In this episode, Brett reflects on what may be the most important quality we can bring into our relationships — loving presence. Drawing from his own journey and the teachings of Ron Kurtz, founder of the Hakomi Method, Brett explores how presence isn’t something we perform, but something we allow.

You’ll hear stories and insights about how this subtle yet powerful state can shift the dynamic of a conversation, deepen connection, and open the door to spontaneous healing — without needing to fix or solve anything.

Whether you're a coach, therapist, leader, or simply someone who longs for more meaningful moments in your day-to-day life, this episode invites you to slow down and reconnect with the quiet force of love that’s already within you.

Topics include:

• What loving presence really is — and isn’t
• How slowing the mind creates space for deeper connection
• Why being with someone, without agenda, can be profoundly healing
• The surprising story that led Ron Kurtz to center his work around this practice
• A powerful question: How much love will you allow?

This is a gentle yet potent reminder that presence isn’t a luxury — it’s a necessity.

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Do you ever feel like you're just going through the motions, tired of superficial interactions and recurring conflicts? Do you yearn for deeper, more authentic connections but feel like you're swimming upstream against a culture of noise and distraction? You're not alone, and it's not a personal failing.

In this solo episode, host and mindful somatic coach Brett Hill pulls back the curtain on the "Myth of Normal"—the idea that our modern, disconnected way of living is healthy or sustainable for the human nervous system. He explores how our world is often engineered for distraction and reactivity, from media headlines that jangle our nerves to workplace cultures that can lead to burnout.

But this isn't a message of despair. It's a message of empowerment. This episode offers a practical, powerful, and surprisingly simple way to reconnect with yourself, find the "juice of life" again, and turn ordinary conversations into extraordinary experiences.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• Why you feel so disconnected and why so many people are "quietly quitting" on a life of meaning.
• How modern culture and technology can actively work against your capacity for deep connection.
• The "Postcard vs. The Mountain" metaphor that explains the crucial difference between thinking about your life and truly experiencing it.
• Why connecting with yourself is the non-negotiable first step to creating more meaningful relationships with others.
• A powerful "micro-mindfulness" practice that takes only seconds but can change the entire quality of your day.

Actionable Practice from This Episode: The 'Notice & Savor' Technique

This is the core practice discussed in the episode for rebuilding your connection to yourself and the world.

• 1. Notice What Lights You Up: Throughout your day, identify the small things that automatically make you feel good—the beauty of a flower, the sound of music you love, the feeling of the sun on your skin, the joy of seeing a dog play.
• 2. Press Pause: Instead of immediately moving on, intentionally pause for just a moment.
• 3. Savor the Experience: For just 5, 10, or 15 seconds, let yourself fully feel the pleasant sensation. Take a breath and let the experience "inform your senses" without judgment or analysis.

This simple habit, practiced consistently, builds the neurological capacity for presence, making it easier to navigate stress and connect more deeply in your relationships.

Take the Next Step: Your Free Mindful Communications Assesesment

If this episode’s discussion on reactivity and disconnection resonated with you, a powerful next step is to discover precisely how these patterns show up in your own communication style.

Brett offers a free and insightful Leadership Communications Assessment designed to give you a clear, objective snapshot of your strengths and biggest blind spots as a leader. In just a few minutes, you’ll receive a personalized, score-based report across 8 key areas of professional effectiveness—including Thought Management and Anxiety Tolerance.

Stop guessing and start building on a tangible foundation. Take the free assessment now to discover your areas for growth and get expert-recommended suggestions.

Visit https://bretthill.youneedacoach.co/ to get your personalized results.

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How can we find peace and fulfillment in a world obsessed with achievement? As a mindful communications coach, I've witnessed countless individuals caught in the relentless pursuit of success, never feeling quite "enough." This episode of The Mindful Coach Podcast challenges the notion that constant striving is the path to happiness.

• Equating self-worth with accomplishments
• Neglecting present-moment awareness
• Obsessing about what you could have had or have not yet achieved

In this episode, you'll learn about refreshing perspective on how to reclaim your sense of value and contentment, regardless of external measures of success.

Discover the transformative practice of "letting the world come to you." Learn how to:

• Create space for stillness amidst chaos
• Appreciate beauty in unexpected places
• Shift from reactivity to responsiveness

Through personal anecdotes and client stories, I illustrate how these simple yet profound techniques can reshape your daily experience.

"It's not about ignoring our thoughts, but learning to observe them without judgment."

We'll explore practical strategies for:

• Recognizing catastrophic thinking
• Questioning automatic assumptions
• Cultivating a more balanced perspective

Learn how to:

• Use the question "How are you?" as a resource
• Allow yourself to feel appreciated
• Connect more deeply with others through honest expression

This episode serves as a gentle reminder that there is great goodness readily available in our lives that is not dependent on what we achieve. We just need to be present for it.

Are you ready to challenge the achievement culture and practice a skill that will help you be happier and more successful? Join me in exploring this transformative practice that has made a huge difference in quality of my life and the lives of others.

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