I talked to Ethel Tan about confidence, early red flags, choosing partners with intention, and how our upbringing shapes the way we date. We got into what makes relationships last, why observation matters before commitment, her journey from theater to stand-up, and my own path from stripping to coaching. If you’ve ever questioned how to pick the right person—or how to stay true to yourself while dating—this conversation will help you see things differently.

Two behaviorists, Chantal Heide and CC Rice talk bluntly about power, patriarchy, and why women aren’t waiting for permission. We cover building matriarchal systems now—at home, at work, and in community—through selection, standards, and autonomy. Logic + intuition. Collaboration over competition. Action over approval.

What you’ll get:

• How to build your own “infrastructure” (work, money, safety, support)

• Selection > persuasion in dating, hiring, and leadership

• Spotting “bad agents” that slow teams and movements

• Why “be nice, be quiet” is a control script

• Practical boundaries that create peaceful homes and focused work

• Logic as a practice, not a persona

If this helps, share it with one woman who builds.💖

The patriarchy keeps women small by teaching us to budget, save, and stay quiet—while men are told to buy assets and build wealth. It’s time to flip the script.

In this episode, I talk to Mel Dorman about how women can take back power: owning buildings, practicing horizontal banking, and creating wealth that stays in our communities.

If you’ve ever been told to “just budget better,” this conversation will show you why that advice keeps you stuck—and how to start building assets, freedom, and power on your own terms.

🔥 Burn the patriarchy. Own the building.