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In this episode Sandy and Cara discuss a horse girls dream, being given a free horse! The positives of owning a horse are well worth all that they require and being given a horse is more heart warming than anyone could ever expect. Listen in as Sandy and Cara discuss the importance of being as picky with accepting a free horse as when purchasing one.

We pull back the curtain on what free really means, from farrier cycles and dental work to saddle fit, supplements, and the steady drip of training time that turns chaos into connection. We share the real math of horse ownership, the emotional ups and downs of taking in gifted horses, and how to read the story behind that enticing price tag.

We map out the red flags and the green lights: why pairing a green rider with a green horse can pile up bruises and bills, how to think about herd needs so a solitary setup doesn’t unravel a good mind, and what “trailered everywhere” actually means once you ask clarifying questions. You’ll hear candid barn-floor stories—champions given away during lean years, older Arabs who taught us patience and limits, and the quiet heroics of companion horses who kept anxious geldings sane. We talk health quirks like late gelding, respiratory issues, weight management, abscesses, and arthritis, plus the gear and fit headaches that come with hard-to-fit backs. The throughline: the horse is often the cheapest part, and the value you build is in the relationship.

To keep your head clear when your heart races, we share the essential checklist: start with why is this horse free, then dig into feet, teeth, vet history, riding frequency, trailering experience, feed and hay transitions, tack fit, and any behavioral baggage. We challenge the myth of the destined heart horse and offer a better path—months of patient acclimation, consistent groundwork, and creative problem-solving that lets a horse learn your language. With the right support from a trainer, a vet, and a solid barn community, a “free” horse can become the best partner you’ve ever had.

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The desert trail gave us the perfect classroom: one anxious mare, one brave rider, and a clear case of how human tension becomes a horse’s worry. We set out to help our friend Susan prepare Emma for ponying and discovered the real fix wasn’t a harsher cue or a bigger bubble. It was quieter, softer hands, a breathing seat, and clear, repeatable steps turned “don’t go” energy into steady, confident movement.

Along the way, the trail threw us a test: Aspen went down in deep sand. No panic—just solid safety. Cara employed the illustrious emergency dismount by rolling off to the side and nearly getting stepped ob. Max tripped too, which opened a smart talk on gear choices and why a hackamore is Sandy's go to on the trail.

Under it all sits a bigger theme: leveling up without swapping horses. Some riders pursue ribbons and keep the sport visible. Others choose to grow with the horse they love, redefining success as partnership, patience, and consistent progress. Susan chose the second path, and we’re here for it. From body awareness to trail etiquette with bikes and dogs, from micro-cues to mindset, this ride is a field guide to staying calm, staying kind, and getting better together.

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What happens when Cara's dancer’s instincts meet a sensitive horse on a training day that finally clicks? We start with a small miracle—hips and shoulders aligning, cues clearing up, and a horse who stops guessing and starts trusting—and follow that thread straight into the messier arena of aging, body image, and the weight we carry. The dance floor, the round pen, and the kitchen table all ask for the same thing: clarity.

We get candid about menopause, insulin resistance, and why “eat less, move more” can fail a body that’s fighting its own chemistry. Sandy took part in the Semaglutide human study and learned the real upsides and risks—significant weight loss, a quieter appetite, and the very real threat of dehydration when she didn't respect the basics. Cara navigated hypoglycemia and thyroid swings, discovering how hunger can drown out good intentions. Tools like Ozempic and tirzepatide can help, but they’re not magic; hydration and realistic movement still matter. We also question the food system that stacks the deck against health while asking us to try harder anyway.

The heart of the episode discusses the nightmare of a young mustang mare who foundered after getting into sweet feed. We walk through months of care, fleeting hope, and a final decision rooted in compassion. It’s a hard story, but it sharpens the bigger lesson: quality of life is the metric that counts—for our horses and for us. From there, we let go of “the number” and choose capacity instead: ride the hills, enjoy the clothes that fit, keep the strength you need to live the life you love, and measure success by what your body and your horse can do together.

If you’re navigating weight loss medications, metabolic puzzles, or a tough call with a beloved horse, this ride is for you. Tap follow us on Saddle Talk with Sandy and Cara, share this episode with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to help more riders find the show. What capacity are you building for the life you want?