In this episode, Brad and Kent get brutally honest about a tension every parent wrestles with: How do you balance grace and truth?
Kent shares a powerful framework on why Jesus didn’t stand in the same place with everyone. He stood wherever the person in front of Him needed Him most. And as parents, that’s exactly what we’re called to do.

Brad opens up about his own journey with grace, including how regular confession, forgiveness, and delight radically reshaped his relationship with his daughter.

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• Manhood Journey – https://manhoodjourney.org/


🔑 KEY IDEAS:
• Balancing grace and truth in parenting
• Why kids stop wanting time with their parents
• The danger of a performance-based Christian home
• How delight builds long-term influence
• Marriage conflict and ‘unseen capital
• How grace multiplies when you give it away
• How to discipline without shaming your kids
• Why Jesus didn’t use one-size-fits-all grace


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Blended families often step into marriage thinking the hardest part is behind them...then reality hits. In this powerful conversation, Brad sits down with Ron Deal, one of the leading voices in stepfamily ministry, to unpack why blended family life feels so complex and why those challenges are actually normal.

Ron explains why a blended marriage begins in the middle of a story, not the beginning, and how layers of loss, shifting traditions, co-parenting dynamics, and differing expectations create a level of complexity most couples never see coming. He also shares practical steps couples can take to reduce discouragement, build unity, and approach their home with grace instead of guilt.

Whether you’re part of a blended family, know someone who is, or serve in a church trying to support stepfamilies well, this episode brings clarity, compassion, and actionable hope.

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• Blended & Blessed – https://blendedandblessed.com
• Ron Deal’s Resources – https://rondeal.org
• Grace Marriage – https://gracemarriage.com


🔑 KEY IDEAS:
• Why blended families experience unique stress that feels “unexpected”
• The difference between coupleness and familyness — and why both matter
• How past loss, co-parenting, and household transitions impact stepfamily dynamics
• Why mixed traditions (holidays, rules, routines) cause conflict no one anticipates
• Why flexibility, patience, and learning are essential in stepfamily life
• How churches can better support blended families and why most don’t
• The importance of intentionality and ongoing marriage ministry in every church


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In this episode, Brad sits down with pastor and author Kyle Idleman to talk about the unseen thought patterns that quietly shape our marriages. Kyle shares the heart behind his new book Every Thought Captive and why so much of the transformation we hope for in marriage never sticks, because we try to change our behavior without ever changing our thinking.

He unpacks how strongholds form, why simply trying to “stop thinking something” rarely works, how to replace lies with biblical truth, and why the gospel itself begins with admitting weakness and asking for help. Kyle also explains how Romans 12 and neuroplasticity surprisingly say the same thing about renewing the mind.

If you’ve ever felt stuck repeating the same patterns in your marriage, this conversation offers a hopeful first step: before you try to fix your marriage… fix your thoughts.

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🔑 KEY IDEAS:
• Why unseen thought patterns quietly shape your marriage
• How strongholds form (and how to break them with Scripture)
• The lie: “Asking for help means failure” (Kyle’s personal example)
• Romans 12 and neuroplasticity: what science and Scripture agree on
• How gratitude and intentional thinking reshape your brain
• Using Philippians 4 as a filter for your thoughts about your spouse
• Why lasting change starts in your thoughts, not your behavior

📚 KEY VERSES
📖 Romans 12:2 – “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
📖 Philippians 4:8 -- “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”
📖 2 Corinthians 10:5 – “We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ.”

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