“I used to think discipline meant controlling my son and stopping certain behaviors. Now I understand that discipline can also mean trusting him to learn—even during messy moments.” – Chelsea

In this heartfelt episode, Chelsea Cheng, mother to her 3-year-old son Nathanael, shares her evolving parenting journey—from enforcing control to embracing trust and connection. She opens up about letting go of rigid routines, regulating her own emotions, and learning to connect with her child before giving direction.

Chelsea’s reflections remind us that parenting isn’t about perfection, but about growing together, slowing down, and seeing through our children’s eyes. Tune in to discover how small shifts in perspective can lead to deeper relationships and more joyful parenting.

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With an exciting quest at FAM JAM Fest, experience joy around mealtimes as a family! In celebration of children this October, FAM JAM Fest is a for children, by children community event that empowers children to encourage other children and their families.

Celebrate Children's Day with fun, food and family:

📅 Saturday, 18 October 2025

🕙 Time: 9.30am - 6pm

📍Venue: South Beach Avenue L1 Fountain Plaza

Limited FAM JAM Pack valued above $100 to be redeemed. Admission is free so secure tickets for your family!

Register at www.famchamps.sg/FAMJAM.

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You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

How do you parent a teen or young adult who’s making big life decisions—like choosing a university, starting a career, or even getting married?

In this heartfelt episode, our host June speaks with Dawn Yip, a mother of three sons aged 19–24, about the evolving role of parents during these pivotal years.

Dawn shares real-life stories and practical wisdom on how to offer guidance and guardrails without trying to control the outcome. From affirming your child’s strengths to listening without judgment, this episode is packed with a parent’s love and insights on how to stay connected—even when your child’s choices differ from your own.

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Sign up here to create an account with Focus on the Family Singapore to access a wide range of marriage and parenting resources designed to nurture and strengthen your family relationships.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/parentedpodcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.

In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, teacher and mother Pauline Foo joins our host, June to explore the subtle yet powerful effects of comparison—especially between siblings. Drawing from her personal parenting journey and professional experience, Pauline shares how comparison can quietly shape a child’s identity, self-worth, and family dynamics.

Whether it’s comparing milestones, academic achievements, or personality traits, Pauline reveals how even well-meaning comparisons can lead children to choose different paths just to escape being measured against one another. She offers practical ways to shift from judgment to affirmation, helping parents foster deeper connection and compassion at home.

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Sign up here to create an account with Focus on the Family Singapore to access a wide range of marriage and parenting resources designed to nurture and strengthen your family relationships.

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Do you have a question for us, or a topic you would like to hear about? Drop us an email at ParentEd@family.org.sg. Or visit our website at www.family.org.sg for more parenting resources.

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If you have enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on Spotify, Apple Podcast or Podchaser. It'll be very helpful for others to find our podcast. You can also help us by copying this link www.family.org.sg/parentedpodcast to share with your friends.

You can also support us by giving monthly. We appreciate your generous giving as every dollar helps to sustain our efforts in strengthening families. Please note that if you are based in Singapore, as a donor-supported charity with Institution of a Public Character status, all monthly and one-time donations of $50 and above, will qualify for 250% tax deduction.