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Episode 2823:

Dr. Laura Dabney explores the emotional tug-of-war many face when tension arises between their parents and their spouse, revealing why unresolved loyalty conflicts can quietly erode even the strongest marriages. With bold clarity, she emphasizes the power of choosing our partner over outdated family obligations and encourages readers to reexamine where their true commitments lie for the health of their relationship.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.drldabney.com/article/family-issues/

Quotes to ponder:

"It's not possible to make everyone happy. We can't live according to the rules of the past and expect to thrive in the present."

"We can't have one foot in our childhood and one foot in our marriage."

"We have to prioritize, and that may mean stepping into an uncomfortable zone with our family for the good of our marriage."

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Episode 2822:

Adina Soclof offers compassionate and actionable guidance for parents navigating the challenges of raising a strong-willed child. By emphasizing empathy, clear communication, and respectful discipline, she shows how to transform defiance into independence and connection, helping parents nurture their child's strengths while restoring peace at home.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentingsimply.com/help-your-strong-willed-child/

Quotes to ponder:

"We should cultivate a child's independence. It does not have to be at the expense of maintaining our authority as parents in our homes."

"All children want their parent's approval and some children just don't know how to achieve that."

"To really be effective with a tough kid you need to always look for the good in every interaction."

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Episode 2821:

Jay Harrington explores how simple, heartfelt traditions, like letting kids decorate the tree with old handmade ornaments or taking family walks in the snow, can create the most lasting holiday memories. By focusing less on perfection and more on presence, families can build rituals that truly reflect what matters most.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://nosidebar.com/simple-holiday-traditions/

Quotes to ponder:

"Traditions give us a sense of belonging and provide ways to express our priorities."

"Don't get caught up in trying to create perfect, Pinterest-worthy family traditions."

"The best moments are the small, simple ones that don't involve wrapping paper and big credit card bills."

Episode references:

The White Envelope Project: https://whiteenvelopeproject.org

Giving 101: https://www.giving101.org

National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0097958/

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Episode 2820:

Dr. Margaret Rutherford shares a deeply personal account of losing both her parents during the holiday season, revealing the raw emotions and unexpected details that come with grief. Through vivid memories and honest reflection, she invites us to create our own healing rituals and approach the holidays with compassion, for ourselves and for others navigating loss.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/when-the-holidays-bring-the-memory-of-loss/

Quotes to ponder:

"Are we allowing ourselves to feel the way we need to?"

"Treat yourself as well as you can next time you're in a place of loss."

"If you have lost someone you love this year, or if it's the anniversary of their death, you can celebrate their life by creating a ritual that is meaningful for you."

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Episode 2819:

Melissa Josue offers compassionate yet grounded advice to anyone facing dishonesty in a relationship, emphasizing emotional clarity and open communication over confrontation or control. By encouraging listeners to reflect on their own needs and relationship standards, she provides a powerful framework for making empowered decisions, even in long-standing, painful situations.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/what-should-i-do-if-my-boyfriend-keeps-lying-to-me/

Quotes to ponder:

"You can't control whether or not someone lies to you, but you can control how you respond."

"Communicating and reacting to bad experiences are different things."

"It really comes down to asking yourself: What kind of man do you want to be with?"

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Episode 2818:

Dr. Diana Kirschner reveals how to break free from love confusion and self-sabotaging habits by using simple yet powerful practices like writing a "Lasting Love Intention" and embracing what she calls "Soulmate Listening." By shifting focus away from fear and self-doubt and toward mindful connection, you can rewire your brain and nurture a deeper, more committed romantic bond.

Read along with the original article(s) here: http://lovein90days.com/how-to-create-committed-lasting-love/ & http://lovein90days.com/a-personal-confession-about-relationship-sabotage/

Quotes to ponder:

"You do not have to believe an affirmation in order for it to work and come true."

"Negative thoughts lead to fear, worry and more uncertainties."

"It is in silence, when you are paying full attention to your partner, that you really get him or her."

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Episode 2817:

Dr. Lisa Firestone invites us to transform our relationships by recognizing how much of our emotional reactivity stems from old wounds and unconscious projections. By pausing to consider that our partner's behavior may be shaped by their own past rather than something we caused, we can shift from being reactive to being curious, creating space for empathy, compassion, and deeper connection.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.psychalive.org/stop-projecting-in-your-relationship/

Quotes to ponder:

"In a couple, one person always has 100 percent control of 50 percent of the dynamic."

"Sometimes rather than react and pounce all over the present issue, it's better to give it a little time and space."

"Whatever is happening inside our partner isn't always about us."

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Episode 2816:

Nicholas Kraft reflects on the surprising skepticism he and Adam Shell encountered while filming Pursuing Happiness, exploring why some thoughtful, creative individuals believe happiness is overrated, selfish, or even counterproductive. By engaging with these dissenting perspectives, Kraft uncovers deeper insights into fulfillment, arguing that happiness is most powerful when it's a byproduct of meaningful work and service, not the goal itself.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://livehappy.com/is-happiness-important/

Quotes to ponder:

"Being happy or wanting to be happy does not make you selfish."

"There is practically no limit to the happiness you can create."

"Let happiness be the pleasant byproduct of your pursuits, not the pursuit itself."

Episode references:

Can Seeking Happiness Make People Happy? Paradoxical Effects of Valuing Happiness: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21517168/

The Pursuing Happiness Documentary: https://pursuinghappiness.com/