In this episode, I’m breaking down what growth actually feels like — not the highlight reel version, but the real, uncomfortable, messy middle we all have to move through. I call it the river of misery — the space between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming.

I walk you through the four phases of growth:

1. Awareness & Fear – that moment you realize you want more and it scares the hell out of you.

2. Test, Learn & Create – where you start trying things, failing, learning, and doing it again.

3. Discover & Play – when you start trusting yourself and experimenting more freely.

4. Understanding & Becoming – when your new identity starts to feel real.

This episode is your reminder that discomfort doesn’t mean you’re off track — it means you’re evolving. BOOK A SALES CALL FOR 1:1 COACHING HERE: https://calendly.com/catdelcarmen/consultation-call?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAacCUHT_JY55E5a2e-1tbKE7A7Bn_TXtmzPfDh6EZKBPc_MU5zSwpD-GmXS0mw_aem_5LeBLwZfegF56cNg-t-JOQ&month=2025-10

Takeaways:

• Growth is messy and uncomfortable — and that’s the point.

• Awareness often brings fear, but it’s the start of transformation.

• The “river of misery” is where real change happens.

• Discomfort = progress.

• Self-awareness is your best tool in the hard parts.

• Learn to respond to your inner critic, not obey it.

• Self-trust is built in the middle, not at the finish line.

• The goal isn’t to skip discomfort, it’s to move through it.

• Growth feels like chaos before it feels like clarity.

• You’re not lost — you’re becoming.