In this episode, Jess and Karli dive into all things habits and routines. Karli's in a groove lately, while Jess is navigating the ever-changing nature of her nursing schedule, and the two compare how different lifestyles call for different approaches. They also unpack the pressure to follow routines we see online (hi, 10-step morning rituals) and why one-size-fits-all doesn’t actually benefit anyone. Karli also shares the exact morning routine that’s helped her drastically improve her mental health, allowing her to feel the healthiest, happiest version of herself.

In this episode, Jess and Karli dive deep into the topic of therapy. They reflect on their own experiences, sharing how traditional talk therapy served them for a time, but eventually led them to explore other modalities like EMDR and NET. They break down what those therapies are, what the process actually looks like, and how they’ve helped reprocess negative memories and shift long-held emotional patterns. Therapy is such a personal journey, but we hope this episode offers a helpful glimpse into what to expect if you’re considering different approaches as well as a reminder that healing looks different for everyone.

Please note: We are not licensed therapists. This conversation is based on our personal experiences and is intended for informational and storytelling purposes only. It should not be taken as medical or mental health advice. If you’re struggling or feel you need support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a qualified mental health professional.

In this episode, Jess and Karli dive into the deeply personal journey of doing the inner work and becoming the person you aspire to be. They share vulnerable moments—reading real journal entries from times they felt stuck or lost and open up about the identity shifts that shaped them. Jess talks about finding her sense of self outside of her relationship, while Karli reflects on life after being a student athlete. From letting go of the roles we cling to, to asking the hard questions and figuring out what actually brings us purpose and joy, this episode is a reminder that self-discovery isn’t linear—but it’s always worth it.

In this episode, Jess and Karli dive into the complexities of friendship—exploring how different personality types, upbringings, and social styles shape the way we connect with others. They reflect on how some people thrive in big groups while others feel more at ease one-on-one, and how those dynamics can impact our sense of belonging. They also open up about moments of comparison and insecurity within their own circles and the power of choosing aligned, like-minded friendships in adulthood.

In this episode, Jess and Karli get honest about the pressure pictures can hold—especially around moments like weddings, bachelorettes, and even just casual nights out with your best friends. They explore how social media has shifted the way we take and share photos, often uploading them to spark intrigue—whether through our appearance or the curated highlight reel we present as everyday life. From body image struggles to comparison spirals, they unpack how chasing the “perfect” photo can pull us out of the present moment. It’s a vulnerable conversation about shifting our mindset and returning to what pictures were always meant to be: memories we actually want to keep.

In this episode, Jess and Karli keep it light with an honest conversation about sober curiosity. It’s no secret—summer is often filled with social events, beach days, and plenty of drinks. While that can be fun, it can also bring up feelings of uncertainty, peer pressure, or simply the urge to pause and reflect.

Right now, both Jess and Karli are reevaluating their relationship with alcohol. In this episode, they share what got them to that point, what the journey looks like in real-time, and how they’re navigating an alcohol-centered world with a little more intention.

They talk about the mocktail they’re both loving, and share a laugh about a recent moment when they confidently ordered mocktails at the bar—proving that joy and connection don’t have to come with a drink in hand.

Even if you’re not personally sober curious, this episode offers something for everyone. It might just help you better understand the people in your life who are, and offer a reminder that choosing what feels right for you is always enough.

In this episode, Jess and Karli open up about a topic that hits close to home for both of them: anxiety. They dive into their earliest memories of anxiety, the triggers they face today, and how it physically shows up in their bodies. Sharing candid reflections and personal stories, they also reveal the small, practical habits that help them manage these feelings day-to-day. This episode isn’t just about coping—it’s about understanding anxiety on a deeper level and finding gentler, more compassionate ways to move through it. In a world that moves fast and keeps asking more of us, they hope this conversation reminds you that you’re not alone—and you're only human.

In this episode, Jess and Karli dive into the pressure of life timelines and the quiet (or not-so-quiet) comparisons that come with them. At 26, Jess is a married homeowner. At 28, Karli is single and living with her parents. Their lives couldn’t look more different on paper—and yet, they’re both asking the same thing: Am I doing life all wrong?In this honest conversation, they unpack how easy it is to feel behind when everyone else’s life looks perfectly on track—especially online. From unspoken expectations to the illusion of “success,” Jess and Karli explore the shame and self-doubt that can creep in when we measure ourselves against others. If you’ve ever questioned your path or wondered if you’re where you’re “supposed” to be, this episode is your reminder that you’re right on time.