In this episode, I dive into what it’s really like navigating motherhood without a traditional support system or “village.” I talk about the challenges of raising young children with minimal help from family and friends, and I reflect on my own journey—growing up without my mum, having limited support from my dad, and figuring out how to do this whole parenting thing mostly on my own.

I explore how so many modern parents are in the same boat, missing the community support that previous generations had. I chat about what it means to build your own “village,” whether that’s through family, friends, or the people you intentionally bring into your life.

I also share insights from other mums and grandmothers about how parenting has changed, and how much clearer communication and mutual understanding we need across generations. And I get into the importance of both emotional support and practical help—whether that’s asking directly, outsourcing when needed, or connecting through community groups, playgroups, or online spaces.

I wrap up by reflecting on some of the real, practical steps we can take to create a supportive network, and the importance of recognising what we need and actually asking for it.

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