Inspired by The Perfect Fit by Sadie Kincaid, we’re diving deep into the art of power dynamics — from Dom/Sub roles to the trust that makes them work. This episode explores how to introduce BDSM into your own sex life with curiosity, communication, and zero shame. Because pleasure isn’t about giving up control — it’s about choosing it.

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Grab your headphones and maybe a glass of wine, because this week on The Intimacy Index, we’re sinking our teeth into Lindsay Straube’s The Kiss of the Basilisk — a dark, delicious story where danger feels a little too good to resist. We’re talking power, pleasure, and that irresistible pull between wanting to run and wanting to be caught. What does it really mean to be devoured — and who’s actually in control when things get spicy? Join us as we break down the fantasy, the fear, and the fun of dark romance — and maybe discover why letting go (safely!) can feel so damn powerful. Because at the end of the day, pleasure isn’t just about surrendering... it’s about knowing when to take the lead.Click the link for our socials, other streaming, and other affiliated links :) linktr.ee/the_intimacy_index_podcast

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In this episode, we cover Part One of Kiss of the Basilisk by Lindsay Straube. This is a plot spoiler-lite episode, but we do a deep dive into Temperance's growth, sexual empowerment, and her ability to set boundaries.

We also focus on gender misconceptions in a sexual space, consent and the different ways it may look, and the importance of healthy communication between partners to create a safe/satisfying sexual experience.

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