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  • The Narcissist Is Hurting Too - Tips On Dealing With A Hurting
    Oct 24 2025

    Have you ever thought about how the narcissist is hurting, which is why they treat you the way they treat you? In today’s episode, I’m going to uncover some possible reasons why narcissists behave the way they do — and more importantly, I’ll share some practical steps on how you can deal with it in a healthy, grounded way.”

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    Breaking free from a toxic relationship isn’t easy—but it’s possible.

    After surviving two narcissistic relationships, I know the fear, anxiety, and uncertainty that keep people trapped. This book is your step-by-step guide to creating a reliable exit plan, allowing you to leave with confidence and never look back. Whether you’re leaving with children or on your own, you’ll find strategies, encouragement, and practical tools to prepare mentally, emotionally, and physically for freedom. Don’t just leave—leave strong and stay free.

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    30 min
  • How To Make A Toxic Narcissist Leave Safely "Proper Steps Provided"
    Sep 19 2025

    Over the past two weeks, I’ve received countless messages from people asking the same question: “What do I do when a narcissist refuses to leave my home?”

    In today’s video, I’m sharing clear, step-by-step guidance on how to make a narcissist leave safely. My goal is to give you the tools, confidence, and wisdom you need to take action without putting yourself in harm’s way.

    You will leave this podcast feeling empowered and more educated.

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    32 min
  • 12 Signs That Jezebel Is Attacking You Anointing "The Corruption Of Narcissism In The Church" Part 2
    Sep 12 2025

    Many people today are facing the corruption of Jezebel right inside the church. Narcissism isn’t just a problem in personal relationships—it began long ago, when Lucifer himself desired to exalt his throne above God. Over the next few weeks, we will expose the spirits of narcissism operating in the church, with a sharp focus on Jezebel and Leviathan. It’s time to rise up, confront these strongholds, and tear down their kingdom in the house of God.

    In today’s show, I will expose how the spirit of Jezebel attacks prophets and prophetesses. Its goal is to break down the man or woman of God and ultimately pull them away from their calling. In this video, I share 11 signs that reveal when you may be dealing with Jezebel’s influence in your life. I also share my own personal experience and testimony of how God delivered me from Jezebel’s attacks.

    Scripture Reading Is

    • 1 Kings 19:1-12

    My Journey To Salvation

    A Few Things This Book Talks About:

    ✨Overcoming Abuse: Sexual, Mental, and Emotional.

    ✨Overcoming Drinking and Sleeping Pills.

    ✨Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse.

    ✨Finding Christ.

    This Book Will Give You

    ✨Scriptures (word of God)

    ✨Encouragement

    ✨Motivation

    ✨Advice

    Defeating Jezebel “Overcoming Fear & Anxiety

    A Few Things This Book Talks About:

    ✨Traits Of a Narcissist

    ✨Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse

    ✨Overcoming Fear and Anxiety

    ✨My Personal Experience with Fear and Anxiety

    ✨My Personal Experience with Narcissism

    ✨Where Jezebel originated from

    ✨20 spiritual weapons to use in prayer.

    ✨Learning to let go and let God take control.

    The Narcissistic Manual

    A Few Things This Book Talks About:

    ✨ Step-by-step instructions on how to deal with a narcissist.

    ✨What to do and not to do

    ✨What to do when going to court with a narcissist

    ✨How to co-parent with a narcissist

    ✨How to heal after narcissistic abuse

    ✨How to start new relationships after narcissism

    The Exit Plan

    “Leaving A Narcissist”

    ✨Prayers

    ✨Scriptures for this season you're in

    ✨Steps on how to leave without kids

    ✨Steps on how to leave with Kids

    ✨The demons you will face In narcissism

    ✨What to expect when leaving

    ✨How to build your relationship with God

    ✨How to fight properly

    ✨Spiritual weapons ✨

    ✨Different Types of Narcissists

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    38 min
  • The Corruption Of Narcissism In The Church (Part 1)
    Sep 6 2025

    Many people today are facing the corruption of Jezebel right inside the church. Narcissism isn’t just a problem in personal relationships—it began long ago, when Lucifer himself desired to exalt his throne above God. Over the next few weeks, we will expose the spirits of narcissism operating in the church, with a sharp focus on Jezebel and Leviathan. It’s time to rise up, confront these strongholds, and tear down their kingdom in the house of God.

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    30 min
  • How To Remain Silent With A Narcissist "Don't Say To Much"
    Aug 22 2025

    “How many times have you given in to the narcissist—saying too much, only to walk away asking yourself, ‘Why did I say all that?’ Did you know that it’s not just them—it’s a spirit at work, a demon influencing the conversation to go in the direction it wants? On today’s show, I’m going to expose this truth and teach you how to remain silent, and most importantly, we’ll look at what the Bible has to say about it.”

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    32 min
  • Testimony: How I Overcame Being Narcissistic Through Healing & Deliverance "Freedom"
    Aug 8 2025

    Most people who leave the narcissist end up becoming narcissistic as well. They begin to carry the traits of the narcissist simply because of. the hurt and trauma they have been through. In this show, I share my experience and give points on how to overcome the narcissistic traits.

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    36 min
  • How To Emotionally Heal After Narcissistic Abuse
    Jul 18 2025

    Healing from narcissistic emotional abuse can be difficult. All the memories and the thoughts of what the person has done can be overwhelming. But by taking proper steps, you will be able to heal from the emotional abuse that is trying to overtake you. Listen in and let God heal what you can't fix.

    Upcoming Group Healing Information

    Are you ready for change?

    Are you ready to heal?

    Are you looking for a supportive community?

    If you answered yes, then you’re in the right place.

    There are countless people who need healing and deliverance but don’t know where to start. I remember exactly how I felt when I walked away from toxic narcissistic relationships — broken, fearful, emotionally numb, and battling PTSD. I drowned my pain in alcohol, sleeping pills, unhealthy relationships, and partying. But none of those things brought true healing.

    Everything changed when I surrendered to the process of inner healing, deliverance, and coaching. Over time, God restored me — and now it’s my mission to help others experience that same freedom.

    This group is designed to walk with you on your healing journey. Here’s what to expect:

    ✨ Weekly Group Sessions (up to 90 minutes)

    📘 Healing-focused structure and themes

    📝 Weekly homework assignments

    🎥 Weekly videos to guide your growth

    🤝 Accountability and encouragement from others on the journey

    If you’re ready to take that next step, I’d love to connect with you.

    📧 To schedule a consultation: Please email me at bethelightzakiya@gmail.com

    You don’t have to walk this path alone. Healing is possible — and it starts now.

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    33 min
  • 6 Reasons Why Narcissist Use Silent Treatment Explained | Emotional Abuse
    Jul 2 2025

    In this video, we’re diving into the silent treatment — a common tactic used by narcissists to control, manipulate, and punish. I’ll break down why narcissists use the silent treatment and what it truly means. More importantly, I’ll give you five powerful tips on how to handle and overcome it so you dont become a victim of this abuse. Whether you're healing from narcissistic abuse or currently navigating a toxic relationship, this video will equip you with clarity and strength.

    Scriptures We will cover

    1. James 1:19-20 NLT
    2. Proverbs 25:28 NLT

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    23 min