The Mental Load: How to Ask for Shared Responsibility Without Starting a War
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The Mental Load: How to Ask for Shared Responsibility Without Starting a War
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In this Monologue episode, marriage and family therapist Daniel Dashnaw explores one of the most emotionally charged topics in modern relationships: the invisible mental load.
From meal planning and remembering birthdays to managing household logistics and emotional weather, many partners—often women—carry an unspoken weight that goes unacknowledged until it explodes. Daniel walks listeners through why this conversation so often triggers defensiveness and how to have it differently: with vulnerability, clarity, and a shared desire to rebalance the partnership.
You’ll learn:
- Why the phrase “Why didn’t you just ask?” can be so triggering
- How cultural patterns and relational dynamics shape the mental load
- A 5-step framework for talking about shared responsibility without blame
- What true mental co-ownership looks like—and how to invite it
Whether you’re feeling burned out, unseen, or just ready for deeper teamwork, this episode offers a compassionate guide to preserving love before resentment takes root.
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