"Why do I have a sex drive difference from my partner and what can I do about it? "
"Why does my wife never seem to initiate sex?"
"What can I do about my anger and frustration around being sexually rejected?"
"How come I can't always tell if my wife has had an orgasm, and what can I do?"

If you've asked one of these questions, you're not alone! Men are curious and want to have deep, intimate relationships, but sometimes can't find the answers. Doug interviews Leslie in this episode to get to the bottom of some of these questions.

There's more!!!

Many other topics and questions arose during the talk including:
- The difference between men's and women's sexual fantasies and sexual desire.
- What is underneath men's sexual frustration and the personal and relational "fix" for it?
- The role of fear of not getting sexual needs met and men's sex "drive".
- "Does pornography work as an antidote to a difference in sexual desire?"
- How couples can work through and negotiate their sexual life in all its nuances.
- Why men's pursuit of their partners often fails.
- The truth about "sexual incompatibility" and what to do.

The episode takes an unexpected turn in the latter part of the episode when Doug asks about why affairs happen and if men (and women) can get the passion back after the affair.

This is a lively discussion that will help the listener become Better, Smarter & Sexier!

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It's Doug's turn to put Leslie in the hot seat and interviews Leslie.

Doug asks the daring questions that YOU want to know the answers to:

• Does size really matter?
• Do clients take their clothes off in sex therapy?
• What exactly is a sex therapist and what do you do?
• Who comes to sex therapy and why?
• What is great sex anyway?
• How are men and women different when it comes to sex? Or are they?
• How does one become a sex therapist?
• Are some people just not sexual at all?

He also presents numerous real life couple examples for Leslie to "solve". Leslie answers these questions with the real truth using her experience as a Master Sex, Love and Relationship Coach, licensed Individual and couples therapist and AASECT Sex Therapist.

This is a lively discussion that will help the listener become Better, Smarter & Sexier!

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Leslie has the joy of interviewing Doug in the second episode of Men and Sex.

The conversation is deep and rich. We uncover what healthy sexuality is for men and what is underneath men's desires.

"Most men want to be better men" but don't necessarily know the path in the intimate, sexual, interpersonal and relational arenas.

Men are lovers and leaders but need to unearth and explore identity, emotions, the heart of a man, the role of porn and becoming whole as a man. Doug emphasizes the critical importance of men understanding their own complexity so they can live fully, powerfully and confidently in and out of the bedroom. Many men lean on sex as their primary avenue for the management of their emotions, releasing stress and feeling alive and connected, but must reconcile what sex is about for them, what it really can be and who they are as men.

Lastly, the "GREAT WANT" for men (that both men and women hold) is highlighted.

PLEASE Subscribe, Enjoy! And Become, Better, Smarter and Sexier!

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Leslie and Doug discuss male sexuality in a date-like set-up over a nice glass of red wine. They have a very real and at times raw conversation about men, sex, and what it's all about and cover topics including:

• male sexual development,
• the importance of sex,
• what is addiction,
• out-of-control sexual behavior,
• men's feelings and desires,
• pornography and much more

THIS is a must listen to podcast!

Insights, stories, wisdom about men, and at times contrary opinions gained from the real-life work and experience of joining personally with men as their mentor, coach, therapist are shared.

This conversation is full of information and understanding that every man and the women who love them can grow from and become "Better, Smarter & Sexier."

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What does it take to have a successful dating life?
Do you need confidence?
Do you need game?
How has dating changed since the pandemic?
Where is dating headed - online, in real life, both?

I was delighted to have three incredible, knowledgeable dating coaches to talk about what single people are up against, how to navigate dating, and what the sexual culture is like today in this first part of Sex and Dating Today.

About my Guests:
With over 10,000 hours of one-on-one coaching and training experience, Nate Hockstra is an expert in helping men find meaningful relationships without the use of any "pick up" or game playing. You can connect with him at Ditchthegame.com

Connell Barrett is the founder of Dating Transformation and a dating coach for The League. He is the author of the book, Dating Sucks, But You Don't, a dating guide for men in the #MeToo Era. He's also an advisor for AskMen and Elite Daily, and has appeared on "Access Hollywood," and the Today Show, as well as in Playboy, Cosmopolitan, and O, The Oprah Magazine. You can read his weekly advice column, "Ask the Dating Coach," at DatingTransformation.com.

Anwar White is a certified dating and relationship coach for women of color who has helped thousands of women heal their hearts, date effectively, and get their guy! You can check him out further at Get Your Guy Coaching, or book a free consultation with him at getyourguycoaching.com/apply.

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Sexuality, Sensuality, Erotic… all words that women tend to shy away from.

BUT… Cindy Scharkey and I are here to empower women to put aside their fear and embrace cultivating sensuality and erotic energy in one's life and relationships.

This episode hits on what's blocking women's expression of sensuality and ways to overcome it. To have the freedom to voice what they need and to seek pleasure. Put the work of YOURSELF on the forefront. Let yourself have what you long for: in yourself, in your life, in your sexuality, and in your relationships.

Cindy Scharkey, RN, BSN, is passionate about breaking the silence surrounding women's sexuality. Through her workshops, speaking events, and private consultations, she equips women with both content and self-confidence to express, experience, and enjoy their sexuality. She also empowers parents with knowledge and confidence to be their child's primary sexual health educator. Cindy offers sex education and resources through her free monthly newsletter and blog at www.cindyscharkey.com.

And she just launched her new book – Permission for Pleasure: Tending Your Sexual Garden

Thank you Cindy for our delightful and empowering conversation.

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