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Hey friend—let’s talk about something we don’t hear enough:

👉 Sex is meant to get BETTER with time.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie (Christian s*x therapist and s*x educators) open up to their LAST chapter of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and reframe what lifelong intimacy is actually supposed to look like.

Spoiler alert: awkward honeymoon s*x shouldn't be the finish line. It’s the starting line of a lifelong dance of discovery, delight, and deepening intimacy.

Forget what movies, magazines, or even well-meaning church leaders may have told you. S*x is meant to grow with you. Mature with you. And yes, age like fine wine.

In this episode, Josh & Cassie dive into:

• Why clumsy early s*x is actually part of God’s good design
• What neuroscience says about connection over time
• How to keep intimacy growing through shifting seasons and changing bodies
• Why spiritual and s*xual maturity go hand-in-hand

If you're in a new season, facing body changes, or wondering if intimacy can still feel joyful and alive—this episode is for you. Because s*xual connection isn’t a one-time achievement. It’s a lifelong dance. No matter where you’re starting from, the next step forward can still be beautiful.

Key Takeaways:

• God designed s*x to mature—not fade—with age and connection
• Lifelong intimacy is a journey of grace, laughter, healing, and yes… pleasure
• Learn 3 keys to curating your creating an amazing and abundant s*x life.

You're not failing if things feel different now—you're just entering a new chapter. With intentionality, healing, and curiosity, the best truly can be yet to come.

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And remember: With Jesus, the best is still ahead.

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Hey friend! There are many wise, wonderful Christian counselors out there. We love them. We work alongside them. But here’s what most people don’t realize…

👉 S*x therapy is not part of standard counseling training. That means even highly skilled, licensed counselors may not be equipped to navigate the deeply personal and often complex world of sexual concerns.

That’s where Christian s*x therapy steps in.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 21 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire and unpack what Christian s*x therapy actually is, when it helps, and how it integrates solid theology, neuroscience, and relational healing.

Josh—co-author of Feeling Sexy—is a board-certified Christian s*x therapist who developed the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling (NICC) model. NICC rests on this beautiful truth:
🧠✝️ The Author of Scripture and the Designer of your Nervous System is the same person—Jesus.

In this episode, Josh & Cassie dive into:

• What makes Christian s*x therapy different from general counseling
• Why s*x therapy can be a game-changer for couples who feel “stuck”
• When it might be time to reach out for more support (and why that’s not failure—it’s wisdom)

Reading a book can spark awareness. Listening to a podcast can bring clarity. But sometimes, we hit a place where we need more. That doesn’t mean you’re weak—it means you’re ready.

Key Takeaways:

• If you’ve read Feeling Sexy and still feel stuck, you’re not broken—you’re just ready for deeper support
• Christian s*x therapy honors both the sacred and scientific aspects of sexuality
• Jesus cares about your wholeness—including your s*x life

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If you think Christian s*x therapy might be your next right step, visit MyCounselor.Online and explore what’s possible. You're not alone: There’s healing waiting for you.

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Hey friend, we need a s*x revolution in the Church.

For far too long, the enemy has twisted s*x into something shameful, secretive, and confusing. Yes, culture distorted it—but the Church has also lost ground. Too many believers were handed two broken options:

👉 the world’s way—hyper-s*xualized, self-focused, and empty
👉 or a purity culture that left us wounded, ashamed, and unsure

And the fallout? Women carrying body shame, s*xual anxiety, performance pressure, low desire, p*rn struggles, trauma, and questions they never felt safe asking. Instead of dancing in the freedom God designed, many Christian couples are tiptoeing around landmines.

But the good news: you have the power to change that.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) dive into Chapter 20 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire and cast a bold, hope-filled vision for a S*x Positive Church—one rooted in truth, healing, laughter, and joy.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What a s*x-positive, Christ-centered church culture actually looks like
• How to practice Righteous Flirting—uplifting others without being weird or over-s*xual
• How to start honest, healing conversations about s*x within the Church

Every woman can start a revolution—a Spirit-led uprising that reclaims what Jesus already won. And Jesus? He’s all for it. He wants His bride free, unashamed, and radiant.

Key Takeaways:

• S*x is not the enemy—shame is
• Healing happens when truth replaces silence
• You can help change the culture—starting right where you are

The Church needs wisdom, courage, and grace-filled voices supporting each other. When we reclaim sexuality as sacred, embodied, and good, we help set others free too. And the revolution starts with women who are willing to speak, heal, and lead with love. It starts with you.

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Download the free chapters and begin using your voice to help the Church become a place of safety, truth, and s*xual wholeness. The revolution is already underway—come be part of it!

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Hey friend! We’ve reached Part 3 of 3 in our deep dive into Chapter 19: “Kinky?” from Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire—and this final conversation might be the boldest yet!

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are having honest, grace-filled conversation around some of the most taboo—but frequently asked—topics in Christian marriages:

• An@l s*x: Is it off-limits, or is there room for biblical discernment?
• Spicy pictures & videos: Can you use media within your marriage without crossing into p*rn territory?
• Role play: Can imagination and playful scenarios be part of sacred connection in Christian marriages?
• Dominance & submission: What does this dynamic mean in a healthy, mutual, Christ-centered relationship?

This episode isn’t about shock value—it’s about freedom, safety, and connection. Josh and Cassie are ready to bring real wisdom, biblical grounding, and lighthearted encouragement to help couples explore what mutual, holy, and omazing® intimacy can look like—even in the gray areas.

Key Takeaways:

• What is on or off limits in a Christian bedroom when it comes to more taboo topics?
• Discussing the question of “Can we do this?” and “Does this deepen love, safety, and connection?”
• Exploring your boundaries with honesty and spiritual maturity is a key part of Omazing® Intimacy
• You can be holy and have fun in the bedroom—God’s not afraid of your curiosity, and neither are we!

We’ve covered a lot of ground over the past three episodes, and here’s the bottom line: your curiosity is not a problem. Your desire for connection, creativity, and closeness in your marriage is not shameful. It’s holy ground.

God created your body, your nervous system, and your marriage for pleasure and purpose—and navigating these conversations with maturity and love can unlock healing, trust, and joy like never before.

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Hey friend! Welcome to Part 2 of 3 in our “Kinky?” conversation based on Chapter 19 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire. If you missed last week’s episode, we highly recommend hitting pause and starting there—it lays the foundation for today’s spicy but sacred discussion.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are diving into some real talk about:

• Restraints & bondage — what they mean, why they’re appealing, and how to discern if they belong in your bedroom
• “Spicy” books & media — aka erotic novels and romance content: how should Christians think about these?
• What Scripture has (or doesn’t have) to say about these practices, and
• How to check your heart posture, intentions, and connection as a couple when exploring these more adventurous areas of intimacy

Josh & Cassie bring both clinical insight and biblical perspective, helping you navigate the grey areas of kink with wisdom, curiosity, and confidence.

Key Takeaways:

• Curiosity is not sin—but it does need discernment, consent, and safety
• Just because the Bible doesn’t explicitly mention something doesn’t mean you can’t apply biblical wisdom to it
• Your nervous system, emotional safety, and spiritual values all matter when exploring kink
• The goal isn’t to get more “wild”—it’s to get more connected

Whether you're curious about incorporating restraints, unsure about reading romance novels, or wondering how to keep your s*x life spicy and sacred, you’re in the right place. You don’t have to feel shame for asking questions. God isn’t afraid of your curiosity—He invites you into a deeper, truer freedom. You’re not alone on this journey, and you don’t have to figure it all out in one night.

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Ready to keep the conversation going? Share this episode with your spouse or a trusted friend, and don’t forget to grab your free chapters of Feeling Sexy to keep learning, laughing, and growing. Then meet us back here next week for Part 3 of 3 of “Kinky?” where we go even deeper! 😉

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Hey friend! If you grew up in the church, you may have heard that Missionary was the only “godly” way to connect in the bedroom. Meanwhile, culture tells us that anything goes. So where’s the truth? Let’s talk about it.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 19 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and dive into a hot-topic question:
👉 What is kink? And is it okay for Christians?

The simplest definition of kink is any s*xual behavior that feels unusual or uncommon—but what’s “unusual” is completely relative. For some, or@l s*x still feels edgy. For others, using a blindfold is just an average Tuesday. Kink isn’t a rigid list—it’s a sliding scale based on your comfort, culture, and story.

Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are exploring:

• What “kink” actually means for Christians
• How to determine what’s biblically aligned and what’s not
• Why curiosity and consent matter
• Practical categories and tips for couples looking to explore safely
• How to hold both playfulness and sacredness in your s*x life

There’s no “one right way” to express s*xual desire in marriage—just unity with your spouse, safety, trust, and freedom.

Key Takeaways:

• “Unusual” doesn’t mean “unholy”—it means it’s time for thoughtful, biblical discernment
• Kink can be safe, fun, and God-honoring with the right mindset and mutual consent
• Shame-free curiosity is part of maturing in your s*xual confidence
• You don’t need the world’s permission—you just need wisdom and trust in your marriage

You don’t need to fear your desires or judge what feels unfamiliar. When you explore from a place of mutual love, safety, and spiritual grounding, you create a space where deeper joy and playful intimacy can thrive.

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Ready to untangle shame from curiosity and learn what’s truly okay in the Christian bedroom? Tune in now, and share this episode with your spouse to start exploring!

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Hey friend! Remember the game Twister? One spin of the dial and suddenly you’re tangled in awkward, hilarious poses—part chaos, part thrill, and 100% fun. Believe it or not, exploring s*xual positions in marriage can feel exactly like that… in the best way.

In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie unwrap Chapter 18 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire and talk about the heart and mindset behind s*xual adventure—not a checklist of positions, but the spirit of curiosity and connection that makes trying new things meaningful.

Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are exploring:

• Why s*xual experimentation isn’t about performance—but presence
• How trying new things says: “I’m here. I’m in this with you.”
• How to shift your mindset from shame to curiosity and courage
• Why giggles, fumbles, and awkward moments are part of the magic

Because here’s the difference: in your bedroom, you get to spin the dial. You decide what to try, what feels good, and what you’re ready to explore with your husband—on your own terms, in your own timing, with holy confidence and a touch of playfulness.

Key Takeaways:

• You don’t need a list of "101 positions"—you need a shared spirit of discovery
• Every new attempt builds intimacy, trust, and mutual delight
• Your body and your marriage are worthy of exploration and fun
• S*xual confidence grows through grace-filled trial and error

Trying something new in the bedroom isn’t about achieving the perfect pose—it’s about showing up with courage, curiosity, and love. Whether it ends in fireworks or laughter, what matters is that you showed up, together. That’s what makes your s*x life yours—real, playful, and full of grace.

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Hey friend! Let’s talk about something that rarely gets airtime in Christian conversations about s*x: hand jobs and manual pleasure. In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 17 of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and they’re exploring the powerful, playful, and yes—profound role of your hands in the bedroom.

If just reading that makes you a little uncomfortable, you’re not alone. Many couples feel unsure or even awkward about this part of their intimacy. But here's the truth: manual intimacy is more than just “doing something with your hands.” It’s about creating a shared language of pleasure, trust, and connection that’s uniquely yours as a couple.

Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are exploring:

• Why hands are more than tools—they’re instruments of tenderness, strength, and worshipful connection
• How manual intimacy can build confidence, closeness, and joy
• Practical encouragement for overcoming discomfort or shame and exploring this with your spouse
• And getting a peak into the chapter headings to give you a hint of what this book is all about.

Whether you're brand new to this or want to deepen your skills and confidence, this episode is your hands-on guide (😉) to embracing a fuller expression of intimacy.

Key Takeaways:

• Your hands carry sacred power to love, soothe, and awaken desire
• Manual intimacy isn’t dirty—it’s an opportunity for connection and delight
• Learning how to love with your hands can increase both confidence and closeness
• Exploring together as a couple can lead to laughter, healing, and stronger s*xual trust

Your hands were created not just to do—but to connect, bless, and express love in deeply physical and spiritual ways. So let go of the awkward, embrace the learning curve, and allow your hands to become powerful tools of pleasure, confidence, and connection in your marriage.

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