In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the holiday season and the tradition of setting three words to guide the upcoming year.

We also dive into a listener's email regarding her husband's erectile dysfunction, exploring the complexities of control in relationships, the impact of stress, and the importance of reframing sexual intimacy. Our conversation emphasizes the need for self-improvement and honest communication in navigating relationship dynamics, particularly in the context of sexual health and emotional connection.

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On the Xtended version …
We talk through what an honest one-way conversation about this dynamic in her marriage would look like.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of sexual relationships within marriage, particularly focusing on the idea of sex as a reward system.

We explore the potential pitfalls of this approach, including the impact on desire, compliance, and the overall connection between spouses. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of maintaining a playful and honest dynamic in sexual relationships, rather than reducing intimacy to a transactional exchange.

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On the Xtended version …
There are pitfalls to treating sex like a commodity or exchange system - so what can we do instead?

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we revisit the most popular episode of SMR in 2025.

Pam and I explore the complexities of sexual intimacy within marriage, emphasizing the importance of meaningful connections over mere technique. Particularly when it come to oral sex.

We discuss the concept of differentiation, the impact of trauma on sexual experiences, and the dynamics of self-confidence in sexual relationships.

Our conversation encourages listeners to engage deeply with their own feelings and reactions, fostering a willingness to change and grow in their sexual lives.

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On the Xtended version …

Many of us have preconceived notions about oral sex. Put another away, knee-jerk reactions.

So how do these reactions impact our ability to experience more pleasure and connection during oral sex?

What steps do I need to take to face these?

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