In Part Two of my conversation with trauma coach Paul Cameron, we go deeper into the work of becoming a well-rounded man. We explore mother wounds, how they shape our relationships, and what it really means to balance masculine and feminine energy without losing yourself.

Paul also shares a surprising insight from his time practising yoga — how slowing down challenged his nervous system, softened old patterns, and taught him a different kind of strength. We talk about presence, patience, and the quiet work of learning to feel rather than push.

This episode is an invitation to rethink masculinity, heal old relational wounds, and discover that growth doesn’t always come from doing more — sometimes it comes from slowing down.

In this episode, I sit down with trauma coach Paul Cameron for a deep, honest, and surprisingly relatable conversation about the patterns that keep us stuck. Paul breaks down the idea of the “emotional home” — the familiar state we fall back into when life gets hard, even if that place is painful or self-sabotaging.

He opens up about a moment in his own life when the financial pressure became so intense he contemplated “ditching the van” — literally driving it into a ditch just to escape the weight he was carrying. His honesty around that moment sets the tone for the rest of the conversation: raw, human, and unfiltered.

We also explore the inner teen rebel, the disconnection from the inner child, the exhaustion of people-pleasing, and how these old roles show up in adulthood when we’re trying to move forward.

This episode is packed with insight, compassion, humour, and real talk — a reminder that breaking patterns isn’t about being perfect; it’s about understanding the story you keep returning to and choosing something better.

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In this episode, I talk about what courage actually looks like crying on camera, laughing through tears, making decisions that scare the life out of you, and choosing the path that makes zero sense to anyone but you.

I share my own journey of walking away from a legal career with no plan, following my curiosity, listening to my heart, and surviving the messy middle where everyone else would’ve folded. I open up about leaving someone I loved in search of a “better version” of me, travelling the world, and realising the person I was chasing had been here the whole time.

This episode is for anyone staring at a hard decision, doubting themselves, or wondering if they’re crazy for wanting something different. You’re not. You just need courage and courage always starts with vulnerability.

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Email - menarehuman2@gmail.com

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