Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP201 – Swinger Event Hosting Isn’t for the Weak

Ever wondered what it really takes to host a swingers lifestyle event? From clogged toilets in lingerie to DJ sets soaked in sweat, this candid crossover with Mickey & Mallory from the Casual Swinger Podcast exposes the highs, lows, and hilariously gross realities of being a swingers event host.

We’re pulling back the velvet curtain to share our wildest stories from hosting major lifestyle takeovers like Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism Jamaica and Libertine Events Miami. You'll hear about guests gone rogue, glow-stick overkill, questionable hotel staff, and the unexpected emotional weight of managing relationship drama at sex-positive parties.

Stick around for the segments:

• Top 5 Unsexiest Things We’ve Done at a Sexy Event

• What’s in Our Swinger Event Survival Kits?

• True or Trope? — a rapid-fire myth-busting game about lifestyle stereotypes

• If One More Person Asks Me To… (You know who you are)

• Toast, No Roast — our heartfelt shoutouts to guests who made it all worth it

• Tipsy Takeaways — advice for nervous newbies, returning guests & aspiring event hosts

Whether you're a seasoned swinger, an aspiring event planner, or just here for the behind-the-scenes chaos, this episode is a laugh-out-loud, learn-a-lot look at what it takes to run the sexiest events on earth—without losing your mind (or your vibrator).

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Condom carnage and playroom clean-ups

• Conflict resolution and crying girls in the hallway

• Lifestyle myths: fact or fiction?

• Our ultimate swinger event survival kits (snacks, lube, Narcan, and more)

• How to be a better guest at lifestyle takeovers

• Gold-star hosting advice from three lifestyle veterans

Useful Links from this Episode: Casual Swinger Podcast – https://casualswinger.com/ Libertine Events Miami Swingers Takeover – https://libertineevents.com/miami/ Libertine Events San Antonio Takeover – https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio/

Support the show + get exclusive bonus content: 👉 Patreon – Wanderlust Swingers

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EP200 – Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks

In our 200th episode, Cate and Darrell reflect on a decade in the lifestyle — and ask: can old swingers learn new tricks? From awkward dress-downs and single-guy overloads to sexy vibes, secret blowjobs, and diverse party crowds, this one is packed.

We hit up three different swingers clubs in three weeks, including CitySwingers in Copenhagen (a real let down), Party Players in the Netherlands (a sexy swingers club but not a swingers event), and finally the X Club in Toronto — where a hotwife glory hole scene played out in real-time.

You’ll also hear about:

• What makes a club feel sexy (or not)

• Swingers vs. sex clubs: what’s the difference?

• Party diversity, drug culture at events, and the illusion of no-phone policies

• Cate’s secret hotwife escapade: from business-bitch lingerie to anonymous cock sucking

Plus, we tease what’s ahead for Cap d’Agde, share a major Libertine Events milestone, and celebrate hitting 200 episodes without a single piña colada spilled on the mic. Cheers, you filthy animals.

• Swingers Clubs Reviewed – CitySwingers (Copenhagen), Party Players (NL), and The X Club (Toronto)

• Dress Down Disasters – From mismatched underwear to sensory shutdowns

• Hotwife Glory Hole Fantasy – Cate and a stranger's cock, one hole, zero hesitation

• Diversity Wins – Why inclusive swinger parties feel better

• Behind the Curtain – Real talk on party rules, event polish, and the drug-vibe spectrum

Useful Links from this Episode:

• Support Us + Access Exclusive Content - https://patreon.com/swingingdownunder
• X Club Tour on YouTube - https://youtu.be/YFmlAlm42E0?si=-h1iBPwUTnIVoI63
• X Club Toronto Website - https://www.thexclub.net/
• Party Players Lelystad (Netherlands) - https://partyplayers.nl/
• CitySwingers Copenhagen (Denmark) - https://www.swingeren.dk/
• Libertine Events – Swingers Takeovers & Parties - https://libertineevents.com
• Contact Us - email@wanderlustswingers.com

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EP199 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle

In this episode, Cate and Darrell dive into the psychology and practicality of spontaneous vs. responsive desire — and how this can make or break your experiences in the lifestyle. Whether you're the one who’s ready to go at the first flash of lingerie or someone who needs the right mood, connection, or even lunch before feeling sexy, we explore what it all means for swingers navigating clubs, hotel takeovers, and multi-day events.

We also update you on the notorious dildo from the last episode — yes, Cate used it. Was it sexy? Science-y? Did it cause a UTI? (Spoiler: yes to all of the above). Plus, you’ll hear about Cate’s surprise visit to a Canadian club, her puffed-up chipmunk face courtesy of the Dutch healthcare system, and a viral Facebook video that got her slapped with a ‘bullying’ violation. You can’t make this stuff up.

Finally, we tackle a fantastic listener question: Why are we pickier on dating sites than in real life? Is it about spontaneity, judgment, or just too many filters?

The Dildo Debrief – Cate puts the giant toy to the test (with help) and shares the honest, messy aftermath

Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire – What it means, how to spot it in yourself or your partner, and how it plays out at lifestyle events

Desire Mismatches – What to do when one partner is ready to pounce and the other needs time to warm up

Listener Q&A – Why are we all trolls online? Cate reflects on being pickier in apps than IRL, and what that says about connection

Be A Better Swinger Tips – Learn your desire style and how to meet each other in the middle (without pressure)

Website: www.wanderlustswingers.com YouTube: Wanderlust Swingers on YouTube Libertine Events – Texas Takeover: https://libertineevents.com/sanantonio Email: email@wanderlustswingers.com Support us & see the uncensored dildo pics: patreon.com/swingingdownunder

Tell us what turns you on, how you navigate mismatched desire with your partner, or what you’ve learned in your own lifestyle journey — we love hearing your stories and insights.

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