In this episode, I'm coming to you from sunny Clearwater, Florida a few days ahead of The Birthworker Retreat. I share the behind-the-scenes of how I intentionally designed this event (and my life!) to match my personal needs and seasonal rhythms. From walks on the beach and hotel massages to the mindset shifts that took me from burnt-out martyr to thriving doula business owner, I walk you through how this lifestyle didn't happen by accident. It happened by methodical design.

I'm breaking down how you, too, can start aligning your business with the life you truly want, starting with small, sacred decisions.

What You'll Learn:

• Why I intentionally arrive early to events I host (and how it changes everything)

• How I turned my desire for winter sunshine into a business opportunity

• The key mindset shift that helped me move from martyrdom to empowerment

• Tiny ways to care for yourself as a business owner and mom

• How every "yes" is also a "no" - and how to choose wisely

• Encouragement to stop resenting others and start building what you want

Links Mentioned:

• Birth Worker Retreat www.TheBirthworkerRetreat.com

• My Instagram (for behind-the-scenes content!)
  https://www.instagram.com/thedouladarcy/
  
  
  
  
  
  About The Doula Darcy:
  
  

  Doula Business Coach & Marketing Strategist

  Since 2010, Darcy has built a thriving postpartum doula business (now doula agency) in New Hampshire.
  
  With her team of postpartum doulas handling the day-to-day in person clients, Darcy spends her time and energy helping other doulas grow & scale their businesses with a focus on sustainability and not burning themselves out.
  
  Prior to having her own 3 children and becoming doula, Darcy worked for 10 years in the advertising and marketing world. She was able to replace her corporate income quicker than most new doulas because of her previous career & expertise. Darcy now uses this experience to help other doulas build their own thriving practices.

If you're a people pleaser (and if you're a doula… chances are high), this episode is for you.

In this conversation, Darcy unpacks the quiet but powerful connection between the work doulas do for their clients — teaching them to advocate for themselves, ask questions, and trust their gut — and the places we don't do that in our own lives and businesses.

From birth rooms to living rooms, doulas are incredible at reminding parents they don't need permission to make decisions that feel right for them. But when it comes to our businesses? Our pricing? Our packages? Our boundaries? We often find ourselves waiting for approval that never comes.

In this episode, Darcy challenges you to notice where you're asking for permission, hedging, or saying yes out of obligation and invites you to start running your doula business in a way that actually feeds your soul, your family, and your life.

In this episode, you'll hear about:

• The surprising parallel between birth advocacy and business decision-making

• Where doulas unknowingly ask for permission instead of trusting themselves

• How people pleasing shows up in packages, boundaries, and marketing

• A powerful reminder that you can always change course

If you've been playing small, waiting, or holding back because you're worried about what others will think, this episode is your reminder that you don't need permission to build a business that works for you.