In this week’s E4A Podcast, we sat down with longtime friend and football coach Paul Peterson, who has coached hundreds of college athletes and raised five boys of his own. His message to parents: we must be more intentional.

Paul sees a growing trend—kids struggling not because they lack talent, but because well-meaning adults unintentionally teach them to rely on excuses. He put it simply: “Kids know when you’re fluffing things for them. They see right through it.” When parents blame the coach, the refs, the playing time, the system, or the circumstances, it sends a quiet but dangerous message:
“Your growth is someone else’s responsibility.”

The best parents—and the best athletes—reject that mindset.

Paul talked about the shift in modern parenting: “We used to hover. Now we snowplow—moving everything out of the way.” But adversity is not the enemy—it’s the classroom. Kids gain confidence only by facing difficulty, not being protected from it.

When a child wants to blame the environment, the coach, or the situation, Paul suggests helping them focus on the only things they can actually control: effort, attitude, preparation, and response. Those are the muscles that create resilience.

Paul shared that his sons know he loves them regardless of performance. That kind of clarity gives kids freedom to try hard, fail, learn, and try again. The best post-game conversation is often just:
“I love watching you play.”

As we discussed on the episode, kids today need the reminder:
“Perform your way into opportunity, don’t pout your way into it.”
Nothing builds character like working hard, staying ready, and letting your actions—not your frustration—speak for you.

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Ashley Matern may not be a household name—yet—but her story is one of the most powerful we’ve ever shared on the Especially for Athletes podcast.

A world-class tumbler, Ashley has faced the highest highs and the lowest lows in one of the most demanding sports in the world. After a devastating leg injury in 2023—featuring a cracked tibia and torn ligaments—most assumed her career was over. But Ashley knew she wasn’t done.

This episode dives deep into her comeback story: from missing World Championship teams since 2019… to becoming the 2024 U.S. Tumbling Champion and earning her place back on the world stage. Her message to young athletes is clear and unforgettable:

“Don’t close the door on yourself. If there’s still gas in the tank, make someone else close the door—you don’t shut it on yourself.”

Highlight Moment:

“The joy after the absolute antithesis of joy.” – a commentator, watching Ashley celebrate with her coach after her winning run.

Listen to learn:
• How Ashley handled years of coming up short—and kept going
• What it takes to return from a career-threatening injury
• The mindset of an elite athlete when the world doubts them
• Why persistence might lead to your best performance yet Watch, share, and get inspired at e4a.org

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Credits: Hosted by Shad Martin Produced by Shad Martin and IMAGINATE STUDIO

In this powerful episode of the Especially for Athletes podcast, we sit down with NCAA National Champion Ashton Lunt (formerly Ashton Riner), whose journey from small-town athlete to BYU record-holder is as inspiring as it is instructive.

Ashton opens up about winning the 2022 national title in the javelin, the intense pressure she felt as a top-ranked athlete, and the deep personal battles she faced—especially her experience overcoming an eating disorder. She shares how routines like intentional journaling, focused time management, and affirmations helped her build confidence, recover from injury, and rediscover her fire after setbacks.

Ashton also reflects on identity, motherhood, and using her spotlight to bless others. Her message to young athletes is both honest and hopeful: your worth is not defined by your performance, and you are never alone in your struggles.

Highlight Moment:

“I went from not even making nationals to winning a national championship within a year. And I just put my head down and worked—journaled every day, focused on my cues, and reminded myself: I am Ashton freakin’ Riner.”

Listen if you want to learn:

• What it really feels like to win a national title
• How to “win the hour” and manage high-level performance with real life
• The warning signs and recovery steps for eating disorders in athletes
• Why being intentional with your spotlight can help others heal

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Credits: Hosted by Shad Martin
Produced by Shad Martin and IMAGINATE STUDIO