Episode #1002

If you've been telling yourself “now’s not the right time,” it might be time to take a closer look at what that’s really costing you. In this episode, Doug Holt and Coach Mark Smith dive into the common trap a lot of men fall into—waiting, hoping, and putting off action in their relationships, health, and personal growth.

This isn’t about hype or motivation. It’s about being honest with yourself, owning where you’re at, and recognizing that hope alone doesn’t create change—leadership does. Doug and Mark share real stories from men they’ve coached, what happens when guys delay action, and how taking even the smallest step can shift everything.

If you’ve been stuck in your head, waiting for a better time, this episode is your call to stop hoping and start doing. No fluff—just real talk, practical insight, and a challenge to lead your life, not wait your way through it.

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Episode #1001

Most guys have good intentions. You want to be supportive. You want to lift her up. But what if the way you respond is actually doing the opposite of what you think?

In this episode, Doug sits down with Brad Holt to talk about something subtle but powerful: invalidation. It’s one of the biggest blind spots men have in relationships—especially when it comes to trying to help, fix, or reassure.

From phrases like “You look great” to trying to talk her out of what she’s feeling, you might be accidentally sending the message that you don’t really hear her. And when that happens often enough, she stops opening up.

They break down how this plays out, how to spot it in real time, and what to do when you realize you've already said the wrong thing. This one’s a wake-up call—and it’s all about showing up with more awareness, not perfection.

If you want a stronger connection with your wife, this is where to start.

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Episode #1000

After 1,000 episodes, we’re still getting the same core questions from men: “Why won’t my wife forgive me?”, “Why doesn’t she feel safe?”, and “Why is nothing I do ever enough?” In this episode, we’re cutting the fluff and giving you direct, honest answers.

Doug and Tim reflect on what’s really going on in your relationship—and how to start fixing it without trying harder or doing more of the wrong things. Whether your marriage feels stuck, your wife feels distant, or you're just tired of trying to guess what she needs, this episode is for you.

It’s not about chasing her approval. It’s about learning to lead again—from a place of calm, grounded strength.

Grab a beer (we did), press play, and let’s talk man-to-man about what actually works.

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Just cover shipping. No fluff—just real tools that work.

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