As part of my Winter Replay Series, I’m revisiting one of the most asked and most relevant questions for Gen X singles.
Where are people actually meeting each other these days?

If you are in your 40s or 50s and feeling discouraged, disconnected, or tired of the dating app merry-go-round, this conversation still matters. Maybe even more as we move into a new year and quietly think about what we want differently.

In this episode, I talk about where real connection is still happening, both offline and online; how to use dating apps with intention rather than burnout, if you choose to use them at all; and why focusing on building a full, grounded, meaningful life is still the most attractive place to start.

This replay is not about pressure or chasing outcomes. It is about mindset, curiosity, and becoming the kind of person you would actually want to meet. If meeting someone is one of your goals for the year ahead, this episode offers perspective, encouragement, and practical ways to approach connection with more ease and hope.

Perfect for winter listening and for anyone entering the new year wanting to date differently and more consciously.

This winter can feel heavy for many men, especially as the days grow shorter and life's uncertainties settle in.

I am offering my Winter of a Man 30-minute coaching session for half off through the end of January. If you are craving encouragement, clarity, or simply a genuine connection during these challenging months, this space is for you. Book your session and step into the season with more confidence and support. ⁠stan.store/the_sarah_valentine⁠.