Épisodes

  • Poised and Petty Podcast Episode 7: Being Trans Online, How I Handle Hate and Building Confidence
    Dec 3 2025

    Welcome to the seventh episode of Poised and Petty!


    Being visibly trans online comes with love, connection, community… and a whole lot of unwanted hate. In this episode of Poised & Petty, I’m opening up about what it’s really like to exist on the internet as a trans woman in 2025. From navigating transphobic comments to dealing with trolls, boundary-setting, digital self-care, and learning how to protect my mental health, I break down my entire system for handling online hate without losing myself.

    I talk about the emotional impact of being trans online, how I respond to ignorance vs. hostility, the difference between educating and preserving your peace, and how blocking, muting, and curating your feeds can actually be acts of self-love. I also share the confidence tools that helped me build my identity, strengthen my voice, and stay grounded while transitioning publicly.

    Whether you’re a trans person trying to survive social media, someone questioning your identity, or an ally wanting to understand what trans creators face every day, this episode offers practical advice, personal stories, and a lot of heart.

    Topics include:
    • Being trans online in 2025
    • Handling transphobic hate comments
    • Digital boundaries and mental health
    • Building confidence as a trans woman
    • How to respond to trolls (and when not to)
    • Protecting your peace on social media
    • Authenticity, self-love, and chosen community
    • Advice for trans women, trans creators, and LGBTQ youth

    If you want real talk, encouragement, and a reminder that your existence is powerful, valid, and worth celebrating, this episode is for you.


    Here are some links for being trans online:

    https://getplume.co/blog/how-to-stay-safe-and-sane-as-a-trans-person-online/

    https://www.esafety.gov.au/young-people/being-out-trans-gender-diverse-online


    Welcome to Poised & Petty, the podcast where confidence is key, beauty is power, and a little bit of shade is just part of the game. This is your weekly dose of unfiltered conversations about gender transition, fashion, beauty, self-development, and the art of being that cvnt—graceful, unstoppable, and just petty enough to keep things interesting.

    Because life’s too short to be anything another than iconic🎧 Subscribe now and step into your power—one poised, petty and fabulous moment at a time. 💋✨

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    35 min
  • Poised and Petty Podcast Episode 6: If I Could Talk To My Younger Trans Self...Here Is What I Would Say
    Dec 1 2025

    Welcome to the sixth episode of Poised and Petty!

    If I Could Talk to My Younger Trans Self… Here’s What I Would SayThis episode is part reflection, part love letter, and part survival guide for any trans woman, nonbinary person, or LGBTQ+ listener navigating identity, dysphoria, self-doubt, or the early stages of their transition.

    Whether you’re early in your transition, questioning, or years into your journey, this episode is full of honest, reflective moments that speak to the heart of transgender womanhood.

    If you’ve ever wondered what your older self might say to you… this is mine talking back.


    Welcome to Poised & Petty, the podcast where confidence is key, beauty is power, and a little bit of shade is just part of the game. This is your weekly dose of unfiltered conversations about gender transition, fashion, beauty, self-development, and the art of being that cvnt—graceful, unstoppable, and just petty enough to keep things interesting.

    Because life’s too short to be anything another than iconic🎧 Subscribe now and step into your power—one poised, petty and fabulous moment at a time. 💋✨

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    34 min
  • Episode 5: My FFS and Jaw Surgery Journey
    Nov 25 2025

    Welcome to the fifth episode of Poised and Petty! In this episode, I will going through my FFS and Jaw Surgery Journey. Welcome to Poised & Petty, the podcast where confidence is key, beauty is power, and a little bit of shade is just part of the game. This is your weekly dose of unfiltered conversations about gender transition, fashion, beauty, self-development, and the art of being that cvnt—graceful, unstoppable, and just petty enough to keep things interesting.

    Because life’s too short to be anything another than iconic🎧 Subscribe now and step into your power—one poised, petty and fabulous moment at a time. 💋✨

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    16 min
  • Episode 4: Dealing with Burnout While Transitioning: You’re Not Lazy
    Apr 19 2025

    Welcome to the fourth episode of Poised and Petty! In this episode, I will going through Dealing with Burnout While Transitioning: You’re Not LazyPoised and Petty Podcast Episode 4: Dealing with Burnout While Transitioning: You’re Not LazyWelcome to Poised & Petty, the podcast where confidence is key, beauty is power, and a little bit of shade is just part of the game. This is your weekly dose of unfiltered conversations about gender transition, fashion, beauty, self-development, and the art of being that cvnt—graceful, unstoppable, and just petty enough to keep things interesting.Because life’s too short to be anything another than iconic🎧 Subscribe now and step into your power—one poised, petty and fabulous moment at a time. 💋✨

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    11 min
  • Episode 3: My Favorite Femme Icons and What I’ve Learned from Them
    Apr 11 2025

    Welcome to the third episode of Poised and Petty!In this episode, I will going through My Favorite Femme Icons and What I’ve Learned from ThemPoised and Petty Podcast Episode 3: My Favorite Femme Icons and What I’ve Learned from ThemWelcome to Poised & Petty, the podcast where confidence is key, beauty is power, and a little bit of shade is just part of the game. This is your weekly dose of unfiltered conversations about gender transition, fashion, beauty, self-development, and the art of being that cvnt—graceful, unstoppable, and just petty enough to keep things interesting.Because life’s too short to be anything another than iconic🎧 Subscribe now and step into your power—one poised, petty and fabulous moment at a time. 💋✨

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    12 min
  • Episode 2.5: Male to Female Transition - Transgender MTF Timeline 6 years on hormones
    Apr 7 2025

    Welcome to the next episode of Poised and Petty!I'm expanding off of episode 1 which is why its called 2.5In this episode, I will going through my transition and talking about my journey so far. I used to watch and look up other transition timelines so I figured I could talk and show my journey!Poised and Petty Podcast Episode 2.5: Male to Female Transition - Transgender MTF Timeline 6 years hormonesWelcome to Poised & Petty, the podcast where confidence is key, beauty is power, and a little bit of shade is just part of the game. This is your weekly dose of unfiltered conversations about gender transition, fashion, beauty, self-development, and the art of being that cvnt—graceful, unstoppable, and just petty enough to keep things interesting.Because life’s too short to be anything another than iconic🎧 Subscribe now and step into your power—one poised, petty and fabulous moment at a time. 💋✨

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    17 min
  • Episode 2: Am I Trans? How To Tell If You Are Transgender
    Apr 5 2025

    Welcome to the second episode of Poised and Petty!


    Workbook talked about in this episode:

    The Queer & Transgender Resilience Workbook

    by Anneliese Singh, PhD, LPC


    In this episode, I will going through the questions: Am I trans? How to tell if you are transgender


    Poised and Petty Podcast Episode 2: Am I Trans? How To Tell If You Are Transgender

    Welcome to Poised & Petty, the podcast where confidence is key, beauty is power, and a little bit of shade is just part of the game. This is your weekly dose of unfiltered conversations about gender transition, fashion, beauty, self-development, and the art of being that cvnt—graceful, unstoppable, and just petty enough to keep things interesting.


    Because life’s too short to be anything another than iconic


    🎧 Subscribe now and step into your power—one poised, petty and fabulous moment at a time. 💋✨

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    24 min
  • Episode 1: My Transition So Far
    Mar 28 2025

    Welcome to the first episode of Poised and Petty!


    In this, quick, episode, I will talking about my transition from male to female so far and a little bit about what I plan on doing this year.


    Poised and Petty Podcast Episode 1: My Transition So Far

    Welcome to Poised & Petty, the podcast where confidence is key, beauty is power, and a little bit of shade is just part of the game. This is your weekly dose of unfiltered conversations about gender transition, fashion, beauty, self-development, and the art of being that cvnt—graceful, unstoppable, and just petty enough to keep things interesting.


    Because life’s too short to be anything another than iconic


    🎧 Subscribe now and step into your power—one poised, petty and fabulous moment at a time. 💋✨

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    15 min