Keywords

#wounded leadership, #ministry, #healing, #reconciliation, #church, #counseling, #personal growth, #boundaries, #trauma, #support

Summary

In this episode of the Wounded Leadership podcast, host Matthew Tanner speaks with Tiffany Henning, founder of somethingsgotachange.com, about her journey through the challenges of ministry, the importance of healing, and the need for change within church leadership. Tiffany shares her personal experiences of being wounded in ministry, the process of reconciliation, and the role of counseling in healing. They discuss the significance of boundaries, the importance of healthy conflict, and the need for churches to support their leaders better. Tiffany emphasizes the necessity of holding onto one's calling loosely and the importance of self-care in ministry.

Takeaways

• Tiffany Henning is the founder of Something's Got to Change, focusing on supporting wounded leaders.
• Everyone in ministry has a story of hurt and healing.
• Reconciliation is possible, even after deep wounds.
• Healing is a long process that may not have a clear endpoint.
• Counseling is crucial for processing trauma and hurt in ministry.
• It's important to hold your calling loosely and be open to change.
• Healthy conflict should be normalized in church settings.
• Boundaries are essential for maintaining personal well-being in ministry.
• Churches need to be proactive in addressing issues before they escalate.
• Praying for those who hurt you can lead to healing and softened hearts.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Wounded Leadership

02:36 Tiffany's Journey in Ministry

08:31 Reconciliation and Healing

13:37 Returning to Church and New Beginnings

20:22 Founding Something's Gotta Change

21:22 The Healing Process and Its Challenges

26:24 Understanding the Enemy's Foothold

27:38 Processing Pain and Reaffirming Calling

28:37 The Power of Journaling in Spiritual Growth

30:25 Conversations with God: Recognizing His Voice

32:38 Claiming Your Salvation and Calling

33:31 Holding Callings with a Loose Hand

35:39 Finding Purpose in Pain

37:05 Healing Through Prayer and Forgiveness

39:26 What's Gotta Change in Ministry?

41:43 Setting Boundaries in Ministry

43:31 Necessary Endings and Healthy Conflict