Épisodes

  • 146 - Signs You are in a Safe and Healthy Relationship

    146 - Signs You are in a Safe and Healthy Relationship
    Dec 10 2025
    In this week's episode, Kylene is discussing what are some signs that you are in a safe and healthy relationship? She shares conversations that exemplify safety, as well as offering examples from her relationship with Patrick.

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    37 min
  • 145 - Comparison and Feeling Chosen After Betrayal

    145 - Comparison and Feeling Chosen After Betrayal
    Dec 3 2025

    A podcast listener asked Kylene to share more on the challenge of feeling compared to other women and the feeling of not being chosen after betrayal.

    Kylene shares her personal story and methods she used to move towards a place of feeling chosen both by herself and by Patrick.

    She shares:

    She first had to choose herself

    How she utilized tools like therapy, EMDR and subconscious reprogramming to help her healing process and address specific triggers

    How Patricks choices were supportive to her recovery

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    56 min
  • 144 - Becoming a Resilient Human with Ron Rhea II

    144 - Becoming a Resilient Human with Ron Rhea II
    Nov 26 2025
    In today's episode, Kylene speaks with Ron Rhea about his book, "The Grounded Liberation Method". They walk through his 10 root method, discussing why mindfulness and connection are important and the gifts that facing your emotions and shadows can offer in life.

    Grounded Liberation Book: https://books.by/ron-rhea-ii

    Work with Ron: https://stan.store/TempleBuildingCoaching

    Follow Ron on IG: @temple.building.coaching

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    50 min
  • 143 - After Betrayal: Kylene’s Unfiltered Truth

    143 - After Betrayal: Kylene’s Unfiltered Truth
    Nov 19 2025

    In today’s episode, Patrick interviews me (Kylene) and asks me questions about my experience as a betrayed partner.

    Some things we discuss are:

    • What was discovery like for me
    • How was I able to express my emotions
    • What were things that Patrick did that were helpful or hurtful
    • What do I wish all addicts knew
    • Why vulnerable conversations are so important

    And more…

    We hope that this episode both resonates. My story isn’t your story, but I know there are many aspects that may feel similar.

    One thing I share in this episode is how intensely long, difficult and painful this journey was for me. We can’t sugar coat that reality. But what we also hope to communicate, is that through the healing process there can be something better on the other side. Whether a couple stays together or goes separate ways, healing offers us an opportunity to create a life we enjoy.

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    1 h
  • 142 - Protecting your Child's Innocence with Age Appropriate Sex Talks

    142 - Protecting your Child's Innocence with Age Appropriate Sex Talks
    Nov 12 2025
    We live in a sex saturated world. It's an unfortunate reality that children are getting exposed to inappropriate materials earlier and earlier. As parents, it's our job to guide our children and protect them to the best of our ability. One of the best ways we can do this is by having open and honest conversations with them around sex, sexuality and pornography early, and often. But how can we do this in age appropriate ways? In this episode we are sharing specific concepts and ideas to communicate to your children as well as navigating which types of topics and conversations to have at which ages.. We also mentioned several podcast episodes and resources and those are listed below! "Where Modesty Culture Goes Wrong: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000731965520 "How to talk to your Kids about sex" https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000668310201

    Books: *As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases.*

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    How to talk to your kids about sex: https://amzn.to/3XiNkHx

    The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex: https://amzn.to/47PjQ90

    Education:

    The parent training course from pure desire: https://puredesire.org/shop/parent-training-course-equipping-parents-to-have-conversations-with-their-kids-about-sex/

    Kristen Miele’s Sed Ed Reclaimed: https://www.sexedreclaimed
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    1 h et 1 min
  • 141 - 4 Myths in the Recovery Community

    141 - 4 Myths in the Recovery Community
    Nov 5 2025
    This week we are discussing 4 myths (that we think keep people stuck) in the recovery community. Patrick and I deeply believe in our mission to bring education and awareness around recovery because we know the freedom in your life that it can bring. That being said, there are several beliefs in the recovery and faith communities that we see keeping people from reaching their full potential in life. 4 myths we discuss today: 1. Your suffering is holy 2. Anyone who wants to lead a recovery group should (even if they aren't in recovery) 3. Addiction is permanent 4. Women can't have autonomy in marriage In contrast to the above, we believe in: 1. Personal responsibility and boundaries 2. Lead by example 3. Addiction is reversible and you can achieve full freedom from it 4. Men and women are equal in marriage some we both lead each other in different areas

    Additional episodes you may like based on todays’ content:

    Sobriety vs Recovery: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000684064277

    Forgiveness:

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000629370575

    We hope this episode is encouraging and shines a light on the possibilities of true health.

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    57 min
  • 140 - Connection and Healing After Betrayal

    140 - Connection and Healing After Betrayal
    Oct 29 2025
    In today’s episode, Kylene opens up about her personal healing journey—sharing some of her painful experiences with the church, moments of struggle in her faith, and how finding a safe and supportive community became a crucial part of her recovery.

    She also explores the importance of connection—connection to self, to others, and to God—and why cultivating these three areas is essential for betrayed partners on the path to healing.

    Episodes/Topics mentioned in today's episode: Self worth vs Self confidence: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000708437532 Intrusive Thoughts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000652006011 Kylene's story of divorce: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000643643605

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    40 min
  • 139 - Inside the mind of successfully recovered porn addicts

    139 - Inside the mind of successfully recovered porn addicts
    Oct 22 2025
    What is it that makes some people successful in sex or porn addiction recovery? There are several key commitments/mindsets/beliefs that all individuals who get into recovery share and we are breaking them down in today's episode. 1. They want recovery (intrinsic motivation) 2. They commit to honesty no matter the cost 3. They are willing to get uncomfortable to the point of sacrifice 4. They Understand it's a long term commitment 5. If married, they own it and take responsibility for the impact We notice that everyone who recovers shares these ways of thinking and behaving. If you are a betrayed partner, these are good landmarks to look out for when you are wondering if recovery is real. You may also want to listen to previous episodes: Sobriety vs Recovery (ep 96): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000684064277 Choosing your Identity in Recovery (ep 7): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recoveru-betrayal-trauma-sex-addiction-support-betrayal/id1674653111?i=1000606456712

    If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql

    Submit Questions and Feedback to the RecoverU podcast here: https://forms.gle/uww5sWK1WP8T8dbc8

    Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoveru2

    For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org

    Follow Kylene:

    On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune

    On IG: @KyleneTerhune
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    46 min