Evan is joined by communication experts Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski, co-authors of 'Outwitting the Manipulator.' The episode delves into recognizing and responding to manipulation in real-time, particularly within the context of high-conflict divorces and everyday relationships. Topics include common manipulation tactics such as gaslighting and love bombing, managing post-divorce parenting, and the significance of premarital counseling. The podcast also features a discussion on handling manipulation from leadership in the workplace and offers practical advice for those dealing with manipulators. The episode concludes with the fun segment 'They Said It,' where Evan and guests analyze famous quotes related to manipulation.

Topics

02:39 Holiday Struggles During Divorce

05:48 Co-Parenting During the Holidays

11:18 Life After Divorce: Remarriage and Moving On

13:06 Overrated or Underrated: Fun and Legal Topics

24:06 Interview with Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski

36:51 Understanding Manipulative Personalities

37:34 Can Manipulators Change?

38:15 Manipulation Tactics in the Workplace

39:29 Mastering Skills to Handle Manipulation

43:11 Manipulation in High Conflict Divorces

44:17 Communicating with a Manipulative Ex

47:06 Spotting Manipulation in Legal Cases

59:09 Quotes on Manipulation

01:04:32 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan dives into the complexities of divorce and addiction with featured guest Erin Khar, author of 'Strung Out'. The episode covers Erin's personal journey through a 15-year heroin addiction, her approach to recovery, and her advice on navigating relationships plagued by substance abuse. The conversation also touches on broader societal issues, such as the stigma around addiction and the flawed family court system. Listeners will find practical advice on handling the holiday season amidst divorce, the nuances of parental alienation claims, and thoughts on cultural phenomena like Taylor Swift. The episode concludes with an engaging segment featuring quotes from notable figures and a lively discussion on the underrated cranberry sauce.

Topics

00:15 Divorce and the Holiday Season

05:26 AI Relationships and Legal Challenges

12:04 Overrated or Underrated: Pop Culture Edition

23:14 Interview with Erin Khar: Addiction and Recovery

36:15 Addressing Skeptical Senators on Harm Reduction

36:47 The Economic Argument for Medicated Assisted Treatment

39:05 Personal Reflections on Writing a Memoir

40:40 The Dichotomy of Heroin Use

43:39 The Unwinnable War on Drugs

45:41 Advocating for Harm Reduction and Community Support

50:51 Balancing Advice and Personal Experience

52:51 Lessons from Beverly Hills 90210

54:40 Changing the Language Around Addiction

56:31 Parenting and Personal Accountability

01:14:05 The Importance of Sharing Your Story

01:19:36 Final Thoughts and Reflections

In Episode 93 of The Schein On Podcast, Evan talks to Dr. Tracey Dalgleish, a clinical psychologist and relationship expert, to discuss her latest book, 'You, Your Husband and His Mother.' The conversation delves into the intricacies of the relationship triangle between husbands, their wives, and mother-in-laws. Tracey provides actionable advice for couples aiming to strengthen their marriage while managing familial boundaries. The episode also touches on significant issues such as the current state of divorce law, the value of farmers' markets, and the communal joy of fantasy sports leagues. Additionally, listeners get treated to the engaging 'Overrated/Underrated' and 'They Said It' segments, making for a well-rounded and insightful episode.

Topics

00:33 Exploring Divorce Dynamics with Dr. Tracey Dalgleish

02:47 The Impact of Equal Custody Laws

08:42 Overrated or Underrated

25:08 Navigating Boundaries with Family

26:26 Practical Tools for Tough Moments

28:25 Personal Struggles and Professional Insights

30:12 The Power of Vulnerability in Therapy

34:01 Shifting Perspectives on Marriage and Divorce

35:27 Balancing Professional and Personal Life

38:53 Advice for Couples in Therapy

42:58 Co-Parenting After Divorce

44:42 Reflecting on the New Book

46:48 Fun Segment: They Said It

52:34 Conclusion and Final Thoughts