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  • De-Stress the Holidays (Quickie)

    De-Stress the Holidays (Quickie)
    Nov 20 2025

    This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with tips on how to de-stress the holidays for your own sake and for your marriage. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

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    Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
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    3 min
  • Sensitive Spots, Breast Augmentation & an Act She Doesn't Care For (Listener Questions)

    Sensitive Spots, Breast Augmentation & an Act She Doesn't Care For (Listener Questions)
    Nov 13 2025
    Today, we're tackling some tough listener questions. We're joined by Tara Buchanan, good friend and cohost of the Behind Our Smiles podcast. Sponsor It's here! Order the Sexual Desire Differences Masterclass and get the video, a resource list, and an invitation to participate in tonight's (Thursday, November 13, 2025) Live Q&A session with Bonny and J at 7:00pm eastern! Masterclass: Sexual Desire Differences - Sex Chat for Christian Wives. From the Bible The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:13 I am a wall, and my breasts are like towers. Thus I have become in his eyes like one bringing contentment. Song of Songs 8:10 So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:17 And the Lord God commanded the man, "You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die." Genesis 2:16–17 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened....Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another....Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error. Romans 1:21,24, 26–27 Resources Behind Our Smiles Podcast, with Tara & Joe BuchananStruggling with Sex in Marriage? Here's What To Do First. - Hot, Holy & HumorousSensate Focus Therapy | Cornell HealthEverything You Need to Know About Sensate Focus Touch by Linda Weiner, LCSW | YouTubeThe Back Door (my take on anal sex) • Bonny's Oysterbed7 Why I Took My Breast Implants Out - Hot, Holy & HumorousAre Breast Implants Bad for You? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Should Christians Get Plastic Surgery? - Hot, Holy & HumorousEpisode 111: Accepting Your Body - Sex Chat for Christian WivesIs Anal Sex Okay? - Hot, Holy & HumorousEpisode 31: Listener Questions - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (including anal sex)Q&A with J: Pegging. Is It Okay? - Hot, Holy & HumorousFinger Cots | AmazonEpisode 235: Helping Your Husband Heal, with Tara Buchanan Episode 216: When She Wants Sex More - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (w/Tara Buchanan) Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    33 min
  • Feel More Sensual (Quickie)

    Feel More Sensual (Quickie)
    Nov 6 2025

    What a treat today! Gaye Christmus, our former cohost, shares five practical ways to feel more sensual. Be sure to check out her Healthy Life Toolbox website and shop.

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    5 min
  • Sex Is For You Too, Two

    Sex Is For You Too, Two
    Oct 31 2025
    Today, we're highlighting one of our favorite episodes ever! Featuring the OG gang, we address that sex is for wives too and how to embrace it! Sponsor Mismatched desire in your marriage? Let's talk about what it means, why it happens, and how to grow closer through it. Sign up for our new masterclass on Sexual Desire Differences today! From the Bible Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you— if you find my beloved, what will you tell him? Tell him I am faint with love. Song of Songs 5:18 Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside, let us spend the night in the villages. Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:11-13 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31-32 Resources You Deserve a Great Sex Life Too – CalmHealthySexyLove Like a Woman: Should Your Sexual Response Be Like Your Husbands? – The Forgiven WifeWhat a Quickie Taught Us About Sexual Intimacy – The Forgiven WifeWhy "10 Minutes and Lube" Is Horrible Advice – The Forgiven WifeHow Not to Think About Sex – The Forgiven WifeLearn What You Like in Bed – The Forgiven WifeLearn to Embrace Your Sexuality – The Forgiven WifeNurture Your Sexual Desire – Honeycomb & SpiceWives, Your Voice Matters (in the Bedroom & Beyond) – Hot, Holy & HumorousHigh-Drive Wives Are Not Crockpots – Hot, Holy & HumorousWhere Purity Culture Got It Wrong, Let's Get It Right – Hot, Holy & HumorousMaslow's Hierarchy of Needs – WikipediaSexual Desire and Arousal: The Nonlinear Model (Rosemary Basson) – ObG ProjectThese 3 Actions Could Bring You to Orgasm – Hot, Holy & Humorous (orgasm gap)Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns (affiliate link)Understanding Your Sex Drive – Webinar ReplayPillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. ParkerStrong Wives Coaching Support with Bonny Burns Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    32 min
  • How to Kiss More ... and Better

    How to Kiss More ... and Better
    Oct 23 2025

    This week's quickie is from J. Parker about how to kiss more often in your marriage and improve the experience!

    Resources

    • Why Kissing Matters in Marriage - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • 5 Kisses You Need to Master - Hot, Holy & Humorous

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    Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
    Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
    Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    2 min
  • How Our Story Affects Our Sexuality, with Kate Aldrich

    How Our Story Affects Our Sexuality, with Kate Aldrich
    Oct 16 2025

    Today we're diving into how our personal stories shape our sexuality and our experiences with sex. Joining Bonny and J for this important conversation is Kate Aldrich, a marriage coach and mentor with an emphasis on Story Work.

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    From the Bible

    For you created my inmost being;
    you knit me together in my mother's womb.
    I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
    your works are wonderful,
    I know that full well.
    Psalm 139:13–14

    I meditate on your precepts
    and consider your ways.
    Psalm 119:15

    [Hagar] gave this name to the Lord who spoke to her: "You are the God who sees me," for she said, "I have now seen the One who sees me." Genesis 16:13

    Resources

    • Aldrich Ministries Coaching Network
    • Still Becoming One - Kate & Brad's podcast
    • Episode 74: Getting Comfortable with Your Body
    • Episode 181: Your Sexual Story, with Dr. Carol Tanksley

    Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives

    If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

    Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

    Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
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    41 min
  • Why Kissing Is Good for You

    Why Kissing Is Good for You
    Oct 9 2025

    This week's quickie is from J. Parker about the benefits of kissing to both you and your marriage.

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    We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives

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    Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
    Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
    Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    2 min
  • Pursuing Pain-Free Intimacy

    Pursuing Pain-Free Intimacy
    Oct 2 2025
    Jess Seitz, occupational therapist and vaginismus recovery specialist, of Pain-Free Intimacy joins us to talk about how wives can address sexual pain they currently have or may have in the future. Sponsor Better Help can match you to the right therapist for you. Get 10% off your first month with our discount code. Just head to https://betterhelp.com/4CW. From the Bible Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 2 Corinthians 1:3–4 I will praise You because I have been remarkably and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful, and I know this very well. Psalm 139:14 (HCSB) I remain confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Psalm 27:13 (the verse J couldn't think of in the moment!) "I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten— the great locust and the young locust, the other locusts and the locust swarm— my great army that I sent among you. You will have plenty to eat, until you are full, and you will praise the name of the Lord your God, who has worked wonders for you; never again will my people be shamed." Joel 2:25–26 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32 Resources Jess's website, Pain-Free IntimacyContact Jess for personal coachingFinding a Good Gynecologist - Hot, Holy & HumorousForeplay – WebinarShop for Lube at a Christian-based Marital Aid Store | Married DanceHow Menopause Impacts Your Sex Life - Hot, Holy & HumorousEpisode 118: Sex Is for You TooThe Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.Episode 168: Learn About Your Body (Quickie)Episode 224: Integrating Body & Soul, with Francie WinslowWhen It Hurts: Maintaining Sexual Intimacy While Dealing with Pain | The Forgiven WifeEpisode 177: Addressing Sexual Pain, with Debby WadeIs Sex for You Like Going to the Dentist? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    42 min