Friendship is not a “nice-to-have” but a core, potentially transformative human connection. Rhaina Cohen, author of The Other Significant Others: Reimagining Life With Friendship at the Center, joins us. Highlights of our conversation include:

• The “friendship recession” and how modern culture undervalues friendships compared to romantic or family ties;
• Historical and cross-cultural insights into how friendship has been understood and prioritized in different societies;
• Stories from Cohen’s book about people redefining relationships, including platonic co-parents and friends who live together as chosen family;
• The legal and cultural barriers to elevating friendship as a socially sanctioned form of kinship and how policy reforms could better accommodate diverse relationships;
• Cohen’s personal experiences with an intense friendship that reshaped her understanding of love, intimacy, and societal expectations.

See episode website for show notes, links, and transcript:

https://www.populationbalance.org/podcast/rhaina-cohen

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