In this episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, Vanessa De Jesus Guzman unpacks the guilt moms silently carry during the holiday season - especially the cultural guilt, emotional pressure, and endless “I shoulds” that make this time of year heavier than it looks online. Recorded in real time during a week filled with sick kids, canceled plans, and dropped responsibilities, Vanessa shares a relatable story that highlights how quickly guilt takes over, even when we’re doing our best.

This conversation helps moms understand why guilt shows up, where it comes from, and how to shift from obligation to values in order to create a holiday season that feels lighter, calmer, and more aligned with what truly matters.

EPISODE DESCRIPTION
• Understand the three layers of the “guilt sandwich” moms unconsciously carry during the holidays.
• Explore the cultural and generational expectations that intensify holiday overwhelm.
• Identify the “shoulding” language that fuels mom guilt without us realizing it.
• Learn three simple tools to interrupt guilt spirals with self-awareness and compassion.
• Hear personal stories that show what it looks like to choose capacity over pressure.
• Discover how gratitude and grounded choices can transform the way your holidays feel.

TUNE IN TO LEARN
• Why holiday guilt feels so heavy for moms
• How to tell the difference between values and obligation
• What cultural expectations add to your emotional load
• The signs of guilt-driven decision-making
• Three tools to break the guilt cycle
• How to honor your capacity during the busiest season
• Ways gratitude can shift holiday overwhelm into presence

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