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  • Finding Allies (Quickie)

    Finding Allies (Quickie)
    May 6 2025

    This week's quickie is from J Parker about how to find support and wisdom to help your sex life.

    Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    3 min
  • No Drive Postpartum, Facetime Sex, and Intimacy Despite Chronic Illness (Answering Listener Questions)

    No Drive Postpartum, Facetime Sex, and Intimacy Despite Chronic Illness (Answering Listener Questions)
    Apr 29 2025
    We tackle some tough listener questions today, with a biblical perspective and authenticity. Learn what we have to say about a lack of desire postpartum, a husband who wants to engage sexually through Facetime, and maintaining intimacy when chronic illness makes it difficult. Sponsor Healing from betrayal and sexual wounding is possible. Sexual Clarity for Christian Women: Reclaiming Your Sexual Identity After Betrayal, helps you know you’re not alone in wanting to have better understanding of healthy, godly sexuality and sexual experience! By the end of this course, you’ll stand tall and take the wheel of who you are sexually as a Christian woman empowered and filled with peace. Also don't forget about J's new book, The Higher Desire Wife! It's on sale wherever books are sold, but you can get the best deal through Baker Books or order through Amazon to give us a small affiliate commission without any additional cost to you. From the Bible And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed. Genesis 2:25 (ESV) Resources Motherhood and Libido • Bonny's Oysterbed7Q&A with J: Baby's Here, But Sex? Not So Much. - Hot, Holy & HumorousAfter Baby Comes Along | The Forgiven WifeHow Having Kids Depleted My Sexual Desire - Knowing Her Sexually (written for husbands)Helping Your Wife Balance Motherhood and Sexual Intimacy - Knowing Her Sexually (written for husbands)Episode 177: Addressing Sexual Pain, with Debby Wade - Sex Chat for Christian WivesSliquid Soul Coconut Oil Personal Lube - Married DanceAmazon Fresh, Organic Virgin Coconut Oil (for personal lubricant, use virgin/unrefined coconut oil)When My Sex Life Sucked - Part 1 - Hot, Holy & HumorousWhen My Sex Life Sucked - Part 2 - Hot, Holy & HumorousBetter Help (use code 4CW to get 10% off your first month)Why I Took My Breast Implants Out - Hot, Holy & HumorousSex Advice for Wives with Chronic Illness - Honeycomb & SpiceDealing with Erection Problems | The Forgiven WifeBullet Vibrator Pilot Program - Married DancePenis Sleeves and Strokers - Married Dance Maintaining Sexual Intimacy When Sex isn’t Possible by Chris Taylor – WORTHY Bible StudiesEnjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 1 - Honeycomb & SpiceEnjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 2 - Honeycomb & Spice Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    24 min
  • Vibrators? (Quickie)

    Vibrators? (Quickie)
    Apr 22 2025

    This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about whether it's okay to use vibrators—and why it might be worth looking into.

    Click here for the Married Dance vibrator pilot program.

    Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    3 min
  • Overcoming Sexual Abuse, with Jenn Schmidt

    Overcoming Sexual Abuse, with Jenn Schmidt
    Apr 15 2025
    Jenn Schmidt from Intimate Covenant joins us to talk about overcoming sexual abuse and building a healthy, intimate sex life with your husband. NOTE: J totally got the episode number wrong! Not the first time she's been wrong. ~wink~ Sponsor Visit Better Help to get matched with a therapist who shares your values and can address your issues. Use code 4CW to get 10% off your first month. From the Bible Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits— who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.The Lord works righteousness and justice for all the oppressed. Psalm 103:2-6 Now there is in Jerusalem near the Sheep Gate a pool, which in Aramaic is called Bethesda and which is surrounded by five covered colonnades. Here a great number of disabled people used to lie—the blind, the lame, the paralyzed. One who was there had been an invalid for thirty-eight years. When Jesus saw him lying there and learned that he had been in this condition for a long time, he asked him, “Do you want to get well?”“Sir,” the invalid replied, “I have no one to help me into the pool when the water is stirred. While I am trying to get in, someone else goes down ahead of me.”Then Jesus said to him, “Get up! Pick up your mat and walk.” At once the man was cured; he picked up his mat and walked. John 5:2-9a For your Maker is your husband— the Lord Almighty is his name— the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth. Isaiah 54:5 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ. 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 Resources Intimate Covenant PodcastIntimate Covenant RetreatTrapped by Trauma | The Forgiven WifeMending the Remnants of Brokenness | The Forgiven WifeFor My Sister Sexual Assault Survivors | The Forgiven Wife Your Wife Has Been Sexually Harassed - Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 64: Healing from Sexual Abuse, with Mary DeMuth - Sex Chat for Christian Wives My Larry Nassar Testimony Went Viral. But There’s More to the Gospel Than Forgiveness. - Christianity TodayTriggers: What They Are, How They Form, and What to DoBox Breathing for Stress - CHI HealthAbout EMDR Therapy - EMDR International AssociationThe Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.Is Your Wife a Survivor? - Knowing Her Sexually Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    45 min
  • Kegels and Climax (Quickie)

    Kegels and Climax (Quickie)
    Apr 8 2025

    This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about using kegel exercises to enhance your climax.

    • Kegel exercises: A how-to guide for women, Mayo Clinic
    • 1 Simple Thing to Turn on Sexual Arousal and Intensify Orgasm, OysterBed7

    Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    2 min
  • Taking Care of Your Sexual Self

    Taking Care of Your Sexual Self
    Apr 1 2025
    It's the OG gang today talking about taking care of your sexual self—particularly the physical aspect of our female sexuality. Take a listen! Sponsor We still 🩷💜🩷 Share the Soap and know you will too! They're currently offering 25% off geranium hydrosol spray, plus get a FREE aloe & goat milk lotion premium sample when using code FCWA all thru the month of April. From the Bible Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body. 1 Corinthians 6:19–20 Resources Episode 109: Your Sexual SelfScreening for Cervical Cancer | Cervical Cancer | CDC (with Pap smear recommendations)Sliquid Splash Gentle Feminine Wash - Married DanceFinding a Good Gynecologist - Hot, Holy & HumorousEpisode 10: Tending Your GardenSex After a Hysterectomy - Part 1: The Basics | The Forgiven WifeSex After a Hysterectomy – Part 2: The Aftermath | The Forgiven WifeSex After a Hysterectomy - Part 3: Your New Sex Life | The Forgiven WifeBarbie movie – Barbie meets an old womanEpisode 122: Self-Care for WivesFeet and Sex • Bonny's Oysterbed7Still Becoming One | Brad & Kate AldrichWhat Makes You Feel Sexy? - Hot, Holy & HumorousHint Water and Body ArmorThis Is Your Brain on Birth Control: How the Pill Changes Everything by Sarah HillEpisode 149: Your Body, Your Health, and Your Sex Life Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    24 min
  • Initiating Sex (Quickie)

    Initiating Sex (Quickie)
    Mar 27 2025

    This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about how initiating sex.

    Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    2 min
  • When She Wants Sex More

    When She Wants Sex More
    Mar 18 2025

    On her book's launch day, J. Parker hosts three fellow higher desire wives—Tara Buchanan, Julie Sibert, and Tammy Hopkins—for a special roundtable on when she wants sex more than he does.

    NOTE: Please forgive the not-so-great audio at times in this episode. We did our best without the usual professional equipment.

    Sponsor

    Check out J. Parker's new book, The Higher Desire Wife, now available wherever books are sold!

    From the Bible

    I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. Song of Songs 7:10

    Resources

    • The Higher Desire Wife: Understanding and Help for Christian Women Navigating Mismatched Sex Drives by J. Parker
    • The Higher Desire Wife - Baker Book House (best US price)
    • Behind Our Smiles podcast, with Tara & Joe Buchanan
    • Intimacy in Marriage – Julie Sibert
    • Pursuit of Passion: Discovering True Intimacy in Your Marriage by Jeffrey Murphy & Julie Sibert
    • Higher Desire Wife Community
    • The Marriage Bed (mentioned by Tammy)

    Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

    Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

    Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
    Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
    Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    32 min