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  • S3E3: Giving Up On Purpose with Author and Neuroscientist Charlotte Cramer
    Sep 8 2025

    In this month's edition of Peaking, Jess gets right into it with her guest, skipping her typical "diary entry" intro knowing that their conversation got right to the core of everything she's been feeling lately about work, passion, and fulfillment. And what a perfect guest to help her make sense of it all.

    Charlotte "Charley" Cramer is a writer, neuroscientist, and entrepreneur who is passionate about helping others translate their inner world into words. As best-selling author of The Purpose Myth and founder of Authorship, which provides coaching for writers aiming to write their first nonfiction books, Charlotte brings an expert lens to storytelling, healing, and fulfillment. So naturally, she and Jess dissect Jess's own career crossroads, ending up somewhere that neither of them expected.

    And it wouldn't be the home of the boo fam if Jess didn't conclude with a highly theoretical gesticulation on reality dating shows. A very scientific episode indeed.


    ~Where to find CHARLOTTE~

    https://charlottecramer.substack.com/

    https://www.charlottecramer.com/

    https://www.authorship.club/

    @authorship.club

    @charleycramer


    ~Credits/Links~

    Edited by: @abinewhouse ⁠⁠@jzdebakey⁠⁠

    Podcasts: ⁠⁠@peakingpodcast⁠⁠ ⁠⁠@not4everyonepod⁠⁠

    Logo/Brand Design: ⁠⁠@magiceightstudio⁠⁠

    Photography: ⁠⁠@thelocalnomads_⁠⁠

    Music: "Have Mercy On Us" by Air Kid

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    1 h et 7 min
  • S3E2: Unlearning the Creative Grind with Gabi Lee + An All-Time Reality TV Moment
    Aug 4 2025

    This one finds Jess in her natural habitat: fresh out the shower (FOTS) and in desperate need of alone time. Cozy and turbie twisted, she talks about projecting her need for personal connection onto her partner, and how she is approaching solo hobbies for pure enjoyment. After all, she can't derive everything from reality tv, though stay until the end of the episode for her thoughts on this season of Love Island UK.

    Then Jess is joined by Gabi Lee (yes, THEE @tofugoob), a Chicago-based YouTuber, artist, and dancer who Jess had her eye on long before they became friends. Gabi has a refreshing and deeply needed perspective on all things creativity and fulfillment. After 3 years splitting her time between a career as an NBA dancer and a day job as an engineer, Gabi pivoted into art and YouTube, eventually quitting corporate to pursue her passions full-time. She lasted 6 months. Now, Gabi is leaning into the simplicity of a 9-5... a turn of events that Jess is particularly interested in.

    This one is for all the high-achieving creative types that care too much what other people think and don't know how to chill. Sound familiar, boo fam?

    Check out Magic Eight Studio for all of your branding, website, and small business glow-up needs.


    ~Where to find GABI~

    https://www.tofugoob.com/

    https://www.youtube.com/@tofugoob

    https://www.patreon.com/tofugoob


    ~Credits/Links~

    Edited by meee: ⁠@jzdebakey⁠

    Podcasts: ⁠@peakingpodcast⁠ ⁠@not4everyonepod⁠

    Logo/Brand Design: ⁠@magiceightstudio⁠

    Photography: ⁠@thelocalnomads_⁠

    Music: "Have Mercy On Us" by Air Kid

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    1 h et 22 min
  • S3E1: Playing the Long Game with Nora McConnell-Johnson + Love Island US Predictions
    Jul 7 2025

    Boo fam!!! WE ARE SO BACK. In the Season 3 premiere of Peaking, Jess looks back on her start as a podcaster, and how far she's come since her last episode 2.5 years ago. Now, she's at a crossroads, and she's using this space as a testing ground. Should she go full force at her passion project? Is this thing even on? Tune in for monthly episodes where she shares her innermost thoughts on side hustling, then hears from guests on how they're building their own businesses. Plus stay til the end for a reality TV rant you won't want to miss.


    Today's guest is Nora McConnell-Johnson, the co-founder of Chicago's new Babe's Sports Bar. Nora is a former educator and public policy professional who recently entered the bar industry after noticing a gap in the market - there's legit nowhere to watch women's sports! Jess and Nora chat all things making a risky pivot, breaking ground on a new business, and redefining success. It's a peaking story that’s sure to make herstory.


    ~Credits/Links~

    Meee: @jzdebakey

    Podcasts: @peakingpodcast @not4everyonepod

    Guest: @babesinchicago @noramcjo

    Editor: @abinewhouse

    Logo/Brand Design: @magiceightstudio

    Photography: @thelocalnomads_

    Music: "Have Mercy On Us" by Air Kid

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    1 h et 18 min
  • S2E10: Finally Met My Match (Announcing Not for Everyone!)
    Dec 1 2022

    Jess is still not a Swiftie, though the contents of this special announcement episode have been in the vault for a couple of months now. Amidst her usual rambles, distractions, and stream of conscious feelings, Jess is ecstatic to share with the boo fam the launch of a brand new podcast (co-hosted with her friend and former guest Caroline Winkler): Not For Everyone.

    Go support her growing podcast dreams by following on Instagram @not4everyonepod, and look out for the first episode on December 8th, 2022!!! She couldn't have done it without y'all and looks forward to popping into Peaking every now and again for continued connections with her day ones.

    Peaking IG: @peakingpodcast

    Not For Everyone IG: @not4everyonepod

    Jess's Personal IG: @jzdebakey

    Caroline's Personal IG: @thegoodsitter

    Caroline's YouTube Channel: @Caroline_Angelica

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    Intro/Outro Music: "Have Mercy On Us" by Air Kid

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    30 min
  • S2E9: Perfectionism Comes Here to Die (Jess Thots Vol. 7)
    Jun 14 2022

    LOLOLOL right when you thought you had me allllll figured out. "That Jess, she got a a new job and suddenly doesn't have time for us anymore." THINK AGAIN! I may not have time (read: energy/patience/motivation) to edit a highly polished episode for you, but I always have tons to say. So here's a random Jess Thots episode on a Tuesday morning* because THERE ARE NO RULES.

    Anyway. I don't know the next time you'll hear from me, but I promise I'll be back soon. Preferably when you least expect it again - like a dude you just got over who's craving attention because the girl he usually texts finally found a guy that treats her right, and his mom is busy at a conference or something.

    *Correction: Monday night

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    IG: @peakingpodcast

    Intro/Outro Music: "Have Mercy On Us" by Air Kid

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    31 min
  • S2E8: Changing Through the Seasons with In Bed With Books
    May 5 2022

    🚨FIRST COLLAB ALERT🚨

    In this episode, Jess takes part in her very first podcast collab! She was thrilled when the ladies of In Bed With Books (Bethany and Melissa) reached out to guest on each other's shows, even though that meant she'd have to read. Connecting with new people seems to supersede that for her - noted!

    The ladies discuss all things celebrity crushes, astrology, and of course peaking. Bethany and Melissa share about their time moving abroad for the grad program where they met, a particularly challenging time for them both but for very different reasons. Before getting into it with her guests though, of course Jess had to bring you some of her trademark chaotic energy, giving the boo fam an update on her new job and ongoing existential crisis.

    You can find In Bed With Books on Instagram @inbedwithbookspod and check out their YouTube channel for full videos of their episodes (including the one with Jess!). Or, if you're more of an audio purist, go find it on Apple, Spotify, or Google Podcasts - it's the May 2, 2022 episode.

    www.peakingpodcast.com

    IG: @peakingpodcast

    Intro/Outro Music: "Have Mercy On Us" by Air Kid

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    1 h et 20 min
  • S2E7: Saying It Out Loud with Alex Martinez
    Apr 7 2022

    Back to the OG "interview" format, in this episode Jess goes deep with her fitness coach and friend, Alex Martinez. Alex opens up about his journey coming out as trans, from those little moments growing up that started to accumulate all the way through to his post-transition life and how he's turned his authentic self into his superpower. This episode is full of breakthroughs, pushes both of them to uncomfortable places of growth and learning, and of course hinges on the innate connection between two water sign brethren (Alex the Pisces to Jess' Cancer). It was a gift to have him on the show.

    Alex is the owner of Above the Bar (ATB), a personal and small group training gym in Chicago that works with clients holistically in the gym, kitchen, and their lives. All are welcomed, empowered, encouraged, important & respected at ATB. And, if you decide to pop in, you may see your very own Jess (or JZ as she is known when lifting heavy weights) cracking jokes and getting those gains. You can find him on Instagram @abovethebar.life.

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    IG: @peakingpodcast

    Intro/Outro Music: "Have Mercy On Us" by Air Kid

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    1 h et 24 min
  • S2E6: When Good Things Cause Burnout Too (Jess Thots Vol. 6)
    Mar 24 2022

    So, Jess lied when she said there wouldn't be another Jess Thots anytime soon. After pushing her Peaking schedule back and taking a week of rest, she felt it was time to ~address the public~ and fill the boo fam in on what's gotten her so drained lately. Her realization? You can be burnt out from things other than a full-time job, and you can even be burnt out from things you love to do! Wild. Also, a much anticipated update on her job search, and some TV recommendations for those days when you're screening everyone's calls.

    www.peakingpodcast.com

    IG: @peakingpodcast

    Intro/Outro Music: "Have Mercy On Us" by Air Kid

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    29 min