In this deeply moving episode of Navigating Eldercare, host Laura Daniels sits down with Erin, the daughter of a longtime client, to explore the emotional and practical complexities of the placement journey.

After nearly a decade of navigating her mother Pat’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis—including years of multi-generational living—Erin shares the raw truth about the "savior complex," the breaking point of caregiver burnout, and the profound transition of moving a loved one into memory care.

In this episode, we discuss:

• The "Red Flag" Moment: The poignant story of a trip to NYC where Erin first realized her mother’s cognitive health was changing.

• The Breaking Point: How the stress of 24/7 care began to impact Erin's marriage, business, and her children.

• Navigating the Search: Moving past "salesy" pitches to find a community that honors the heart and soul of the individual.

• The Day of Placement: A transparent look at the "robot mode," the panic, and the necessary emotional release that happens after the move.

• Reclaiming the Daughter Role: How letting go of the "caregiver" title allowed Erin to find peace and fall in love with who her mother is today.

Whether you are just beginning to see red flags or are in the middle of an emergency transition, Erin’s story is a beautiful reminder that the placement journey isn't about giving up—it’s about finding the right care at the right time.

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