Smiths provide tangible examples of how to navigate disagreements without escalating tensions. Listeners are encouraged to practice self-evaluation, recognizing their own communication styles and the impact they have on their spouse. The episode emphasizes the necessity of vulnerability in communication, advocating for honesty and openness, even when the truth may be uncomfortable. Greg and Linda encourage couples to create a safe space for dialogue, where both partners feel secure in expressing their thoughts and emotions. They also discuss the importance of timing, suggesting that approaching sensitive topics when both partners are receptive can significantly enhance the effectiveness of communication. By blending personal anecdotes with scriptural insights, the hosts provide a comprehensive framework for couples looking to improve their communication skills, ultimately guiding them towards a deeper, more loving connection. The podcast wraps up with actionable homework for listeners, urging them to evaluate their communication habits and to engage in constructive conversations with their spouse. The Smiths reiterate that the journey towards better communication is ongoing and requires continuous effort and dedication from both partners, reinforcing their commitment to helping others cultivate thriving marriages.

    Takeaways:

    1. Investing time in your marriage through communication and conflict resolution is crucial for relationship health.
    2. Proper communication involves expressing thoughts and feelings clearly, fostering understanding and connection between partners.
    3. Daily practice of love and communication skills is essential for a thriving marriage, highlighting the importance of intentionality.
    4. Attacking the problem rather than the person during conflicts promotes constructive dialogue and prevents escalation of disputes.
    5. Recognizing and respecting your spouse's feelings is vital in maintaining a supportive and loving marital environment.
    6. Self-evaluation of communication habits can lead to significant improvements, enhancing both marital satisfaction and mutual respect.

    Links referenced in this episode:

    Use this link for email sign up.

    https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11

    Website: www.marriedandloveit.com

    Previous communication episodes: EP 4, 5; EP 29, 30; EP 47-50; EP 56; EP 57

    Reference scriptures: Galatians 5:14-15; Proverbs 12:18; Proverbs 16:23-24; Galatians 5:16; Galatians 5:20 and 22; Proverbs 15:1; Ephesians 4:29-42; John 15:5; Proverbs 15:8; Colossians 3:8; Colossians 3:12-15; Philippians 2:2-4; Galatians 6:9-10; Luke 6:31
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    37 min
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