In this segment of "Questionable Grief Decisions" we explore the intricate and often tumultuous relationship between grief and decision-making. Jo Story, our guest and host’s mother, divulges her deeply personal experience of choosing to start wedding planning merely two days following the death of her brother. This decision, made amidst the fog of profound grief, epitomizes the complexities of human emotion and the often irrational choices we make in times of sorrow. Through candid reflection, Jo articulates the conflicting feelings that accompanied her choice, ultimately recognizing it as a manifestation of her grief and a misguided attempt to assert control over an uncertain future. This segment invites listeners to contemplate their own experiences with grief and the decisions made in its wake, while fostering an understanding of the shared struggles inherent in the grieving process.

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The focus of this chapter is the profound exploration of grief as we engage in a heartfelt dialogue with Jo Story, the mother of our host, Story. Jo recounts the harrowing experience of losing her younger brother, Leroy, who succumbed to stage four colon cancer at the age of 42. This poignant conversation delves into the complexities of familial relationships, the burdens of guilt, and the emotional landscape that accompanies such a significant loss. Jo reflects on her evolving relationship with Leroy, from a nurturing sibling dynamic to the challenges posed by distance and life circumstances. Through this intimate exchange, we gain insight into the enduring impact of loss and the intricate pathways of healing that emerge in its wake.

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Mady's Tattoos Madys tattoos is based out of mission beach California where She specializes in Japanese traditional , black and grey , photography, art, and media. Mady believes that tattoos can be more than art, they are milestones, memories, and reminders of how far you’ve come. To learn more or book a session you can find her on instagram at madys_tattoos. Azadi Healing Azadi — which is FARSI for freedom — empowers individuals and communities through trauma-informed care and events such as nervous system regulation, reiki, sound healing, breathwork facilitation and more. Whether you're exploring healing or navigating grief, Azadi Healing offers a sacred space to come home to yourself and find your center. Remember that you’re never alone on this journey. Visit azadihealing.com

The salient point of today's segment revolves around the profound concept of "moments of knowing," which we explore in depth. These moments are characterized by inexplicable experiences that connect us to the energies of those we have lost, often manifesting as sensations that transcend the physical realm. Story recounts a particularly significant experience during a trip to San Francisco, where she felt the presence of her late husband while scattering his ashes at a beach. This event was punctuated by a remarkable and synchronistic occurrence: as she released his ashes, the weather shifted dramatically, illuminating the spiritual essence of the moment. Erika and Story engage in a thoughtful discussion about the nature of these moments, emphasizing their importance in the context of grief and healing, and inviting listeners to reflect on their own experiences of knowing.

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Sponsorship for The Upside to Grief

Mady's Tattoos Madys tattoos is based out of mission beach California where She specializes in Japanese traditional , black and grey , photography, art, and media. Mady believes that tattoos can be more than art, they are milestones, memories, and reminders of how far you’ve come. To learn more or book a session you can find her on instagram at madys_tattoos. Azadi Healing Azadi — which is FARSI for freedom — empowers individuals and communities through trauma-informed care and events such as nervous system regulation, reiki, sound healing, breathwork facilitation and more. Whether you're exploring healing or navigating grief, Azadi Healing offers a sacred space to come home to yourself and find your center. Remember that you’re never alone on this journey. Visit azadihealing.com