Épisodes

  • 261: Interview With Lisa Johnson ~ Author of "Been There Got Out"
    May 31 2024

    In this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk to Lisa Johnson. Lisa is co-author, along with her partner Chris Barry, of “Been There Got Out.” Like Lori and David, Lisa and Chris use their first-hand experience to help others.

    In this episode, we discuss the following:

    • Toxic relationships

    • High conflict divorce

    • Legal abuse

    • Coercive control

    • Jennifer’s Law

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    “I am a family law attorney. I kept hearing about this Nacho parenting from clients and in the courtroom. I decided to join the Nacho Academy to see what it was all about. Man, this stuff is gold! I’m referring all my clients to the Nacho Academy even if they aren’t currently in a blend, they will most likely be in one soon! I love what Lori and David are doing and can’t express how much the world needs this!” ~ M.L.B.

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    1 h et 4 min
  • 260: Chose To Marry But Not Live Together
    May 24 2024

    In this episode, Lori, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to stepmom Tikeetha. Tikeetha has one child, and her partner has two children, one of which is an adult and no longer living at home. Both of their teenage children have lost their other parent. Tikeetha and her partner decided to get married but have not moved in together yet but plan to in the future.

    In this episode, we discuss the following:

    • Choosing to get married but live sep

    • Having an autistic child in the blend

    • Partner wants family to blend

    • When a bio parent dies

    • Friction between the stepkids

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    “I have been a member of the Nacho Academy for two years and plan to be a life-long member. The support Lori & David give is worth the membership to me! I know I can get their advice on anything that comes up in our blend, as there are always changes and challenges.” ~ J.R.

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    1 h et 6 min
  • 259: Stepkid Graduations
    May 17 2024

    In this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about struggles blended families often face when it comes to Graduation ceremonies. Unfortunately, most kids are given a limited number of tickets and it can often cause issues within the family, even a nuclear family! But you add the blend… and whew! Hang on!

    In this episode, we discuss the following:

    • Graduation Tickets

    • One upping your ex

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    “I joined the Nacho Kids Academy just out of sheer curiosity. I am also a stepfamily coach and wanted to see what Lori had in her Academy. I have to tell you, I am so impressed with the Academy, that I am now referring my clients to take her courses! It helps me because I can focus on stuff outside the Nacho method with them and I get to see the transformation that happens within one month of them joining. Makes my job easier and saves them money!” ~ L.T.

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    26 min
  • 258: Mother's Day Struggles For Stepmoms
    May 10 2024

    In this episode, Lori and David Sims, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about some of the struggles stepmoms have with Mother’s Day. Mother’s Day is hard for a lot of people. Whether it be stepmoms, those who could never have children or have lost children, bio moms, or those who don’t have good relationships with their bio moms.

    In this episode, we discuss the following:

    • Stepmom expectations

    • Mother’s Day recognition for stepmoms

    • Stepmom's Day but no Stepdad's Day

    • Hallmark Holiday

    • Mental Health Wellness

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    “I asked my husband to get me a one month subscription to the Nacho Academy for one month so I could do the Bootcamp Challenge. After the first group call, I quickly realized I was going to need more than a one month membership! There is so much great content! I was really surprised at the amount of content and the interaction on the call considering the cost was so low. Thank you David & Lori! See you on the next call!” ~ B.K.

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    34 min
  • 257: Interview With Veronica Grace Andrews ~ Healing Stepmom Burnout
    May 3 2024

    In this episode, Lori Sims, founder of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talks to stepmom Veronica Andrews. Veronica is the author of “Heal Stepmom Burnout”. She has been blending for 15 years, has two stepkids, and is child-free by choice.

    In this episode, we discuss the following:

    • Changes in custody time

    • Losing yourself

    • Finding the balance

    • Stepmom burnout

    • Wanting what is best for the kids

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    “My stepkid is 20 years old. Does nothing but lay on the couch playing on their phone all day. It was driving me crazy. Like, really. I lost my composure several times. An attorney recommended Nacho Kids to me. They were friends of my husbands and my husband told them I was going crazy. I joined the Academy and immediately started doing the bootcamp. It wasn’t easy and I understand why it’s a 30-day course, there’s a lot to it. Day 7 I was finally seeing that things could be different. I finished the bootcamp and said what the heck and did the thinking challenge next. I thought the bootcamp was good, but wow! That thinking one is mind blowing! And I definitely know now why Lori says to do the bootcamp first and to do them separately.

    I’ve learned through Lori and David’s nacho academy that I can choose to be a part of the solution or a part of the problem. I chose to be a part of the solution.” ~ R.R.

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    1 h et 10 min
  • 256: Stepfamily Vacations
    Apr 26 2024

    In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk about stepfamily vacations. If you have ever been on a blended family vacation, you know how stressful they can be! Lori & David talk about challenges and tips to help have a good blended family vacation.

    In this episode, we discuss the following:

    • Preparing for stepfamily vacations

    • Expectations

    • Separate vacations with kids

    • Separate vacations adults only

    • Length matters

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    “I love Lori and David! You can tell they truly care about you and your blend. They want you to succeed! They cheer you on and support you through your journey. I’ve never felt like someone cared about me so much. Their caring made me want to work harder because I felt like I had someone in my corner!” ~ N.W.

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    32 min
  • 255: Stepkid Gets An Arrow Through His Head
    Apr 19 2024

    In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, talk to stepcouple Jenn and Zeb. They have been blending for three years, and married six months. The hardest part of the blend for Zeb is establishing and maintaining stepmom’s role within the blend and Jenn’s hardest part is figuring out her place and role within the blend.

    In this episode, we discuss the following:

    • What’s the stepparent role

    • Who is responsible for the stepkid

    • Stepkid calling stepmom “Mom”

    • Feeling pushed out of your bio kid’s life

    • When the stepkid gets an arrow through his head

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    “I was skeptical of how much this Academy would benefit me/us. I was willing to put the work in, but my partner was against it. I did the bootcamp and within two weeks, my partner was on board because she could not deny the positive changes that were occurring. We love Nacho!” ~ R.S.

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    1 h et 22 min
  • 254: Lori & David Answer Nacho Questions
    Apr 12 2024

    In this episode, Lori and David, founders of Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting, answer some Nacho questions. You have questions, we have answers! Please note, these are top level answers to questions and in the Nacho Kids Academy Lori and David delve deeper into the questions you may have and provide guidance to help you Nacho properly.

    In this episode, we discuss the following:

    • Triggers

    • Nasty Stepkids

    • Summertime stepkids

    • Stepparent responsibilities

    Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

    “This Nacho stuff is gold! I wish we would have found it sooner. My husband and I decided to join because we were really struggling in our blend. Something had to give. This was the best decision we could have made! We have started healing from our past hurts, and are rebuilding our blended relationships every day! Thank you Dave and Lori! You saved our marriage!” ~ J.F.

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    31 min