In this episode of Fuck the Rules of Love, we’re getting real about what healing inside a relationship actually looks like.

For the first time ever, my partner James joins me on the mic (a little unwillingly but we got him there 😉) to share his perspective on how our relationship has evolved - from chaotic, reactive, and insecure… to calm, trusting, and genuinely connected.

We’ll dive into:
✨ The emotional chaos that came with early motherhood, COVID, and unhealed fear
✨ How I used to demand control, chase reassurance, and mistake intensity for love
✨ What changed when I stopped trying to “fix” us and started taking responsibility for myself
✨ The turning points that nearly broke us - and how those moments became the making of us
✨ Why your healing will always ripple through your relationship (for better or worse)

This conversation is honest, raw, and beautifully grounding - a behind-the-scenes look at what it actually takes to rebuild trust, communication, and emotional safety after years of disconnection.

You’ll walk away seeing that true transformation doesn’t come from perfect partners - it comes from brave ones who choose to grow together. ❤️‍🔥

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