If you’re an overwhelmed dog parent who keeps finding calm… only to lose it again, this episode is for you. In this episode of The Mindful Dog Parent, ethical dog trainer Siân Lawley-Rudd shares calm dog training advice and nervous-system-aware support to explain why calm doesn’t always stick, and how anxious dog owners can stop feeling like they’re starting over every time things wobble.

1. Why calm can feel fragile even when you’re doing “everything right”
2. How nervous system states affect consistency and behaviour
3. Why it feels like progress disappears (even when it hasn’t)
4. The difference between holding calm and returning to calm
5. Why pressure makes regulation harder for you and your dog
6. How to stabilise calm without forcing motivation
7. What actually builds safety and confidence over time

1. Dog training burnout
2. Feeling behind with your dog
3. Anxiety around behaviour inconsistency
4. Self-blame when calm doesn’t last
5. Exhaustion from “starting again”

If something in this episode resonated, you’re welcome to message me just one word that describes where calm sits for you right now.

No explanation required.

And if listening quietly is all you have capacity for, that’s enough.

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Takeaways:

1. Calm is not a static state, but rather a dynamic rhythm that ebbs and flows throughout our lives.
2. The feeling of calm may recede not due to personal failure, but as a natural response of our nervous system to stressors.
3. When seeking to regain calm, it is crucial to approach oneself with kindness and understanding rather than self-blame.
4. Supporting our dogs in achieving calm requires us to first regulate our own emotional states and nervous systems, as they are attuned to us.
5. The cycle of improvement followed by regression is common in dog training, and returning to foundational practices can be an effective strategy.
6. Recognizing that progress is not linear and that small victories contribute to long-term stability is essential for both dog owners and their pets.

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