This week I’m joined by Susan White – a licensed and trained mental health professional who found exercise and running as a way to search out the hard things. But why? Why search out the hard? We talk about it. And we also dig into why it's vital that we allow our children to fail during our watch. She gives several “Ah-Ha” moments that I can’t wait for you to chew on. Like why the system surrounding young people matters and how a shift in our mentality about our own strength resiliency and post traumatic growth can wildly affect how we view ourselves and how we can start to run our lives. I hope you enjoy listening to this episode as much as I did. If so, share it, like it and give Mentality Matters a follow on your favorite streaming service and our Instagram page at Mentality _ Matters _ Podcast. So fill up you favorite mug. Enjoy the conversation. And much love!

Episode Details -

0:00 - Intro
2:00 - Damn. There She Goes
4:00 - Social Work as a Calling
7:00 - Risk Factors of Troubled Youth and Why Your Systems Matter
14:00 - Consistency Matters
21:30 - Inherent Strengths
23:30 - Emotional Boys
26:30 - Unfair Demand on Teenagers Time/Attention
29:00 - Fitness Journey
36:00 - The 3 Goals - Stretch/Achievable/Attainable
38:00 - Power of an Accountable Mentality
41:00 - Welcome to the Thunder Dome
43:00 - The Boston
49:00 - 50 at 50 in the Appalachians
53:00 - It's Vital to Fail
1:00 - Post Traumatic Growth
1:08 - Wearing the Criticism
1:10 - Emperor Moth
1:11 - Man in the Arena

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Season 1 - Episode 6
For this week’s episode I was able to sit down with Mrs. Bonnie Mwanda who I have found to be a natural and exceptional leader. She is continually expanding and enriching the lives of the young people and peers that she interacts with on a daily basis by placing emphasis on building authentic relationships while acknowledging and tearing down the fences that are holding people back from achieving their true success. Finding their true identity. All because 16 year old Bonnie felt stifled and dismayed by the system around her. Bonnie’s is a story of paying it forward in a society that desperately needs the codification of equity while paying homage to a teenage girl that couldn’t comprehend the lack of cultural representation she faced in the public school system.

Episode Contents -

• 0:00 - Intro to Doc Mwanda
• 3:00 - Who is Bonnie?
• 6:30 - Honoring What 16 Year-Old Bonnie Needed
• 12:30 - Culture Based on Mental & Physical Safety
• 18:30 - What It Takes to Teach
• 21:00 - The Focus Group Philosophy
• 26:00 - How to Get Buy-In
• 30:00 - Being Visible is Vital
• 31:00 - Leaders are HYPE People
• 37:00 - Relationships Matter
• 51:00 - Staying Consistent with Young People
• 56:00 - Overcoming Barriers
• 1:00 - Helping Kids Dream Big
• 1:10 - What is Equity
• 1:16 - Stand On It
• 1:24 - "I'm That Girl" - Beyonce'

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Season 1 - Episode 5
For this episode, I sat down with a former player of mine that battled the circumstances life threw at him and has since earned his Juris Doctorate from Campbell Law School with a Masters in Trust and Wealth Management, mentors youth as a volunteer coach, is raising a family with his wife Ashley. His is a story about where he’s from and why that matters. His is also a story about breaking a familial generational curse that saw him escaping substance abuse, working a third shift job, living out of his car or on the couches of friends … all while attending high school. So if you’re looking for an example on what the power of self belief and deciding to just keep going, this is it.

Episode Details

• 0:00 - Intro
• 3:00 - Where I'm From and Why It Matters
• 6:00 - Building on Sand
• 10:00 - Deciding to Decide
• 13:00 - Team 1st While Life Sucked
• 17:30 - Setting Audacious Goals
• 23:00 - Fatherly Connections
• 29:00 - Uncommon Amongst the Uncommon
• 31:00 - Why Applaud the Average?
• 35:00 - Climbing Onto the Boat
• 45:00 - Men Supporting Men
• 47:00 - Lessons for a 12 Year Old
• 50:00 - Power of Self-Belief
• 52:00 - Growing in Gravel
• 55:00 - Your Circle Matters
• 58:00 - Just Keep Going

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