Some questions don’t have easy answers. Why do bad things happen to good people? Why does tragedy strike the lives of those who least deserve it?

Christina Sy, also known as BC, knows the answer in a way most of us can’t imagine. In 2017, she lost her two children and their father in a single devastating moment.

In this exclusive interview, BC shares:

• The moments that almost broke her - and what got her through
• How she chose not just to survive, but to live fully again
• Turning grief into purpose through Join Sports Jam, a community built on legacy, connection, movement, and joy
• The lessons her heartbreak taught her about resilience, love, and choosing life

This is not a story of tragedy. It’s a story of what we do next.

00:00 – 04:00 – The call that shattered BC's world.
04:00 – 09:00 – Facing impossible choices at the hospital.
09:00 – 12:00 – Uncovering domestic violence and the full scope of loss.
12:00 – 27:00 – Learning the tragedy was not an accident...
27:00 – 38:00 – Choosing survival every day despite trauma.
38:00 – 49:57 – Rediscovering joy and movement through dance and SportsJam
49:57 – 01:01:34 – Setting personal milestones and offering guidance to others.

Learn more about BC and Sports Jam here: https://www.joinsportsjam.org/

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Most presentations are forgettable. We fill slides, rehearse lines, and hope the message lands. But it rarely does...because information doesn’t move people. Stories do.

In this Bite Size from episode #144, speaking expert Tony Bulmer reveals the simple truth behind every great presentation: emotion wins where logic fails.

He shares how a single story — told by one of his clients — changed the entire energy of a room. It wasn’t polished. It wasn’t perfect. But it was real. And that’s what made people listen.

This episode is about what happens when you stop trying to impress an audience… and start trying to reach them.

You can find Tony at his LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonybulmer/?originalSubdomain=au
Or at his website: https://www.bulmergroup.com/

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Ali Day is one of the world’s top Ironman athletes - but this isn’t about medals. It’s about the mindset, habits, and grit that push humans past their limits. Ali breaks down the people who shaped him, the mental tools that rewired his approach, and the moments that tested him like never before.

Behind the scenes, he reveals the visualisation and hypnosis tools that changed everything—imagining entire races in brutal detail, scripting every move, and rehearsing every scenario in his mind—alongside the recovery strategies, growth lessons, and life insights that stretch far beyond sport.

In this episode, Andrew and Ali Day discuss:

2:05 – Childhood heroes that sparked a love of sport
4:25 – The 10-minute breakthrough with a sports psychologist
8:35 – Mastering imagery: mental tools that changed the game
15:20 – Swimming against the Ironman current with support from those who mattered
17:30 – Breaking both wrists and rebuilding stronger than ever
24:15 – Unlearning old habits and redefining performance identity
32:55 – Why Ironman is never an individual sport
35:50 – The unglamorous grind behind the glory
43:30 – Recovery as a science: tracking every metric
47:15 – Life beyond Ironman: business and firefighting ambitions
54:15 – Reflecting on the journey and a 10-year vision
59:10 – Sports psychologist Lisa shares her reflections

Follow Ali on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alastairday/?hl=en
Find out more about ACTV Strength Co: https://actvstrengthco.com/

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