Fresh off a trip to Italy with his three-month-old, Matthew is riding high on new-parent vindication: his baby slept through both transatlantic flights while chaos reigned around him. But Pete and Mandy are quick to remind him that the easy travel window is fleeting—and they've got the battle scars to prove it.

In this episode, the trio swaps stories from the parenting travel trenches: Mandy's solo flight where her toddler baptized her in apple juice, Pete's infamous Baby Bjorn blowout that left his spouse covered in diarrhea for an entire red-eye, and the critical lesson both stories teach (pack. extra. clothes.). They also dig into the logistics that actually matter—Delta's sky bassinet service, the art of traveling light with maximum redundancy, and how to accept help from the secret community of parents who recognize that desperate look in your eyes.

The conversation shifts to daycare transitions and the bittersweet process of learning to let go—from the anxiety of those first phone buzzes to the unexpected heartbreak of receiving an adorable video and wishing you were cuddling instead of working. Mandy shares a cautionary tale about a babysitter who took her joking "no fun tonight" instruction completely literally, leaving her son unable to play Batman.

And in a hopeful coda, Pete offers a glimpse of the future: traveling with adult children is genuinely wonderful. They carry things. They pay for stuff. They're just... friends on a trip. Something to look forward to, parents—even if 14 years feels like a long wait.

KEY TOPICS

• Matthew's Italy trip triumph: baby Penn sleeps through international flights
• The sky bassinet: Delta's bulkhead bassinet service for infants
• Mandy's juice-soaked solo flight with toddler Casey
• Pete's legendary diaper blowout / Baby Bjorn disaster
• The golden rule: always pack extra clothes (Matthew packed three changes for 24 hours)
• Navigating travel logistics with strollers, wheelchairs, and baby gear
• The daycare transition: learning to trust and let go
• When babysitters take instructions too literally
• Traveling with only children: Mandy's solution of bringing Casey's best friend
• The promised land: traveling with adult children

Parenting tests your patience in ways nothing else can. When your toddler refuses to cooperate, when schedules fall apart, or when you're running on empty—how do you handle the frustration without losing yourself in it? In this episode, we explore the uncomfortable truth that parenting will frustrate you, and what it means to actually let go instead of just suppressing your feelings.

What We Discussed

• Why does parenting frustration feel different from other kinds of stress in our lives?
• What's the difference between suppressing frustration and genuinely letting it go?
• How can we create space for our feelings without letting them control our reactions?
• When is frustration actually a signal that something needs to change versus just part of the deal?
• What practical tools help in the moment when you're about to lose it with your kid?
• How do we model healthy emotional processing for our children while still being human?
• Why does accepting that parenting will be frustrating sometimes actually make it easier?
• What role does self-compassion play when you inevitably handle a frustrating moment poorly?

Halloween as a parent means navigating everything from costume choices to candy negotiations, while also managing your own memories of trick-or-treating past. But when does healthy caution cross into helicopter parenting? And how do modern safety concerns compare to the anxieties our parents faced?

Matthew, Mandy, and Pete explore the evolution of Halloween traditions, from the Wild West days of unsupervised neighborhood roaming to today's trunk-or-treats and group text coordination. The conversation shifts to homecoming culture, examining how high school social events have transformed and what pressure teens face around these milestone moments.

Questions We Explored:

• How has Halloween changed from our childhoods to parenting in the present day?
• Are trunk-or-treats replacing traditional trick-or-treating, and what does that shift mean?
• When does protective parenting become overprotective hovering?
• How do we balance teaching stranger danger without creating unnecessary fear?
• What role should parents play in teen social events like homecoming?
• What happens when kids opt out of traditional milestone events altogether?